Narcissism is largely genetic/inherited. There is no cure. If he is being abused, mistreated by his daughter, which he would be with any narc, the only thing to do is to put distance between him and his child. He didn’t say he doesn’t love his daughter, or that he is cruel to her, but for his self preservation, he must distance himself, it is the only way.

Hi Sondra,

You are very welcome and I am so pleased I can help.

Absolutely the narcissist will true to get all they can and hurt you as much as possible in this process.

Sondra I have done a few resources on this topic that will help you if you google my name and ‘divorce’ they will come up.

I so hope they help.

Wishing you strength, healing and breakthrough.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

I would love to know your thoughts on “Why Doesn’t A Narcissist Want Love, Happiness Or Peace?” in divorce – I mean during the mediation/litigation process – and how we can navigate it all.

Perhaps it’s the same – wanting drama and the upper hand – that causes promises made and broken. Carrot dangled and taken away.

Thank you for all you do. You are a Godsend!

Hi Sophie,

If you are prepared the meet and heal your inner traumas and keep doing that without looking to self avoid and self medicate with narcissistic supply.

Absolutely.

Mel 🙏💕❤️

I am a narcissist, is there hope for me?

How can a father do that to his own children? If there is problem with your daughter, you are as much responsible for it as her mother. A loving parent would never cut off his/her child! As you see, not even her narcissistic mother did such a horrible thing!

Stay Narcissist free! There is no happiness, peace, love, and hope in these low life creatures. They only love themselves. Sure, they will say everything you ever wanted to hear, they will act like everything you always wanted. All the time, these were just tactical deployed maneuvers to get you close. After they achieve that they will bite you in your heart and suck all of your love, energy, and soul. They will play with you for awhile while they devalue you behind your back. Once all the pieces are in place, they will discard you without warning… They want to leave you barely alive so they can come back when their resources dry up (their next relationship fails). If you become suicidal or theyou destroy your will to live will feed their ego even more. They want to be you because you are real and they are fake. If they left you (most likely) consider a testament to your strength. Your vampire couldn’t control you, so they had to smear your reputation and toss you. I say let them think they can come back later, meanwhile educate yourself and focus on being the strongest version of you ever. Weeks, months, or years later they will try to come back to feed, shut that down with no emotion. Mirror their emptiness as you turn them down. And if they don’t come back, good. It’s a win win. Watch your 6 and never invest anything into these vampires, because they suck and you don’t! Always pit yourself first! Never give up and stay strong for yourself. Your true love could just be a day away.

Because of you I just had an A-ha moment. I, too have used helping as a way to control AND I refuse to ask for help because I don’t feel worthy. Thank you for your comment! ❤

Hello Susan,
I am support staff for Melanie, unfortunately, due to significant time constraints Melanie is no longer taking private appointments. She has designed all of her resources so that you don’t need to depend on her personal attention to progress. I have helped hundreds of people to use the program to recover and I would like to help you as well. Please send an email to support@melanietoniaevans.com and let me know a little bit more about what is going in in your process using the modules, which module you are on and how often you do them and we can work together to make sure you are getting the results you need.
I look forward to working with you.
All the best,
Clarie