Melanie Tonia Evans

My Personal Dating Plan For Weeding Out Narcissists

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  So many people are terrified about dating again especially after being narcissistically abused. But is there a way to navigate dating so that you will never be susceptible again? Is it about ‘where’ to look for a potential mate? I really don’t believe so – because our fears and wounds find us no matter where we are. So … therefore what we really need to look at and understand is WHO you are Being whilst dating – the definite steps you need to make to call in a beloved whilst remaining completely Narc Proof! (more…)

 

So many people are terrified about dating again especially after being narcissistically abused.

But is there a way to navigate dating so that you will never be susceptible again?

Is it about ‘where’ to look for a potential mate?

I really don’t believe so – because our fears and wounds find us no matter where we are.

So … therefore what we really need to look at and understand is WHO you are Being whilst dating – the definite steps you need to make to call in a beloved whilst remaining completely Narc Proof!

The Narcissist Has No Power Over You

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Narcissists can leave you feeling overpowered, helpless and hopeless and wondering if you will ever feel safe and healthy again. I understand these feelings as this is how I felt at the hands of narcissists too. When we are in the middle of narcissistic abuse it is easy to hand over all our power to someone we believe is powerful but into today’s episode, I want to share with you why I believe that a Narcissist is NOT powerful and why Quantum truths will set you free. The irony is that the WAY to do it has been there waiting for us all along, in an accessible place – we just may not have realised it. (more…)

 

Narcissists can leave you feeling overpowered, helpless and hopeless and wondering if you will ever feel safe and healthy again.

I understand these feelings as this is how I felt at the hands of narcissists too.

When we are in the middle of narcissistic abuse it is easy to hand over all our power to someone we believe is powerful but into today’s episode, I want to share with you why I believe that a Narcissist is NOT powerful and why Quantum truths will set you free.

The irony is that the WAY to do it has been there waiting for us all along, in an accessible place – we just may not have realised it.

Is My Adult Child A Narcissist? When Helping Them Is Hurting You

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Is my adult child a narcissist? is one of the most devastating questions a parent can ask. Some years ago, I went through this terrible trauma myself. In today’s Thriver TV I want to help you realise what is necessary for you to know whether or not your child is narcissistic… …and how to BE your most healthy and powerful, for all concerned, and possibly able to discover that your adult child isn’t narcissistic and is capable of being respectful and loving. Regardless of the outcome, there is an even more powerful truth that you will need to watch today’s video to understand. (more…)

 

Is my adult child a narcissist? is one of the most devastating questions a parent can ask.

Some years ago, I went through this terrible trauma myself.

In today’s Thriver TV I want to help you realise what is necessary for you to know whether or not your child is narcissistic…

…and how to BE your most healthy and powerful, for all concerned, and possibly able to discover that your adult child isn’t narcissistic and is capable of being respectful and loving.

Regardless of the outcome, there is an even more powerful truth that you will need to watch today’s video to understand.

10 Things To Look Forward To After Narcissistic Abuse

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  After narcissistic abuse we can feel that life will never be good again. We crave for something new and different. Today, I’m going to share with you ten beautiful Thriver Gifts that come naturally to you when you heal from the inside out. These include learning what it means to love, support and approve of yourself while no longer accepting toxic people in your life, how to be present in the Now and have a greater connection to Source accepting that everything is perfect just as it is, and experiencing being open-hearted and authentic, therefore uplevelling relationships so that life just gets better and better! (more…)

 

After narcissistic abuse we can feel that life will never be good again.

We crave for something new and different.

Today, I’m going to share with you ten beautiful Thriver Gifts that come naturally to you when you heal from the inside out.

These include learning what it means to love, support and approve of yourself while no longer accepting toxic people in your life, how to be present in the Now and have a greater connection to Source accepting that everything is perfect just as it is, and experiencing being open-hearted and authentic, therefore uplevelling relationships so that life just gets better and better!

How To Ignore A Narcissist Who Tries To Punish You

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  When a narcissist acts up – it can be brutal! They say and do things that are conscienceless, malicious and horrifically nasty. Believe me I KNOW how hard it is NOT to react! I used to FIGHT BACK nearly all the time. But it didn’t work. And I know, like me, that your reactions don’t bring RELIEF or SOLUTION, and instead you just feel more broken and traumatised and like you are going mad. This is why learning how to IGNORE a narcissist is not just healthy; it may even SAVE your Life. (more…)

 

When a narcissist acts up – it can be brutal! They say and do things that are conscienceless, malicious and horrifically nasty.

Believe me I KNOW how hard it is NOT to react! I used to FIGHT BACK nearly all the time.

But it didn’t work.

And I know, like me, that your reactions don’t bring RELIEF or SOLUTION, and instead you just feel more broken and traumatised and like you are going mad.

This is why learning how to IGNORE a narcissist is not just healthy; it may even SAVE your Life.

