Hi Bernadette,

The very fact that you are acknowledging inner child wounds really tells me that, even though you may be suffering inner trauma, it is highly unlikely that you are narcissistic.

All of us Bernadette had very little resources to be able to look out and look after others, when in such inner wounding.

I would love you to come into one of my free webinars http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar to find out how, absolutely, you can reach, shift out and reprogram your inner wounding in order to get well.

Please also check out this resource of mine https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/am-i-the-narcissist/ which is the criteria as to whether or not you are narcissistic.

I hope that all of this can help you and much love to you

Mel 🙏💕💚

Hi Rachael,

you can find out about NARP in my free webinar http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

This is the best way to understand what it is and what it does.

Also here is the link straight to the NARP Program http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

I hope this helps.

Mel 🙏💕💛

Hi Darrin,

What I am really saying is go within and release yourself from that fear, and then see where your life, passion and unlimited possibilities can take you!

Inner subconscious fearful programs are not allowing you to soar as high as you can.

Come into my free webinar to understand more about this http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

Mel 🙏💞💛

“So how do you know if you are acting from a healthy inner stance or a wounded egoic defence?

Simple … don’t approach anything in your life from a position of fear or pain – because if you do, it is always a wounded centre that your ego is playing with.”

I am writing to ask for further clarification concerning “don’t approach anything in your life from a position of F E A R or P A I N…”

When I was in 6th or 7th grade, a inspirational speaker came to speak at our school. I was pumped. When I returned home, I told my parents I wanted to be a motivational speaker. My dad thought that was a great idea. However, he said, most engaging speakers have overcome incredible feats in their life. I wasn’t deterred.
When I entered university, I minored in speech communication, with and emphasis in public speaking. I enjoyed getting up and speaking to audiences for as long as I can remember. I read scripture passages in my youth to large congregations. Gave multiple speeches in college. All without fear. Instead I had confidence and felt like i was in control. It was terrific.

Then, when I turned 29, I was at a new place. I didn’t know anyone. The facilitator asked if someone would mind reading a lengthy section from our reading. I said I’d to it. I started to read in front of a reasonable size crowd of strangers. Suddenly, fear overcame me. I tried rushing over the words without breathing so I could get to the end and get over the fear. It dropped me to my knees.

I’ve since been employed and have always received positive feedback from many audiences. My job requires me to speak in front of varying size audiences. I still remain crippled with fear. Sometimes I worry for weeks about the topic. Speeches last from 1 hr to 8-hrs. Once I start, I typically overcome the fear. Nonetheless I am curious as to why I suddenly became fearful.

So, back to my original question: The fear your speaking of here, are you telling me because I fear speaking, that I should consider another line of work and maybe speaking isn’t what my inner child or true self desires? Or is it simply my ego and something that I need to investigate further? Or am I simply misunderstanding the term fear here?

Kindly,

Darrin

Awww Laura,

I am so pleased you are working with NARP and recovering you.

Sending you continued blessings and breakthroughs.

Mel 🙏💕♥️