Comments on: The Narcissist Has No Power Over You https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 25 Aug 2021 04:42:11 +0000 hourly 1 By: Peter https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1255717 Wed, 25 Aug 2021 04:42:11 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1255717 In reply to Joseph Albano.

It’s time to turn inwards and release myself NOW!

]]> By: Healthygirl https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1254255 Tue, 13 Jul 2021 18:23:15 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1254255 It’s true, the narcissist (will call him Big AL) is not my rock. Facts don’t bother us at all, we don’t have to do the crazy convoluted stuff narcs do to feel a confirmation bias of their wishful thinking.

]]> By: Goodies https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1254253 Tue, 13 Jul 2021 12:42:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1254253 Not sure the ex narc was a terminator what with being a womanizing drug addict and all, nor would anyone bother to chase after junkies. :/

]]> By: yvonne gurski https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1196392 Thu, 25 Jul 2019 04:23:14 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1196392 I have successfully kicked Mr. crazy out of my house, however he is a hoarder & all his “belongings” are in my garage downstairs. He has ALOT of stuff. Also in the backyard. He seems to think he can come & go as he pleases, thru my gate to the garage. I have tried locking the gate, he finds another way to get in. I tried locking the garage door, he tore apart my locks. I don’t care if he gets his things, but on an agreed time schedule. He lives by no schedules. He says he has nowhere to put his stuff. He is semi homeless. Which he uses as another guilt factor against me, amongst many more. I am never right, he says. He says “I love you, we belong together”, I tell him I don’t love him he needs to get his stuff and go. He tells me I’m wrong, that I still love him, and he doesn’t know why I’m acting this way. Its total insanity. I’m glad I found your information. I just discovered that he has is a narcissist a couple of months ago. And we were together 10 years, on & off. I need help trying to formulate a plan to get rid of him. The police are no help, I filed a VPO against him, he went to jail for a 3rd time VPO violation for almost a year, but when he got out, he was so sincere & made me so many promises, I feel for it again. And broke my VPO. And feel totally stupid. But I am done, finished, to much water under that bridge, I despise him. I just need some guidance. Thank you for letting me vent!

]]> By: SkinNurse https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1188834 Tue, 02 Jul 2019 17:51:32 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1188834 Are narcissist always abusive or can a man still be a narcissist without laying a hand on someone?

]]> By: Chipmunk https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1185698 Tue, 25 Jun 2019 18:08:41 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1185698 ‘It’s time to turn inwards and release myself NOW!

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1176461 Fri, 31 May 2019 23:25:06 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1176461 In reply to Sarah Paul.

Hi Sarah,

That is so wonderful you have have let go, cleaned out and made space for your life force and True Life to enter.

Thank you for your beautiful share.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Sarah Paul https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1176417 Fri, 31 May 2019 09:41:07 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1176417 In reply to Maureen.

Hi Maureen, going through this myself….. I found myself it’s been incredible …. finding your information Melanie has only enforced what I’m already doing. I can tell you it’s so refreshing and wonderful, I cannot explain how or even why this came about. I think I just woke up one day and decided this is not what I’ve chosen to do with my life and I need to make changes and do exactly what I need to do and that is to follow my path.

I hadn’t realised how one person could alter one’s life, crush dreams, break promises, be so loving one minute and so gut wrenching and destroying the next. For years I put up with this treatment, thinking if I did this better or that better or cooked this way instead of that way he would be kinder to me. I remember a few times trying to talk to him about what was troubling me and the response I got back was “I don’t care and I don’t need to know”. As an empath I would sit there hours after hour listening to the torture he had experienced for some reason or another. Easter Monday (2019) just gone we had the biggest blow out ever, I didn’t even need to scream I just spoke calmly, and his response back was (can’t write it here)…… then during the week I experienced “anger” should I say “sorry” on day 7 after the blow out (this was of course during the periodic silent treatment) I cried like I had attended a funeral of dear sweet loved one. The next morning I woke up and thought oh geez why do I feel FANTASTIC……. then I realised I had let him go…. yes I had let go of him once and for all. I’m back to enjoying wearing make up – fixing my hair, taking care of what I wear, fending for myself and out teen age son. Humming singing and enjoying my life in general.

Of course the joy of cleaning yes cleaning, all those keep sake’s I’ve been clinging on to are being thrown away – trashed….. silly stupid trinkets that I thought I needed to keep me happy – thrown out…. cleaning house is amazing, cleansing the body, mind and soul….. get rid of it people, anything that connects you to that beast get rid of it…. give it back, had it to the children if neither want it trash it, it has NO value. Dump it get rid of it and clean your soul, keep NO memento’s get rid of it all. Start fresh, if it’s been stored not touched looked at use – get rid of it, clear the chaos.

Welcome back to living …..

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-has-no-power-over-you/#comment-1176246 Wed, 29 May 2019 06:52:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6806#comment-1176246 Awww Elderberry,

You are so welcome and that’s great Clarie is helping you!

She is amazing! Keep reaching out if in need.

You have soooo got this!

Mel 🙏💕❤️

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