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		Comment on How To Break The Psychic Connection With A Narcissist by David		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[David]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2026 09:55:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you. I have been targeted by some evil souls. Even now when I watched the video, a woman came in to sweep the floor at the 10 minute mark when you have the solution, trying to distract me. But I am onto to them. I can see the patterns. It’s always small things like this. I am rewriting the comment because I got an error code last time I wrote it. This stuff is very real.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you. I have been targeted by some evil souls. Even now when I watched the video, a woman came in to sweep the floor at the 10 minute mark when you have the solution, trying to distract me. But I am onto to them. I can see the patterns. It’s always small things like this. I am rewriting the comment because I got an error code last time I wrote it. This stuff is very real.</p>
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		Comment on &#8220;Am I The Narcissist?&#8221; by Caitlin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Caitlin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2026 11:08:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[AITN? 
I love bullying people and then pretending im the victim. i am so good at it, I do not even know i am doing it. I hate accountability and I hate being second guessed. 

when I got a promotion, I removed all my subordinates by bullying them. I got to remake a whole department! I dont care if I took their livelihoods away or left them without income. 

I am finally getting what I deserve. maybe I had to do some bad stuff but it was worth it so far. I have more money, power, and freedom. 

where is the downside? seems to me I have the smarter way of looking at the world. what can you do for me?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AITN?<br />
I love bullying people and then pretending im the victim. i am so good at it, I do not even know i am doing it. I hate accountability and I hate being second guessed. </p>
<p>when I got a promotion, I removed all my subordinates by bullying them. I got to remake a whole department! I dont care if I took their livelihoods away or left them without income. </p>
<p>I am finally getting what I deserve. maybe I had to do some bad stuff but it was worth it so far. I have more money, power, and freedom. </p>
<p>where is the downside? seems to me I have the smarter way of looking at the world. what can you do for me?</p>
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		Comment on How I Evolved My Relationships With Family And Friends by jili		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[jili]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 10:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This might fit seamlessly into your article and bring additional depth to the topic you’re discussing. It could offer readers a broader perspective and more useful takeaways. Let me know your thoughts—I’m genuinely interested in your opinion!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This might fit seamlessly into your article and bring additional depth to the topic you’re discussing. It could offer readers a broader perspective and more useful takeaways. Let me know your thoughts—I’m genuinely interested in your opinion!</p>
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		Comment on The #1 Trick For Bringing A Narcissist To Justice by Anonymous		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2026 15:41:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is a great video with a lot of good advice. My questions are a bit unique.
I only have one sibling who is quite a bit older than me, 15 years. He has seemed to hate me ever since I can remember. Nothing I ever did as a kid was ever good enough &#038; the things he did to me then would be considered abuse today. I have completely cut him off &#038; could care less what he thinks of me. I’m married &#038; have 2 fantastic kids &#038; a great life.
But my sibling won’t stop posting lies, accusations &#038; unthinkable things on Facebook about me. I have blocked him so I don’t see it but people have told me what he says. He has now when so far to befriend someone who is in the same business am I am &#038; made up lies to this person about me. So now they are both posting ridiculous lies about me that if were true, I’d be in prison.
I have been ignoring them both because lies are lies &#038; anyone who believes these two people don’t know me &#038; I don’t want to know them. But someday they might actually hurt my career &#038; my family with their lies. 
I have hundreds of screenshots that were sent to me over the years. I have 4 letters written on my behalf about my sibling that proves he’s a liar &#038; protecting his shortcomings onto me. These letters are from my parents doctors who learned about his behavior from my parents, the funeral home directors who were also harassed by him &#038; rehab facilities that helped my parents &#038; he lied about. 
I also have videos of him screaming at  our mother while my father laid in a hospital bed &#038; other videos that show his narcissistic behavior. One video is in public &#038; he’s screaming at our mother so bad that a bystander pulled him away. 
I also hsbe screenshots of his new friend who in his mind, I am a business competitor. I have recorded phone calls of him berating others in our business &#038; a recording of him talking horribly about others at a meeting we had 9 years ago. 
I also have letters written about him from my clients that he has reached out to them to try to steal my accounts. 
So, my question is, do I keep ignoring them &#038; let the cards fall where they fall or do I get an attorney?
Thank you]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great video with a lot of good advice. My questions are a bit unique.<br />
I only have one sibling who is quite a bit older than me, 15 years. He has seemed to hate me ever since I can remember. Nothing I ever did as a kid was ever good enough &amp; the things he did to me then would be considered abuse today. I have completely cut him off &amp; could care less what he thinks of me. I’m married &amp; have 2 fantastic kids &amp; a great life.<br />
But my sibling won’t stop posting lies, accusations &amp; unthinkable things on Facebook about me. I have blocked him so I don’t see it but people have told me what he says. He has now when so far to befriend someone who is in the same business am I am &amp; made up lies to this person about me. So now they are both posting ridiculous lies about me that if were true, I’d be in prison.<br />
I have been ignoring them both because lies are lies &amp; anyone who believes these two people don’t know me &amp; I don’t want to know them. But someday they might actually hurt my career &amp; my family with their lies.<br />
I have hundreds of screenshots that were sent to me over the years. I have 4 letters written on my behalf about my sibling that proves he’s a liar &amp; protecting his shortcomings onto me. These letters are from my parents doctors who learned about his behavior from my parents, the funeral home directors who were also harassed by him &amp; rehab facilities that helped my parents &amp; he lied about.<br />
I also have videos of him screaming at  our mother while my father laid in a hospital bed &amp; other videos that show his narcissistic behavior. One video is in public &amp; he’s screaming at our mother so bad that a bystander pulled him away.<br />
I also hsbe screenshots of his new friend who in his mind, I am a business competitor. I have recorded phone calls of him berating others in our business &amp; a recording of him talking horribly about others at a meeting we had 9 years ago.<br />
I also have letters written about him from my clients that he has reached out to them to try to steal my accounts.<br />
So, my question is, do I keep ignoring them &amp; let the cards fall where they fall or do I get an attorney?<br />
Thank you</p>
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		Comment on 7 Things Never To Say To a Narcissist by J. Hamilton		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[J. Hamilton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2026 01:13:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I lived with him in marriage that was just like all of the above. I was taught as a child to meet people half way in relationships. I was 18 when I married. I didn’t know a narcissist existed. I spent 17 years in that marriage sobbing through most of it. He stole peoples stuff, he was a penis flasher, naked in windows, a forger and a phenomenal liar.I decided to divorce him but told no one of my plans. 
My eyes were opened after he told me that now I knew he was a thief (the neighbour came looking for his new shovel and told me that there was a neighbourhood watch that was watching us) that he was going to continue doing that and he been cheating on me for a long time, now he was going to continue doing both things, l could just  get used to it. 
I decided then to leave and made my plans secretly and left as soon as I could. We lived in country and most of the time I had no money, no car and an infant to carry. If I walked the ten miles in to town. Narcissists keep you
Alone from having people in your life that might spill the beans on them.
To make a long story shorter, last year he rattled my chain again. He has a wife now but he still inserts himself into my life every few years via the offspring who are grown up now. It’s like he wants me to know he’s still there in the wings waiting. He emailed two of my sons and asked about me. Narcissists just don’t let go. I have been divorced 45 years now that contact is ridiculous. Both sons answered by blocking his emails. I have forgiven myself for marrying him. His crap is on him though not me. I am at peace.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I lived with him in marriage that was just like all of the above. I was taught as a child to meet people half way in relationships. I was 18 when I married. I didn’t know a narcissist existed. I spent 17 years in that marriage sobbing through most of it. He stole peoples stuff, he was a penis flasher, naked in windows, a forger and a phenomenal liar.I decided to divorce him but told no one of my plans.<br />
My eyes were opened after he told me that now I knew he was a thief (the neighbour came looking for his new shovel and told me that there was a neighbourhood watch that was watching us) that he was going to continue doing that and he been cheating on me for a long time, now he was going to continue doing both things, l could just  get used to it.<br />
I decided then to leave and made my plans secretly and left as soon as I could. We lived in country and most of the time I had no money, no car and an infant to carry. If I walked the ten miles in to town. Narcissists keep you<br />
Alone from having people in your life that might spill the beans on them.<br />
To make a long story shorter, last year he rattled my chain again. He has a wife now but he still inserts himself into my life every few years via the offspring who are grown up now. It’s like he wants me to know he’s still there in the wings waiting. He emailed two of my sons and asked about me. Narcissists just don’t let go. I have been divorced 45 years now that contact is ridiculous. Both sons answered by blocking his emails. I have forgiven myself for marrying him. His crap is on him though not me. I am at peace.</p>
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		Comment on What I Wish I Had Known Before I Met The Narcissist by Victoria G		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Victoria G]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2026 13:47:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-i-wish-i-had-known-before-i-met-the-narcissist/#comment-590039&quot;&gt;Mary Garza&lt;/a&gt;.

