The question on so many people’s lips, in this community, is: “How do I know when I am ready to date again?” After narcissistic abuse, naturally, you may feel terrified about putting yourself out there – and why wouldn’t you? There is no way KNOWN any of us ever want to run the risk […]
Category: Love After Narcissism
First off I want to wish you a happy Valentine’s day. And I know, many of you may be doing it tough … this day can be a very painful one in this community. (Big hugs to you if that is the case.) And that is what today’s Thriver TV episode is all about […]
I know you may be struggling to keep your heart open to love again after narcissistic abuse, and it’s totally understandable, because there is nothing quite like the devastation that this level of abuse inflicts on our heart … And it’s natural for our mind and body to try and protect us. However, you […]
Our most painful traumas are the ones that hurt our heart. Again and again people agonise, as I did too, with the hardest thing to get over – the realisation that this person did not love you. How can we hope to love again after knowing that the love we were invested in was […]
There is a fine line after narcissistic abuse when we start wanting and entering new relationships. Many of us who have worked to heal our Inner Being may be terrified of being co-dependent again! We know the horror and terror of being enmeshed with a narcissist when we had powerlessly relinquished virtually all our […]
This week I had the pleasure to record an interview for you with my dear friend Jeanine Staples, which is all about how to smooth out the barriers, blocks, and resistances we build against social and emotional intimacy. It’s about melting the iciness within our souls. Jeanine is a Thriver extraordinaire because she has come back […]
Kerry’s Thriver Show is so inspirational – and it is wonderful that we were able to do this interview on camera. Two years ago Kerry was at the lowest point she could ever remember. Her marriage had ended and her financial state was ruined. And … devastatingly she thought her dreams of being in […]
A few days ago I launched a very special series called The Once Broken and Homeless Man Who Brought The Thriver Model To Life. Within this series we are tackling, in my humble opinion, the most vital 5 Core Human Beliefs that plague mankind. These beliefs are fundamental, and working with them is not […]
There is a very sad truth about the human race. It’s this …. Despite all the beauty, abundance, love, joy and connection that is there for us to experience, there is something very sinister lurking beneath the surface. Something that we can’t see, yet which impacts EVERY area of our life. And it is so deeply lodged within our […]