Today, we’re diving into a truth that is essential to understand if you’ve experienced narcissistic abuse: the narcissist’s greatest fear is you stepping into your True Self. Why? Because when you rise into your true power, you free yourself from their control—and this is the very thing they fear most. Today, we’re going to explore […]

Why does it seem like a narcissist never really lets you go, even when they’re out of your life? For many, the lingering influence of a narcissist feels almost inescapable, like invisible chains that keep us bound. This dynamic goes beyond personal relationships—it extends to structures and systems that keep us disempowered, blocking us from […]

  Learn how narcissistic dark souls drain your Light and energy and discover how to break free from their control by reconnecting with your true Source and power. Introduction: Happy almost Halloween, Dear Thrivers! This topic is so relevant to this time (in many ways!) If you’ve ever felt drained, confused, or disconnected after dealing […]

Many of you who have endured narcissistic abuse have likely asked yourself this question: Can the narcissist heal and ascend? Is there hope for them to grow, become more conscious and whole persons, and spiritually evolve? Can they let go of their separation consciousness—the “me versus you” mentality—and grow into unity consciousness, empathy, and true […]

  For those who find themselves in an aftershock following an abusive relationship, know that actual healing is possible – even if it feels ultimately out of reach. Aftershock is a phenomenon that occurs when someone leaves an abusive relationship and, rather than feeling relief, the person feels worse than before they left. It’s an […]

Non-accountability devastates relationships, and narcissists use this toxic defense mechanism to abuse you. Accountability is essential for relationships to function. A happy, functional relationship is impossible without it. However, narcissists suffer from toxic shame and have fragile self-esteem. They fear being wrong and will do whatever it takes to avoid scrutiny from others, including gaslighting, […]

  Today, I want to talk about invalidation and how it destroys relationships. This applies to intimate relationships and damages family members, friendships, and business associations. Invalidation is one of the critical weapons narcissistic people use to maintain significance and superiority over others.   What Is Invalidation? Invalidation is dismissing someone else’s viewpoint. It is […]

Abuse by proxy (using other people to abuse us) is such a common tactic of narcissists that most people in our community will know the term ‘Flying Monkeys’ – a phrase from the Wizard of Oz used to describe the narcissist’s minions. I know first-hand the horror of not only having to deal with the […]

Today’s article is about one of the most painful things that can ever happen at the hands of a narcissist. Being replaced by new supply. As if that isn’t bad enough – what if she or he is young and attractive? Or accomplished and wealthy? Maybe all of the above? In other words, the new […]