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Why Narcissists Punish You at Vacation Time - Path2Positivity — Wed, 16 Nov 2022 23:45:26 +0000

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By: Filiz Cemal

Filiz Cemal — Sat, 07 Aug 2021 05:22:12 +0000

He left me 4 days after my 25 year old son died

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 03 Aug 2021 02:33:16 +0000

In reply to wendy.

Hi Wendy,

I don’t know whether you have ever considered it … I would recommend NARP http://www.melanietoniaevans.com or Thrive http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/thrive

Either of these programs would help you SO much – more than you can imagine.

If you already are working with NARP, then please lean into the NARP member’s forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member to help you detach, anchor into your power and truly break free into your True Life.

I hope that this can help

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: wendy

wendy — Sat, 31 Jul 2021 01:52:29 +0000

Thank you Mary and Melanie, I have been trying to be strong and act positive for my 9 year old son but really I’m an emotional mess. It’s really hard to focus on myself and healing when the narc is doing the silent treatment for weeks, plotting and planning as he does, just the worry of this.
It makes him angry if I try to speak to him about it all, but It also makes him passively angry if I don’t try and just ignore him too. I wish I didn’t care at all, it would be so much easier. I will come into the webinar. I have come to a few and have they helped so much. I’m done with twisting myself into a pretzel just to get nowhere.

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 30 Jul 2021 03:23:25 +0000

In reply to Vicki Wharton.

Hi Vicki,

please know I am sending you and your daughter love and breakthrough for what you are going through.

Are you in the NARP Forum receiving support at this time http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Fri, 30 Jul 2021 03:21:15 +0000

In reply to Wendy.

Hi Wendy,

I am sorry that you are going through such terrible trauma.

I’m so pleased that my information has helped, and I would love you to come into my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar to help you detach and take your soul and lifeforce back.

I hope this can help and sending you love and strength

Mel 🙏💞🦋

By: Anna

Anna — Fri, 30 Jul 2021 00:33:47 +0000

So true @Iris!!! Xx

By: Mary

Mary — Fri, 30 Jul 2021 00:17:16 +0000

In reply to Wendy.

Your story resonates with me, and I hope sharing this will be of some help. I, too, came to feel like it was my fault he was always so angry with me and began to believe it. Once I’d finally had enough & cut him off, I still actually thought he’d be relieved because I had been such a problem for him. That’s when the magic happened. He couldn’t accept that I was gone & didn’t want any contact. This is what your guy will do once you’re ready to leave, maybe weeks later or even years later, but he WILL come back trying to lure you. I had blocked this guy everywhere so he found way around it to reach me. He said he missed me, wanted to be friends, wanted me to meet the son he had with my friends girlfriend he’d gotten pregnant … like, what?! You think I want any of that?! His delusion was so ridiculously laughable that I decided to reply and said, “Why on earth would you want to be friends with someone you called a liar, bully, cheater, psycho, etc?! Why did you treat me like garbage if you want me around so badly?!”. His reply said it all: the truth is I am not the things he said I was, and he knew it the entire time. He just didn’t care what he said or did til he lost me. Too late. You know the way he portrays you isn’t accurate. If you were truly such a span, he wouldn’t have to poke you into reacting to record for people who don’t know any better. Please try to stay strong & remind yourself often that someone who loves or even just respects you doesn’t talk to or about you that way or treat your feelings like flaws. When you’re ready to start focusing on yourself & your life again, you’ll reconnect with people who do love & respect you which helps ground you back into the reality you knew before this person. And when, not if, they come back trying to tell you they’re sorry & didn’t mean what they said, you won’t even care because you’ll already have stopped second-guessing yourself about who you are. I’m rooting for you because I know you can do it if I could! Best of luck & SO MUCH LOVE to you!

By: Iris

Iris — Thu, 29 Jul 2021 14:13:44 +0000

Dear lovely recovery community,

These are horror stories of the first order and excruciatingly painful experiences that take applied and assisted effort to clear our of our system.

Melanie has the ONLY compete program to help heal from the inside out…

But not only do we truly heal and remove the pain, BUT WE TOTALLY THRIVE LIKE NEVER BEFORE.

I want to shift your expectation to this place BEYOND being free from the poisson and pain of narcissistic abuse because you MUST FACE THE FACT THAT WE ABUSED OURSELVES.

NARP works because we discover that the power to feel that deep love etc that the Narc promised but never delivered, that ability IS WITHIN not FROM anyone .

NARP sets free to a point where I promise you, you will cry tears of gratitude for having gone through this pain. You will come out on the other side and find YOU. FIND US. FIND GLORIOUS UNIVERSAL BEAUTY AND POWER that is hard to describe..

NARP does more than set free from pain of abuse, NARP leads you to PERFECT LOVE that nobody can take away from you .

May grace keep you in this path of recovery and empowerment. I am a witness to the efficacy of NARP.

Do not stop until you are THRIVING.

Blessings to all and gratitude to Gid for Melanie.