I will have a spot in my heart for him always, I was in love. His care and attention to me could only go so far....

God this is one of the hardest things to realize and accept. Thank you for putting it into words for me.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-i-wish-i-had-known-before-i-met-the-narcissist/#comment-590039">Mary Garza</a>.</p>
<p>I will have a spot in my heart for him always, I was in love. His care and attention to me could only go so far&#8230;.</p>
<p>God this is one of the hardest things to realize and accept. Thank you for putting it into words for me.</p>
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		Comment on The Malignant Female – Understanding Female Narcissism by Z		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Z]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2026 22:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am a narcissist]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a narcissist</p>
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		Comment on What To Do When You&#8217;re Alienated From Your Child by Lyndsey		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lyndsey]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2026 20:49:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-youre-alienated-from-your-child/#comment-1032819&quot;&gt;Jodie&lt;/a&gt;.

what about no contact with your kids for 7 years due to alienation and coaching 7 years of silence and then the kids now start telling lies that your hit them and hurt them why has this happened ?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-when-youre-alienated-from-your-child/#comment-1032819">Jodie</a>.</p>
<p>what about no contact with your kids for 7 years due to alienation and coaching 7 years of silence and then the kids now start telling lies that your hit them and hurt them why has this happened ?</p>
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		Comment on What Does Going Quantum Really Mean? by Andrea Sigala		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Andrea Sigala]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2026 21:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I want to be trauma free]]></description>
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