Comments on: Why Can’t I Stop Loving The Narcissist?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sat, 31 Aug 2019 08:28:55 +0000

In reply to Diyas.

Hi Diyas,

please google my name + narcissistic parents and there are many resources there that can help you.

Mel 🙏💕💛

By: Diyas

Diyas — Sat, 31 Aug 2019 00:36:02 +0000

In reply to Genevieve. Hi Mel, what if the N is your parent? How do you stop loving them?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 15 Apr 2018 01:12:24 +0000

In reply to Angie BARTNESS.

Hi Angie,

I hear you and your pain. That kind of confusion is terrible when you feel stuck in patterns and cant feel heard and find the clarity to get out of those patterns.

Ellen, I’d love to help you get some clarity and perspective, which I believe my resources do … they can help you unravel this.

If this is something that interests you the starting point is here: https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse I hope this helps.

Mel xo

By: Angie BARTNESS

Angie BARTNESS — Sat, 14 Apr 2018 22:30:14 +0000

I am in a relationship right now with a narcissist personality who continued to point out my flaws and insecurities…he wanted us to go to counseling. So I did….and we had a horrible argument on Wednesday…we have been together for 3 years….we had an argument over something that was very small….my husband goes and does things that makes him happy but when I want to do something….it seems that sets him off. He is so moody….states that he has his own demons….I feel like I am pulling out my hair now because he wants divorce. We have only been married for 9 months….I agree this is probably for the best because we have had a horrible pattern since we met….but to keep in this pattern is insanity…..I feel that he has double standards too…..I am getting silent treatment….I hurt so bad…..I just feel complete dispair. I didn’t listen to my inner small voice.

By: F

Mon, 26 Feb 2018 19:19:01 +0000

Correction of the last comment: I know my boyfriend, ex-boyfriend i broke up with hum yesterday is a narcissist*

By: F

Mon, 26 Feb 2018 19:16:45 +0000

I know my boyfriend, ex-boyfriend i broke up with hum yesterday. But even though i deep down know this i still have hope that maybe he acually loved me and maybe he just is a little bit of a narcissist and not totally. I cant seem to accept that he didnt love me because I still love him so much and i feel i would do anything for him, but im not going to! Is this normal to feel this way?

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Wed, 27 Dec 2017 22:05:20 +0000

In reply to Heather.

Hi Heather,

I am so pleased that this video has helped you.

Sending you blessings, courage and support. You have got this Dear Lady!

Mel xo

By: Heather

Heather — Tue, 26 Dec 2017 16:36:05 +0000

Thank you so much for this video…you have no idea how helpful it was to watch. It brought me to tears at the end. I’ve recently realized that loving someone who treats me so poorly is preventing me from valuing/respecting myself and hence, finding real love within myself or from a man. I see that being with this narcissistic man is only serving to recreate childhood traumas and reinforce the core belief that I’m unlovable. I know I have a lot to offer and that real love is supportive, dependable, easy, kind — my currently relationship is none of these things. I do not need this man, I need myself only, and I need to end this relationship so that I can be whole and intact. Thank you so much…I came across this video at absolutely the right time.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 19 Nov 2017 23:59:00 +0000

In reply to Strongwind.

Hi Strongwind,

you are very welcome and I am so pleased this helped.

Strongwind have you joined my 16 Day Free Course? It will help you so much start that healing path – back to you – https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse

Mel xo