The question on so many people’s lips, in this community, is: “How do I know when I am ready to date again?”
After narcissistic abuse, naturally, you may feel terrified about putting yourself out there – and why wouldn’t you? There is no way KNOWN any of us ever want to run the risk of being with another narcissist.
Even after doing a lot of inner work, you may not be 100% sure that you are ready … or maybe you are not sure HOW to get ready.
And … maybe it’s years since you dated, or maybe you never even really dated and don’t know how to do it successfully. (I certainly didn’t until I learnt how to!)
Contemplating whether or not you are ready to date may bring up all sorts of questions, such as:
Is it when I am no longer feeling the trauma?
Is it when I am over the previous lover?
Is it when I believe I know enough about narcissists never to get with another one again?
And … even when I think I am ready … how on earth am I going to keep myself narc proof, and be positive, strong and sane enough to keep going until I meet the right person?
In today’s Thriver TV I want to cut through all the confusion for you, to get really clear on what it looks like to date again, as well as who you need to become as a Thriver Dater, to create a loving true union – like myself and so many others in this community have successfully achieved.
I promise you I was the relationship, dating, love disaster. If I can get it sorted, so can you!
If you are thinking about dating again, and want to share your life with someone special, it’s my greatest desire today, as a result of watching the Thriver TV episode, that you will not only feel hope, but feel totally inspired that it is possible.