Comments on: Emotional Blackmail – The Devastating Weapon A Narcissist Uses To Betray You https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/ Devastated by a narcissist? Melanie's Narcissism blog offers support & empowering tools to heal & thrive after narcissistic abuse, gain a new life & fulfilling relationships. Wed, 14 Jun 2023 02:59:51 +0000 hourly 1 By: Tex Hooper https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-1269846 Fri, 27 May 2022 00:44:20 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-1269846 I like your blackmail tips. I need to get a blackmail specialist. My sister is being coerced.

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-1244687 Thu, 05 Nov 2020 07:27:03 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-1244687 In reply to Sadaf.

Hi Sadaf,

My heart goes out to you

can you please email in to my support team at support@melanietoniaevans.com so that one of my lovely team can work out with you what resources you will be able to safely connect up to?

Sending you love, protection and strength

Mel 🙏💕💚

]]> By: Sadaf https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-1244622 Mon, 02 Nov 2020 12:29:35 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-1244622 Hey Mel.
I watched your whole video and this is exactly whats happening in my life right now… This guy has been in a relationship with me for over a year now. He was very affectionate in the beginning but as time passed he started becoming suspicious of me. He gave money to people around me to spy me. Then he asked me about my past relationships. And started abusing me. He said i am character less… I almost started believing him… I wanted to leave him at one point but i was forced again because of the blackmail. Now i am at the stage where i have been called all kinds of name, i have been physically abused too… I live in a muslim society where its not easy if this all goes to public my father mother will kill me if he leaks my private pictures and information…. I am so depressed… Please help me. I want to leave him so badly… I want to kill myself to break free… He made me cut off with my friends… I have absolutely no one left. Can you please help me….

]]> By: Norma https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-932090 Thu, 05 Oct 2017 18:20:17 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-932090 In reply to carol.

You r right. I was so in love with him. He was always there 4him. There 4him. Then his wife passed. He was grieving or so I thought I told him he was going to go through a lot I told him all about my self. My age everything. He told me he met someone. I am older thAn him. She was younger that he had developed an emotion attachment to her. That he cried and cried. We had been together for 25 years. He won’t ans my text calls or messages or Anything. He said he receives them but he just doesn’t respond. I am devastated. The last thing he said. Was that he was he was still in love with me but she was younger than me. He is 61. I am. 73. She is 48. He rides down my block and speeds paSs my house. My neighbors see him. Why do I still love him. Help me. One day to next. Everything changed. He

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-915730 Sun, 27 Aug 2017 22:38:28 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-915730 In reply to Michael.

Hi Michael,

this may help.

https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/does-the-narcissist-know-what-he-or-she-is-doing/

Mel xo

]]> By: Michael https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-915402 Sun, 27 Aug 2017 01:44:56 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-915402 Do they know they are doing this? Or is it subconscious?

]]> By: Melanie Tonia Evans https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-914638 Fri, 25 Aug 2017 02:23:54 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-914638 In reply to VC.

Hi VC,

You are so welcome 🙂

That is wonderful that you are detaching, not falling into the fear and not needing to fight back.

Great work and NARP on Dear Lady!

Mel xo

]]> By: Clara Black Crane https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-914454 Thu, 24 Aug 2017 14:12:40 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-914454 In reply to carol.

It is quite unfortunate that the narcissist is so well-versed in the “Know thine enemy” part. If they were equally knowledgeable in knowing themselves – as the saying goes – none of this nonsense would have happened.

]]> By: VC https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/emotional-blackmail-the-devastating-weapon-a-narcissist-uses-to-betray-you/#comment-914283 Thu, 24 Aug 2017 02:01:27 +0000 https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/?p=5120#comment-914283 Thank you for this one! I’ve been doing NARP since my divorce and keep coming back to this video. My ex’s newest tactic is to tell me the divorce didn’t happen and that there’s no evidence of it and he is making threats to take the children despite not paying any support and defaulting on the divorce without even turning up at court (he’s terrified of authority). I am modified contact and do not engage with him about any of the above.

The key is in this video. Whatever he does is not my problem. Let him try what he wants to try. “What’s true and real” like my divorce decree. I don’t need to keep looking at it to make sure it’s real. I was there.

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