Comments on: You Can’t Heal What You’re Afraid To Feel

By: Lynn

Lynn — Fri, 08 May 2020 17:05:48 +0000

In reply to DMJ.

DMJ…I am in the Rochester area, are you nearby? I’m new to Melanie’s site and God Sent assistance….
Thank you…

By: Chasity

Chasity — Wed, 23 Oct 2019 19:36:34 +0000

I am going to go quantum now!

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Tue, 24 Sep 2019 07:47:14 +0000

In reply to Jerzy Roginski Jr.

Hi Jerzy,

to fully understand what I mean, please come into my free webinar. All is explained there – it is a BIG conversation http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

Mel 🙏💕💛

By: Jerzy Roginski Jr

Jerzy Roginski Jr — Mon, 23 Sep 2019 23:06:09 +0000

To be clear about you what you mean:
so what you mean is to fully accept and allow all of your thoughts and emotions to be present, let go of them, stop trying to fight or figure them out and allow them to be and release over time and by doing this eventually all of the built up emotions we have been avoiding will have a chance to be processed and released leaving us free from dissociation and anxiety again?

By: bestringtoness.com

bestringtoness.com — Sat, 21 Sep 2019 21:56:36 +0000

You might say, but burglars can be real, what then? True, but you can feel safer knowing that the door is locked and a parent is nearby to keep an eye out for any problems. In other words, get snuggled in and get some sleep!

By: Kondwani

Kondwani — Sun, 08 Sep 2019 04:34:06 +0000

‘I am going to Go Quantum NOW!’

By: Melanie Tonia Evans

Melanie Tonia Evans — Sun, 25 Aug 2019 05:24:55 +0000

In reply to Jamie.

Hi Jamie,

I am so pleased you found your way through.

Many continued blessings to you

Mel 🙏💕💛

By: Jamie

Jamie — Sat, 24 Aug 2019 12:08:01 +0000

In reply to Weena. Agree!!!! Talk therapy didn’t help in the least. Quantum was the only way for me. Bless you Mel and your team. Because of you and other life coaches like you I found a way out.

By: Angie

Angie — Sat, 24 Aug 2019 11:46:14 +0000

Having gone through hell with my Narc who’s been having an affair with a friend under my nose, but always refuting it and turning the blame for everything back on me, he suddenly cheered up, got back to his old lovely self and suggested a holiday. Deeply suspicious I agreed and came to the conclusion part way through the nicest holiday in 20 years that perhaps his mistress is finally off the scene, I went with the flow and it was eerie in how nice the time away was. Back to chatting about all our interests, jointly exploring places, having lovely meals. No intimacy as he refuses to even touch me, but his manners were impeccable and we had fun! Of course as we headed home I couldn’t help but wonder if I’d dreamt it all or if he’d get nasty again at the drop of a hat but I put it out of my mind as I was so relaxed.

One week back to work and I hardly need say he’s being secretive, tetchy and manipulating again. It seems he’s planning a first time ever lone holiday abroad with an old male school friend who’s said he’ll even pay his airfare to make sure he goes. The friends wife in the past has regularly invited us both to stay with them in Europe but it looks as though I’m going to get left out. I’ve no idea how to play this or react when he tells me he’s going. I’m extremely hurt. He also announced last night that his other best friends daughter is giving birth next week. They’ve kept all that back from me for all those months? I feel I need to pinch myself to see if I still exist…. I’m sure this is all fascinating to you Mel but after such a lovely high and secretly wondering if everything is going to be all right after all, I’m ashamed to own up that we’re sliding back to the old days of major narcissistic abuse where I’m likely to be belittled regularly, ignored and sidelined and told yet again none of our friends will want to come to dinner so don’t ask them. My holiday blues are here…