How Childhood Trauma Makes Us Susceptible to Narcissists

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Over the years, so many people have asked me this: ‘Did my childhood have anything to do with me being narcissistically abused as an adult?’ You may have made the link between a painful childhood and sustaining narcissistic abuse as an adult. Maybe abuse is all you have ever known. Or maybe there was something more subtle going on that made you susceptible to narcissists – without you even understanding what that could possibly be. In today’s VERY IMPORTANT Thriver TV episode, I want to help you understand vital physiological truths about how your ability to deal with stresses was formed as a child; how this may have been compromised and what that has to do with sustaining trauma as an adult. (more…)

 

Over the years, so many people have asked me this: ‘Did my childhood have anything to do with me being narcissistically abused as an adult?’

You may have made the link between a painful childhood and sustaining narcissistic abuse as an adult. Maybe abuse is all you have ever known.

Or maybe there was something more subtle going on that made you susceptible to narcissists – without you even understanding what that could possibly be.

In today’s VERY IMPORTANT Thriver TV episode, I want to help you understand vital physiological truths about how your ability to deal with stresses was formed as a child; how this may have been compromised and what that has to do with sustaining trauma as an adult.

How To Stop Playing the Narcissist’s Game – And Win

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  There is nothing more frustrating than trying to make a narcissist accountable, responsible and behave like a decent human being.  We try everything to make life happy, peaceful and sane but nothing works. We are looking to have a game of friendly croquet in a deadly hell zone with machine guns, rocket launchers and missiles – all designed to hit hard and render you powerless enough to be fully controlled and to hand over what the narcissist requires to feed their insatiable False Self. Most of us, like my former self, have no idea WHAT the narcissist’s game is and why we will never win at it. (more…)

 

There is nothing more frustrating than trying to make a narcissist accountable, responsible and behave like a decent human being.  We try everything to make life happy, peaceful and sane but nothing works.

We are looking to have a game of friendly croquet in a deadly hell zone with machine guns, rocket launchers and missiles – all designed to hit hard and render you powerless enough to be fully controlled and to hand over what the narcissist requires to feed their insatiable False Self.

Most of us, like my former self, have no idea WHAT the narcissist’s game is and why we will never win at it.

The Soul Graduation of Narcissistic Abuse

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  People can experience STUNNING results after narcissistic abuse where not only do they survive and rebuild from the depths of despair, they also claim true joy, purpose, abundance, love, expansion and confidence…and to a far greater extent than before suffering abuse, even when abuse is all that they have ever known. Is this a fluke or have they discovered a magic potion? How is this even possible?  Maybe these are questions that you are asking yourself. In today’s Thriver TV I am going to take you through the answer -  Soul Graduation - by explaining what it is, how you can access it, and how by accepting the truth of it and claiming it you will not only break free from the pain of what you have suffered, but will also start to live as your True Self creating your True Life. (more…)

 

People can experience STUNNING results after narcissistic abuse where not only do they survive and rebuild from the depths of despair, they also claim true joy, purpose, abundance, love, expansion and confidence…and to a far greater extent than before suffering abuse, even when abuse is all that they have ever known.

Is this a fluke or have they discovered a magic potion? How is this even possible?  Maybe these are questions that you are asking yourself.

In today’s Thriver TV I am going to take you through the answer –  Soul Graduation – by explaining what it is, how you can access it, and how by accepting the truth of it and claiming it you will not only break free from the pain of what you have suffered, but will also start to live as your True Self creating your True Life.

The 4 Steps to Becoming Narcissist Proof

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Have you been narcissistically abused and fear it happening again? Are you worried that the world is ‘full of narcissists’? There is a very specific Quantum reason the narcissist came into your life – to blow open the wounds inside of you so you can turn inwards to heal and enjoy the best life you have ever known! Today, we delve deeper into the TOP four Quantum Ways to inoculate yourself against narcissists for good because I NEVER want you to be susceptible again! (more…)

 

Have you been narcissistically abused and fear it happening again?

Are you worried that the world is ‘full of narcissists’?

There is a very specific Quantum reason the narcissist came into your life – to blow open the wounds inside of you so you can turn inwards to heal and enjoy the best life you have ever known!

Today, we delve deeper into the TOP four Quantum Ways to inoculate yourself against narcissists for good because I NEVER want you to be susceptible again!

How To Respond To The Silent Treatment Without Losing Your Mind

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I remember those times…when he’d stonewall, wouldn’t speak, turn his phone off or disappear, and I would be in agony regarding how to respond to the silent treatment. I know so many of you know this too; the absolute devastation of not just being abused, but then completely switched off from – as if you don’t exist. So, how do we know how to respond to the silent treatment? If you too have been through the feelings of despair, betrayal and the intense and uncontrollable panic of being discarded in this way…or if you are sick of the waiting around for days, weeks or even months before this person wants to talk (aka hoover you in again), then this article will help you a lot. (more…)

 

I remember those times…when he’d stonewall, wouldn’t speak, turn his phone off or disappear, and I would be in agony regarding how to respond to the silent treatment.

I know so many of you know this too; the absolute devastation of not just being abused, but then completely switched off from – as if you don’t exist.

So, how do we know how to respond to the silent treatment?

If you too have been through the feelings of despair, betrayal and the intense and uncontrollable panic of being discarded in this way…or if you are sick of the waiting around for days, weeks or even months before this person wants to talk (aka hoover you in again), then this article will help you a lot.