Melanie Tonia Evans

Narcissistic Abuse: Steps, Expectations and Possibilities With Jeanine Staples

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  The last few weeks have been such an exciting time for myself and the MTE team. It's been incredible to see so many Thrivers, from all walks of life, coming together to spread awareness of narcissistic abuse, and the tools to heal for real from it. I absolutely adore connecting with you all! Please know, my new book You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse can be in your hands in just 3-4 days time if you are in North America or Europe. You can pre-order your copy here to make sure it arrives as soon as possible. But before you get a chance to read You Can Thrive, I wanted to bring you this next special guest interview ... (more…)

 

The last few weeks have been such an exciting time for myself and the MTE team.

It’s been incredible to see so many Thrivers, from all walks of life, coming together to spread awareness of narcissistic abuse, and the tools to heal for real from it.

I absolutely adore connecting with you all!

Please know, my new book You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse can be in your hands in just 3-4 days time if you are in North America or Europe.

You can pre-order your copy here to make sure it arrives as soon as possible.

But before you get a chance to read You Can Thrive, I wanted to bring you this next special guest interview …

Why Narcissists Devalue You

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Narcissists are NASTY people. Yes, absolutely they can be delightful … But, when they lash out ... all bets are off. No matter what you are doing they find fault; the ways to criticize you, put you down, bring up your most painful wound and throw it in your face, go over again what you seemingly did to them that can never be forgiven … and the list goes on and on. All of which makes you doubt yourself and seriously question your own integrity, intentions, and identity. (more…)

 

Narcissists are NASTY people.

Yes, absolutely they can be delightful …

But, when they lash out … all bets are off.

No matter what you are doing they find fault; the ways to criticize you, put you down, bring up your most painful wound and throw it in your face, go over again what you seemingly did to them that can never be forgiven … and the list goes on and on.

All of which makes you doubt yourself and seriously question your own integrity, intentions, and identity.

The 5 Traits That Make You Susceptible To Narcissists

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Narcissists know how to target, charm and ensnare people. Soooo many of us, despite being smart, capable and even highly successful people in so many areas of our lives, were taken in. And … so many of us shook our heads, threw our hands up into the air and exclaimed – “WHY is this happening to me?!” I was there, and I know you, more than likely, have been as well. (more…)

 

Narcissists know how to target, charm and ensnare people.

Soooo many of us, despite being smart, capable and even highly successful people in so many areas of our lives, were taken in.

And … so many of us shook our heads, threw our hands up into the air and exclaimed –

“WHY is this happening to me?!”

I was there, and I know you, more than likely, have been as well.

Empath’s Guide To Healing After A Narcissistic Relationship Breakdown – With Dr. Christiane Northrup

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  It's almost been a month since we announced the release of my upcoming book 'You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse', and now we are nearing the final two weeks until it's released! Woohoo!! I dearly hope you're enjoying all the materials we've had coming your way. The reason I've reached out to you with all our pre-launch material is that we are passionate about serving the greater mission - to spread global awareness of narcissistic abuse, and the tools to heal for real, to break the cycle of abuse/abused for us and our future generations. Today, we have another extremely special interview for you, which I know will give you immense benefit, regardless of which phase of your recovery journey you are at ... (more…)

 

It’s almost been a month since we announced the release of my upcoming book ‘You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse‘, and now we are nearing the final two weeks until it’s released!

Woohoo!!

I dearly hope you’re enjoying all the materials we’ve had coming your way.

The reason I’ve reached out to you with all our pre-launch material is that we are passionate about serving the greater mission – to spread global awareness of narcissistic abuse, and the tools to heal for real, to break the cycle of abuse/abused for us and our future generations.

Today, we have another extremely special interview for you, which I know will give you immense benefit, regardless of which phase of your recovery journey you are at …

The Best Way To Find Closure From Narcissists

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  If you have ever tried to get closure with a narcissist, you know exactly what I am talking about. Trying to get a ‘sorry’ is ridiculously impossible ... Remorse is not forthcoming ... and, Making amends is unheard of. Unless of course, the narcissist has no other option other than to appear accountable (for their own agenda). (more…)

 

If you have ever tried to get closure with a narcissist, you know exactly what I am talking about.

Trying to get a ‘sorry’ is ridiculously impossible …

Remorse is not forthcoming … and,

Making amends is unheard of.

Unless of course, the narcissist has no other option other than to appear accountable (for their own agenda).

