Comments on: When The Narcissist Makes You Out To Be The Crazy One https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Tue, 13 Jun 2023 06:30:13 +0000 hourly 1 By: M https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1258228 Wed, 27 Oct 2021 06:06:45 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1258228 What makes me really mad is that any family or friends I tell acts as if I’m crazy when I tell them what is happening to me and ask for help. The narcissist in my life controls access to money I earn and won’t let me have a phone or anything that would allow me to be independent. They come along whenever I need to go places and makes it seem like they’re being nice and taking care of me. This is an older family member that I depended on when I was orphaned and they never let me get control of my own finances. Nearly everyone who knows turns their backs on me and judges me because the narcissist is so good at acting nice in public. I can’t tell the truth about the narcissist without seeming nasty because the truth is very ugly. I keep thinking about the Gabbie Petito incident where they police blames the disagreement on her mental health. That’s my life in a nutshell. I just want control of my own life and people think I don’t have to right to resent my situation.

]]> By: Stay-C O https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1230721 Tue, 04 Feb 2020 05:49:07 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1230721 What if the narc is your 70 yr old mother? How do u get away without feeling guilty. It’s not like she only has about 10-15 yrs left. And I have kids that miss her. We moved 2000 miles to get away. She tries to love bomb my kids through sending shit in the mail. I do I get through this. ????

]]> By: Julie https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1224895 Fri, 13 Dec 2019 09:50:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1224895 In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans.

I’d really like to know how Kathleen is doing. Her story is very sad.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1220989 Tue, 26 Nov 2019 00:29:51 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1220989 In reply to Gina.

Hi Gina,

if you Google my name on this topic I have resources that I know can help explain this to you.

I hope this helps.

Much love

Mel 🙏💛💕

]]> By: Gina https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1220923 Mon, 25 Nov 2019 19:03:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1220923 All I do is attract narcissists…why?

]]> By: Sue https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1218072 Tue, 12 Nov 2019 20:15:19 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1218072 My daughter’s husband is a nark. He is always right and puts her down at every chance. She will not leave him because of her children. She had to quit work because he did not like the personnel . They separated once a he told his son she was a lier and a cheat. He will not let her know anything about Money. We buy everything for her and the kids. This includes their house cloths tuition and food. Her health is going down fast. How can you live with one and stay sane?

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1185428 Tue, 25 Jun 2019 05:54:11 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1185428 In reply to Chantel.

Hi Chantel,

Many of us sweetheart had done tons of healing too, before finding a Quantum way to deeply heal the traumas in the subconscious.

Chantel I want to help you understand how to get true relief, clarity and power and free yourself from these trauma patterns.

Please come join me in my free Masterclass http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/masterclass

Sending you love and healing

Mel 🙏💕♥️

]]> By: Chantel https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1185409 Tue, 25 Jun 2019 05:08:55 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1185409 How do you know though, truly if you are the narcissist or not? I’ve been in a very toxic relationship for a decade, I’ve siffered from silent abuse? So psychological and emotional, it feels like I am constantly in a state of walking on glass, biting my cheek and my stomach in a continuous knot. It goes through cycles and I analyze the relationship enough to feel sure he is a narcissist- an altruistic one now for sure. My health is declining, I’ve lost touch with who I truly am … when he isn’t around it feels like I can actually breathe. I do a lot of meditations as energy clearing and I try to stay positive. Here’s the thing though, I come from a traumatic childhood- physical abuse, I left home at a young age and through my early years did a lot of self healing and started my spiritual path, I have ptsd and anxiety but I keep it under wraps pretty good—- I feel like- because of my background- what if it shaped me to be a narc, one as well, could we both be delusional ? I just want to be free of him, but I feel so trapped, and I need to protect my kids, he scares me enough that I feel like I am in protection mode of my children all the time, I’m constantly having to monitor what he says and unravel what comes from his mouth and when he goes into the rages, I do my best to defend but usually end up backing down and camping out in a room with the kids. I know as long as I am around I can be the supply and he mostly stays off the kids. He comes from a wealthy family and has amassed so much control, he looks like the perfect citizen to the outside world. His ex has to go through all this trauma and even had her baby boy taken away from her. I couldn’t bear the pain of losing my children… so I bide my time, slowly going crazy, constant migraines… chewing on my cheek.

]]> By: Dedicated https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/when-the-narcissist-makes-you-out-to-be-the-crazy-one/#comment-1174778 Thu, 16 May 2019 12:27:10 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5671#comment-1174778 Yeah, I am a victim of narcissistic abuse. Not just in relationships but also relatives and friends. I have not had a relationship with men for 15 years and no sex in almost nine years. The abuse with severe ptsd has traumatically destroyed my inner happiness and taken what human basically thrive to live for away. It seems they all thrive on my despair and jump on what ever happiness may enter my life. Yeah I could get away, but how and where? It’s scientifically impossible now, A fossilized an A in their.

“ Sour Human Brain wash at its finest”

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