Comments on: What To Do When A Narcissist Swiftly Replaces You And Flaunts Their New Supply https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Sun, 13 Jul 2025 04:06:08 +0000 hourly 1 By: search box optimisation https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/#comment-1286085 Sun, 13 Jul 2025 04:06:08 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5104#comment-1286085 search box optimisation

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]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/#comment-1280815 Mon, 22 May 2023 06:56:39 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5104#comment-1280815 In reply to Ed.

Hi Ed,

yes, this was the revenge act that narcissists love to do.

Have the final painful say, to “win”.

Sending you love and healing.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’žπŸ¦‹

]]> By: Ed https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/#comment-1280744 Thu, 18 May 2023 12:43:46 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5104#comment-1280744 Thank you so much Melanie. I have just discovered your work, after coming out of a 20 year abusive relationship. I finally left some months ago and started seeing someone else, a mutual friend. My ex didn’t care about me leaving and refused my overtures towards counselling. Then, when he found out about my new man, I think he suffered what you describe as a ‘narcissistic collapse’. He became abusive, threatened to get my new friend sacked, then he punched my friend and lost his own job (they work together). He came to me in such a fragile state and said he would do anything to be with me again, and was absolutely prepared to go to counselling and work to change. I felt so sorry for him. We started counselling and seeing each other (though I didn’t give up the new man completely – I couldn’t trust my ex enough to totally recommit – thank god). Four sessions in, after we were planning a reconciliation and to go to Sydney together as a trial, he informed me he is pursuing a relationship with a new woman he has been seeing for two weeks. Part of me is relieved. She can look after him and manage him into his miserable old age (he is 61, older than me and significantly older than his new gf). But I am also ragged with the quick replacement. In a way it’s not that he is flaunting it; it’s actually that he’s NOT being abusive. He has turned off the tap of emotion completely. He wanted to kill the other man; now he wishes me best of luck with him. He sees his new gf every day. I’m starting work on the wound from a mother who didn’t love me demonstrably and was unpredictable in her kindness to me (although I have a very good relationship with her now). It’s just so hard to understand why I care about his sudden replacement of me – it’s not with someone who is ‘better’ than me (I am a high achieving person). The sudden about-turn from jealousy and devotion to complete indifference is like yet another pulling out of the rug from under me. I don’t want him. His behaviour to me was unacceptable and included pissing on me once and regularly kicking me out of the bed when I displeased or argued with him. I have so much work to do. I am congratulating myself that I actually came out of the relationship with my sense of self relatively intact. But the jealousy is so hard, and so stupid, and it hits me in the guts every time I think of it. I try to visualise him in a little box that I just send spinning out of my world. This helps a bit.

]]> By: dammy https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/#comment-1248497 Wed, 17 Feb 2021 17:23:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5104#comment-1248497 I absolutely felt this was great all the way up until the end. Yes I can see how this hurt could stem a little from my childhood. But man, oh man. Being replaced within a blink of an eye by my husband of 15 years and keeping my kids from me and literally doing everything. Pictures the whole life I had is instantly being lived by another woman and my kids are being kept from me by them because of lying and manipulated courts etc. Yes, soon will be able to be stopped but it’s been a struggle to be able to get representation because he took and has all our money.. ! He is a covert. And I had all the good love in the first 2 years it was amazing. I still am dumbfounded and shocked at how he got by me. Smdh. But that hurt he has done to me and my kids im telling is so far beyond my childhood.. maybe I’m missing something here. But I’m pretty sure even if my dad wasn’t a narcissist and always compared me to all his friends kids and how great they all were etc. Etc.. think anyone regardless on how healthy and happy they were if someone fooled them like this and than literally took your whole life your kids and replaced you and there wasn’t anything you could do about it. Would be devastated to the core

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/#comment-1237925 Wed, 27 May 2020 00:03:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5104#comment-1237925 In reply to Christina McDonald.

Hi Cristina,

please know how welcome you are.

Absolutely, hun, the trigger is to show you what is left to heal, and that’s all perfectly okay stop

Sending you love, healing and blessings

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•πŸ’š

]]> By: Christina McDonald https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/#comment-1237919 Tue, 26 May 2020 15:22:47 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5104#comment-1237919 Hi Melanie, Just to say thank you so much for another very helpful video. I had a bad trigger the other day, the narcissist and his new supply came round and I feel like I went right back to square one in some ways. I have tried to work through what brought up a resurgence of anger in me and why it hurt so much and then I realised it was because of the injustice. No closure. I felt the old revenge cycle I had been experiencing 2 years before rear it’s ugly head again and then I felt annoyed because I knew I was better than this. I felt I had been doing so well and now I feel sucked in again. I need to work on some anger issues I think. Seeing it as an opportunity to grow..triggers are horrible but the pain is the medicine. I believe that had to happen to show me what I had to heal but I also saw how far I had come too.I used to feel a lot worse and am much improved but there is still work to be done on some parts of myself which I am aware of. Thank you again.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/#comment-1097244 Sun, 16 Sep 2018 11:06:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5104#comment-1097244 In reply to Alison.

Hi Alison,

That is wonderful that this resonated with you, and please know I so understand how it feels to be hooked to a pathological person.

It is akin to feeling like we have sold our soul.

The first step to specific inner transformational healing is this: http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse

Ultimately the healing tool in this community that has allowed myself and so many to heal and break free is NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

I hope this helps.

Mel πŸ™πŸ’•β€οΈ

]]> By: Alison https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-a-narcissist-swiftly-replaces-you-and-flaunts-their-new-supply/#comment-1097220 Sun, 16 Sep 2018 06:29:53 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5104#comment-1097220 Wow, what you explained is me. During your video, before you mentioned it, I realized I had felt discarded as a child when my younger brother was born. I plan on working to heal that little girl. Also I am guilty of everything you mentioned and now I have become the other woman and I am extremely shameful about it. It feel like an addiction to him and he isn’t even a good person. He always weasels back in my life by me allowing him to manipulate me into feeling sorry for him. Recent,y he was actually diagnosed with Bi-polar with psychotic tendencies as well as NPD or possibly Anti-social personality disorder due to his lack of remorse. And guess who had compassion for him because he is struggling with his diagnosis? It’s disgusting and I hate myself for it. Anyways, I am in California but was curious about something you had mentioned in the video. N.A.D I think it was. Is that a seminar or workshop or online class type of thing? Thank you so much for your video and efforts to help,others. I am a Greg and alcohol counselor working on my Psychology degree to help addicts and this dance I habe been doing has got to stop. I will work on healing my wounded little fractured girls and hopefully that will help. Thanks again. ❀️

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