Comments on: Why Are Narcissists So Damn Entitled?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 20 Jun 2021 00:29:33 +0000

In reply to Suzanne.

Hi Suzanne,

if you google my name plus “Am I the Narcissist?” I hope that my information can help clarify this for you.

Also if you are working with NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp and are a Gold member, I can’t recommend enough reaching out for support and guidance in the NARP Member’s Forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/mamber – it will be invaluable for you to help you break through.

I hope that this can help

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Suzanne

Suzanne — Sat, 19 Jun 2021 16:32:00 +0000

Hello & thank you for this video – I can def recognize some of the behaviors discussed in this video that are things my husband does but the thing that bothers me are some of the things I also find myslf doing and it really bothers me and often times makes me all myslf whether I’m a narcissist as well- I have a hard time wanting to do the healing work and let go of believing he will change and accepting my helplessness and trying to control him into seeing how much I’m hurt & would like him to just understand what I’d love to have with him ect. The way I react makes me believe or wonder if I’m also narcissist

By: Terri Arena

Terri Arena — Thu, 24 Sep 2020 15:11:39 +0000

Hi Cynthia,
Your words are my words exactly, it’s short and so powerful – you are not alone, I truly understand I was about 35 years invested too, and feeling exactly the same way also. I understand how their cruelness of their behaviour is so incomprehensible to us when we have given them our all. We will recover, I hope you are doing well. I am doing NARP and healing myself and my inner child as well.

By: Anja

Anja — Sun, 26 Jul 2020 00:04:41 +0000

I live abroad for 30 years now, and when our first child was 6 months old, my parents visited us for the first time. After constantly complaining that I spent too much time with my daughter and spoiled her by giving her too much attention, my mother eventually got so angry that she locked herself in her bedroom for the majority of the visit, and refused to interact with us. I remember that she did not hold her grandchild even once. After she had returned home she told friends and family that she had been treated awfully by us. My parents never returned for another visit, even after their second grandchild was born. This happened 23 years ago! Instead my parents insisted that we would travel to see them every year. Crazy!

By: Candice

Candice — Wed, 17 Jun 2020 21:06:47 +0000

In reply to Readi. I’ve been through the same thing for 18 years I couldn’t even have a girlfriend of course because she took up some of my attention to the point where this year he basically had a mental breakdown through threatening to kill himself because I was out with a friend and I refused to come home he then proceeded to threaten the whole family so the police and cat team were called and he was in hospital for a week however after coming out 3 months nearly I have not let him come back into my life however I have tried to do everything to be amicable helping him move house as we have two children together and getting text messages of how awesome I am and what great friendship we will have a very short lived in between abusing me texting me saying disgusting vile things that I have never done all through the phone so in a sense he is not in the house but he’s still doing the same thing to me I will not let him break me today I need to change my phone number with every message I just cannot believe I gave this man 18 years of my life he is definitely from a broken childhood and the things that happened to him was shocking but he will never be happy and it’s not my job to make him happy and it breaks my heart every day all I can do is try and shut him down with children involved in this so difficult I just received marriages of insulting messages then it twists to being nice again and then back to terrible messages feel like I’m dealing with two completely different people. Now he threatens to kill himself but he keeps telling me that because he knows it upsets me and that he will ruin his children’s lives he does not seek help he does not want to help he’s an alcoholic hold down a job very well and he’s very held high in his field but soon as works over the demands if I don’t answer his text straight away puts me on edge straight away here so hard even when I am not living with him. The funny thing is all this time over the years the accusations I never did anything I’m not the person he says I am none of this ever needed to happen yet it is all my fault. Because of this he has basically just created his own reality and then turns on me to say yes I am a worthless piece of shit I told you so. Everything I read every article I read is exactly him it’s very sad I know what’s happening when it’s happening I know exactly what he’s doing to me . Today I am finally going to change my phone number after 15 minutes because I just cannot take it any more I really hope he does not start on the children and they have their own phones he has not involve them to this point but I need to completely disconnect yet I still feel the need to gauge what’s going on with him for my own safety that is a very fine line and so exhausting 😓😓

By: Lucy

Lucy — Sat, 11 Apr 2020 05:41:26 +0000

In reply to Melanie Tonia Evans. I was almost ‘sold’, and hopeful this site would be of help. But am now suddenly feeling hopeless. No one is perfect but to even respond to a political comment like that is so very (I don’t even have calm or kind words to say).. Did you know that the previous president referred to ‘himself’ over 40 times in his final speech as president? In the most recent State of the Union address our current president referred to himself 3 (three) times! Let’s rethink which was the Narcissistic president!..!..! Mb must not know what a narc is. Sad #fakenews I wish for you and yours much success and a rewarding life. But am once again back to my own (on my own) twisted path out of my situation.

By: Sue

Sue — Tue, 10 Mar 2020 01:16:41 +0000

In reply to Cynthia. 31 years for me, too. I could have written your comment, Cynthia, exactly. Divorced less than 5 months and so glad to be free of the craziness. Happy to be on my own at age 70. Time to be happy and live!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 20:55:28 +0000

In reply to Sharon Hoffer.

Hi Sharon hun,

Yes I promise you Dear Lady you will … with empowered and healthy boundaries where you will never be used up and taken advantage of again

Are you a Gold NARP member so that we can help support and guide you in the NARP members forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member ?

This can help you so much!

If you are not a gold NARP member then you can email support@melanietoniaevans.com to get connected.

I hope this helps and much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💛

By: Sharon Hoffer

Sharon Hoffer — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 23:37:40 +0000

Hi Melanie, thank you again for writing such a great article, explaining this aspect of narcissistic abuse. It’s one part of my relationship of 18 years with my ex narc, that I’m now really struggling with. It’s just that realisation of how someone you loved could have been taking such an advantage, taking everything good you had, without remorse or guilt! I was an overly generous and giving person when I met my ex narc, now I feel all shriveled and used up. Will I ever regain that old part of me again? I just feel depleted and empty.
I continue to do your NARP program because I truly believe it’s the one thing that can heal me and allow me to move forward, and one day, thrive 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