Comments on: The Isolation Of Narcissistic Abuse https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 05 Oct 2020 06:50:17 +0000 hourly 1 By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243810 Mon, 05 Oct 2020 06:50:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243810 In reply to Brenda Foust.

Hi Brenda,

my heart goes out to you – what you have experienced is incredibly painful.

Please google my name plus child alienation and I hope my resources can help you.

Sending you love and healing

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Brenda Foust https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243723 Sat, 03 Oct 2020 16:27:21 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243723 This led me to look up Stockholm Syndrome as it has come up often in therapy. I found an interesting read on this topic(see link) My challenge continues to be that my children have been turned against me. There is no greater pain. I would love to read a blog specifically targeting this issue. It is the most painful of all.
https://counsellingresource.com/therapy/self-help/stockholm/

]]> By: Mihai Sorescu https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243038 Thu, 24 Sep 2020 17:19:36 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243038 Thank you.
You saved my soul.
Now I can face the pain knowing the true.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243023 Thu, 24 Sep 2020 06:07:07 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243023 In reply to Melanie.

Hi Melanie,

I hope that this has helped bring you some clarity and peace.

I’d love to support you further by letting you know about my upcoming one day workshop, which I know can help you so much http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/digital pass

Much love to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243022 Thu, 24 Sep 2020 06:05:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243022 In reply to Faye.

Hi Faye,

It’s awesome that this resonated.

I’m really thrilled for you that NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp has helped so much!

And thank you for giving a shout out re my workshops – I’m very excited about the one coming up this weekend http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/digitalpass

I am so sorry that this alienation by your daughter has happened to you – that is beyond painful.

Faye, myself and Thrivers over the years have been able to help many people suffering from this. My highest suggestion to you is to come into the NARP Member’s Forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member to receive much-skilled love and support with this.

Sending you love and healing.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243021 Thu, 24 Sep 2020 06:00:02 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243021 In reply to jean.

Hi Jean,

You are very welcome.

Please know Jean that with Module 1 or the Source Healing and Resolution Modul you can work with shifting the trauma in your body contributing to “this being exhausting”, which will help it not feel so much so!

Please also know the NARP Member’s Fourm is such an amazing place for you to healing guidance at any time that you need http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

You are doing wonderful inner work and should be so proud of you!

I so agree, and I hope that NARPers will help the birthing of our New Earth.

Much love and many blessings to you

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Michman https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243020 Thu, 24 Sep 2020 05:50:14 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243020 A view of the positive and negative conversions of psychic energies held in the body: Isolation can be read as a low or inverse energy frequency conversion of the energy of connectedness. for example. By subverting you at your dependency points, the positive frequency is converted to a negative version in you. In the negative state, it can then be consumed (literally astrally and psychically absorbed) by the disguised parasite. They cannot digest the same energy in its positive state; they have to bring you/it down first. This is also an additional explanation why they repeatedly build you up first, then repeatedly pull the rug out from under you (the program is extended with gaslighting). This is the installation and maintenance of a compulsively repeating program in you, in which your positive energy is built up, then be converted into its negative version in you, to then be consumed by them, until you’re coughing up dust in the desert. The point of this and related awareness, however, is to use it as material for more conscious boundary clarity, and so you can better create the space to understand, contact, heal and transform the specific personal susceptibilities in you — which they helped catalyze into available awareness for you. No need to thank them — you’ve already paid for the service.
There can be many layers to a susceptibility or dependency, so going forward it so of course it enforces your immunity coninuum to make every healing and release of the trauma involved as deeply bodily truthful, and radically accepted as possible for transformation.

]]> By: Melanie https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243019 Thu, 24 Sep 2020 05:27:04 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243019 It was wonderful to watch your video and finally understand what has happened in my life. My abuser disabled my entire support network and my mother passed away 2 years ago before we reconciled. I’ll never see my sister or niece and nephew again. I haven’t really understood the depths of trauma I’m sitting with until now.

]]> By: Faye https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-isolation-of-narcissistic-abuse/#comment-1243018 Thu, 24 Sep 2020 04:31:34 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=8507#comment-1243018 Dear Melanie,
You described this perfectly ! This is exactly what I lived through and what a bizarre and torturous experience it was. It’s taken years to heal. And for sure, my year and a half of intensive NARP work has proven to be the most effective healing modality of all. Sure wish it had been available back in the 1990s when my personal nightmare began. Even therapists didn’t fully get it or help much back then.Thanks to NARP and your wonderful workshops I’m doing so much better.
My remaining issue is that my former husband was doing parental alienation behind the scenes and finally managed to position our daughter to abuse me by proxy, and this is still going on. It started when she was 18, she is now 23 and is abusing by stonewalling , which was her father’s favorite tactic. He has convinced her that I am mentally ill and was a terrible mother, neither of which are true. It’s been over five years and I have no idea where my daughter even is.
Can you give some words of wisdom to those of us who are being abused by proxy by our own children? It is hard to know how to proceed, and the accompanying grief is massive.

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