Comments on: What A Narcissist Does At The End Of The Relationship https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Mon, 14 Aug 2023 11:14:43 +0000 hourly 1 By: Bee Wholly https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1282970 Mon, 14 Aug 2023 11:14:43 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1282970 You shared a great article. I would like to appreciate your time and effort in creating this meaningful information. Here are my Thoughts about Narcissistic Abuse Recovery .
This article provides crucial insights into the manipulative tactics narcissists employ during the end of a relationship. Understanding their behavior empowers us to break free and reclaim our lives. The mention of narcissistic abuse coaches offers a promising resource for healing and moving forward. Truly eye-opening and informative.

]]> By: TC https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1270173 Sun, 12 Jun 2022 06:40:12 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1270173 This is the most succinct, immensely deep, article , capturing the core points of NPD and giving an excellent set of examples valuable to those who “know already” but yet sufficiently empathic to look for a solution to heal these unfortunate creatures.

I have read books on the topic but this article really aces it , it’s all you need to know nice you have carefully deciphered each word and understand it’s the full impact

Thank you , it’s beautiful

]]> By: Heather mason https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1269772 Tue, 24 May 2022 15:32:37 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1269772 I’m currently in a relationship with a narcissist. I’m stuck with no way out. He won’t leave. I tell him to get out but he just calls me names and stays sitting on the couch. I can’t call police. Long story. I’ve lost all hope.

]]> By: Jacob https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1267166 Sun, 10 Apr 2022 13:58:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1267166 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Hi Melanie. Your excerpts are interesting reads and informative. I’m very paranoid about what lies ahead for myself and ex given my two young children. The law can’t help and she is a law unto herself.

]]> By: Lisa https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1249978 Sat, 20 Mar 2021 19:06:39 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1249978 In reply to Michelle.

You give me hope!

]]> By: Lisa https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1249977 Sat, 20 Mar 2021 18:58:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1249977 In reply to Marguerite.

Your story resonates with me. I’m grateful for the successes I accomplished before I met my Narc ex. I think my experiences of genuine love and care from previous relationships with non -narcs helped me shake off a lot of the emotional abuse. At first, I was confused bc no one ever spoke to me or treated me so disrespectfully but I fell for the empty promises and false apologies during the hovering phase.

I don’t know if I will ever find true love after this like you did. I am open to it and hope one day I can be happy in love again. You give me hope.

]]> By: Trehvn https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1248929 Wed, 24 Feb 2021 22:55:29 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1248929 Or lying that you don’t share a home with them and are crazy, so the local rocker townies will feel special, unique, chosen and will porn trash coddle the narc.

]]> By: Mike the Lion https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1246659 Wed, 20 Jan 2021 17:49:16 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1246659 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

Been reading and watching your videos for a while on and off and atill don’t know if my ex wife is a narcissist or just a tired INTJ or INFP Myers Brigg personality type. She can message me after something important such as a family death ( my family) or when she needed help with translating Christmas and New Years messages then block me everywhere and say she has no time for my messages. I usually tell her that I’m doing my best to forget about her and am forcing myself to chat to a load of women on Badoo. No relashionships. No dating. Just chatting. Since she’s told me she isn’t in love with me and will never get back with me I thought she would take this positively.

When we lived together with our kids the longest silent treatment she gave me lasted 3 months. I did my best to reconcile and she sent me a kiss emoji for the last time. I was suspecting a work affair though and found that she had worn several lingerie garments and not washed them. I confronted and got angry and she went beserk.

I am still not sure what happened to this day. She has cut past boyfriends off. 2 ended up threatening suicide.

The intermittent pain I feel is bad. I can literally feel it. I probably have ADHD and can sometimes hyper focus so that doesn’t help.

Have kids and she is thank God good with them. I’m far from perfect and have been a irrresponsible bastar*. Have had alot of bad luck though. Complex family stuff which I cant go into but I’ve squandered good luck too by gambling ( got hooked when she first cut me off 3 years into our 21 year marriage) and alcohol. Never hit her but have grabbed her arms. She has been worse to me lol.

Wish I could figure it out. I’ve experienced semi war zones and the stress is nothing to this.

]]> By: maria https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-a-narcissist-does-at-the-end-of-the-relationship/#comment-1244425 Fri, 23 Oct 2020 17:22:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=6933#comment-1244425 during the six years we split up,we been seeing each other ,he told me to wait for him for 5 years,the last time i was with him was the end of august,and beguin of september ,i found out he married someone else last march,was really paintfull ,but i decided no more ,he stop contact me when i send him the proof about his marriage,but i know it will try to contact me,but i wont even answer

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