Comments on: Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Story #18 Marla https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-18-marla/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 18 Jul 2022 06:07:24 +0000 hourly 1 By: Anum zeeshan https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-18-marla/#comment-1271136 Mon, 18 Jul 2022 06:07:24 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2795#comment-1271136 In reply to Marla.

Hi marla,
I am married since 2001. Just before 6 months i come to know what is exact problem. As you leaved your marriage 8 years before what is your experience and do your kids understand your situation and how he irritated you after separation.

]]> By: Amy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-18-marla/#comment-1265718 Mon, 28 Feb 2022 06:06:44 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2795#comment-1265718 In reply to Marla.

Marla, I need you and Melanie to know that what you both shared back in 2014 is still having enormous healing ripple effects even today in 2022.
At first, I too was concerned that shifting and Quantum healing might not be in agreement with my Christian faith. I am still very new to NARP but my healing has been nothing short of a miracle! I have peace more after every shift. I believe I am evolving into the healthy, happy smiling soul God had created inside of me all along.
Marla, I have no idea how I found you but what you shared has helped me so much. I too was betrayed by my ex Narc on so many of the same levels and ways you were. I too discovered he had been living a double life the whole time I was with him. He was engaging in very high risk anonymous homosexual fetish sex. The fear, shock and humiliation I have felt has been isolating. You are so right it’s not really about the homosexuality it’s about the layers of betrayals and lies. I now know that which almost destroyed me has opened the doorway to the most important journey of my lifetime! My soul is smiling!
I hope you get this message. I deeply want to thank you for sharing your Thiver journey!!

]]> By: Linda Broyles https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-18-marla/#comment-1239941 Fri, 31 Jul 2020 13:15:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2795#comment-1239941 I have listened to Maria’s story and it is so similar to my situation, In August we will be married 44 years and dated for almost 5 years. I have wasted 3/4 of my life with this man. Last April I finally had enough and left. I had been slowly packing up my car and locking it so he could not get in it and he got really angry with me because he had lost control of me. I have struggled for over a year with emotions and hearing the lies he is telling on me to anyone who would listen. Accused me of sleeping with every man in my church and the whole community. I was heartbroken to think that the man I loved could talk about me like this. I listen to Melanie’s stories and read the information. I finally have found my inner strength and filed for divorce last week. It is so hard to think that I would have to start my life over having been disabled for 27 years and have not received one dime from him in over a year. The day I left he changed the locks on the house so I could never get back in..A month ago he lied to his former employer telling them we were divorced in May and took me off the insurance illegally. I finally found the strength to be strong enough to get this scum bag out of my life. Thanks for your information and help getting me to this place in my life. I could not have done it alone, thankfully I have my church family to support me. There is so much more I could say about this, but I know you understand having gone through this.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-18-marla/#comment-1162314 Sat, 13 Apr 2019 03:10:37 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2795#comment-1162314 In reply to Marilyn.

Marilyn,

You are so welcome.

I’m so pleased you don’t feel alone.

Love and blessings to you.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

]]> By: Marilyn https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-18-marla/#comment-1162207 Fri, 12 Apr 2019 16:53:52 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2795#comment-1162207 Thank you Thank you so much!! We also were in ministry and I struggled so much with failing God. This is so my story as well. Thank you for sharing your story. It lets me know I’m not alone. So not alone.

]]> By: Patty Parrish https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-18-marla/#comment-1076474 Fri, 06 Jul 2018 13:18:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2795#comment-1076474 This was my life. Thank you for telling your story.

]]> By: Changing https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/thriving-after-narcissistic-abuse-story-18-marla/#comment-1063038 Sat, 16 Jun 2018 19:50:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=2795#comment-1063038 Thanks Marla for sharing. Glad to hear you and your girls are doing great. Well done! Big hug.

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