Healing The Blocks That Set You Up For Toxic Relationships – With Katherine Woodward Thomas

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  What an amazing couple of weeks it’s been since we announced the pre-launch of You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse’. Hearing that so many of you have already pre-ordered your copies has deeply humbled me and the MTE team. We are living in such exciting, breakthrough times where more than ever narcissism and narcissistic abuse is being recognised. And now, because there is a way to heal for real, we have an incredible opportunity to change the generational patterns of abuse / abused for ourselves and our children’s present and future. I love that you too, because of being personally involved with narcissistic abuse, can help promote this mission as passionately as I do! (more…)

 

What an amazing couple of weeks it’s been since we announced the pre-launch of You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse’.

Hearing that so many of you have already pre-ordered your copies has deeply humbled me and the MTE team.

We are living in such exciting, breakthrough times where more than ever narcissism and narcissistic abuse is being recognised. And now, because there is a way to heal for real, we have an incredible opportunity to change the generational patterns of abuse / abused for ourselves and our children’s present and future.

I love that you too, because of being personally involved with narcissistic abuse, can help promote this mission as passionately as I do!

#1 Reason Why The Narcissist Won’t Leave You Alone

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I know you may be baffled, stunned and devastated by the narcissist’s relentless quest to keep hurting you. Soooo many people, just like you and me, have experienced precisely this ... every time you try to get up and on with your life BAM!, the narcissist strikes you down again. This could be in the form of malicious criticism and control tactics. Or, if you have already left a narcissist, this could be with the use of authorities, or smearing you to your workplace, family and friends ... or with incessant stalking, accusations and the constant baiting of you. (more…)

 

I know you may be baffled, stunned and devastated by the narcissist’s relentless quest to keep hurting you.

Soooo many people, just like you and me, have experienced precisely this … every time you try to get up and on with your life BAM!, the narcissist strikes you down again.

This could be in the form of malicious criticism and control tactics.

Or, if you have already left a narcissist, this could be with the use of authorities, or smearing you to your workplace, family and friends … or with incessant stalking, accusations and the constant baiting of you.

How Narcissistic Abuse Led Me To Claim My True Self

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Absolutely, narcissistic abuse is arguably one of the WORST things we could ever go through. It’s devastating … horrifying … soul-shattering. And in the depths of it, I know you may be feeling like I once did also … That there may NOT be a way out, or to rebuild after being taken down to the lowest place we could ever imagine going. This is why I wanted to share this The Thriver’s Life episode with you today ... for those of you not yet starting to feel the sun shining through the storm clouds ... and if you are still struggling when you feel engulfed by fear and pain. (more…)

 

Absolutely, narcissistic abuse is arguably one of the WORST things we could ever go through.

It’s devastating … horrifying … soul-shattering.

And in the depths of it, I know you may be feeling like I once did also …

That there may NOT be a way out, or to rebuild after being taken down to the lowest place we could ever imagine going.

This is why I wanted to share this The Thriver’s Life episode with you today … for those of you not yet starting to feel the sun shining through the storm clouds … and if you are still struggling when you feel engulfed by fear and pain.

Why Narcissists Target Lightworkers – With Theresa Cheung

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Since we began the pre-launch party last week, the outpour of support for my upcoming book You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse has been nothing short of incredible. In amongst this, so many of you have posted your heartfelt messages sharing how the Thriver Movement has changed your life. Words can't describe how much this warms my heart. My "thank you's" do not seem enough! Please know, this book and the Thriver Mission couldn’t be possible without you, and because of this, I would love you to continue joining in and sharing the material we have coming your way. (more…)

 

Since we began the pre-launch party last week, the outpour of support for my upcoming book You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse has been nothing short of incredible.

In amongst this, so many of you have posted your heartfelt messages sharing how the Thriver Movement has changed your life.

Words can’t describe how much this warms my heart.

My “thank you’s” do not seem enough!

Please know, this book and the Thriver Mission couldn’t be possible without you, and because of this, I would love you to continue joining in and sharing the material we have coming your way.

Do Narcissists Treat Their New Supply Differently?

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  It is so common for us to think ‘Maybe I am the problem.’ When the narcissist dances off into the sunset with a new partner, we often see the evidence of their social media pictures of romantic dinners, exotic holidays and sharing time with family and friends. Naturally, we are agonised about losing these things with this person. Things that another person is now receiving in our place. And we think ‘Maybe she/he will be different with this person. Maybe it was ME that they couldn’t be happy and normal with!’ (more…)

 

It is so common for us to think ‘Maybe I am the problem.’

When the narcissist dances off into the sunset with a new partner, we often see the evidence of their social media pictures of romantic dinners, exotic holidays and sharing time with family and friends.

Naturally, we are agonised about losing these things with this person. Things that another person is now receiving in our place.

And we think ‘Maybe she/he will be different with this person. Maybe it was ME that they couldn’t be happy and normal with!’