Category: Healing From Narcissistic Abuse

Thriver Talks Special: Healing Financial Prosperity After Abuse

Imagine finding true financial freedom after leaving behind a toxic relationship that left you traumatized, sick, and barely functioning. This is exactly what Kami, a Thriver Community member, experienced after working on her inner self with Quanta Freedom Healing™. Inspired by nature, Kami found her calling as an artist and now sells her stunning, intuitively […]

Repetitive Compulsion Disorder and Abuse

Are you feeling stuck in a cycle of pain and hurt, always repeating the same damaging behaviours and feeling powerless to escape them? If so, you may be struggling with Repetitive Compulsion Disorder. This self-destructive barrier keeps you from letting go and moving on. It can stem from narcissistic abuse or how we were invalidated, distrusted, humiliated, […]

Finding Your True Self After Abuse

Today I want to talk to you about finding your True Self after abuse. This is the person you wish to be – having the capacity to generate love, truth, great health, success and continual growth into more of yourself and your life. This is important because you were not your Best Self in and […]

Non-Accountability: Destroyer Of Relationships

Non-accountability devastates relationships, and narcissists use this toxic defence mechanism to abuse you. Accountability is essential for relationships to function. A happy, functional relationship is impossible without it. But narcissists suffer from toxic shame and have fragile self-esteem. They fear being wrong and will do whatever it takes to avoid scrutiny from others, including gaslighting, […]

Emotional Invalidation In Relationships: How To End The Cycle

  Today I want to talk about invalidation and how it destroys relationships. This applies to intimate relationships and also is damaging for family members, friendships and in business associations. Invalidation is one of the key weapons narcissistic people use to maintain significance and superiority over others.   What Is Invalidation? Invalidation is dismissing someone […]

Thriver TV Special – THRIVER Talk with Christal

Are you feeling overwhelmed, exploited, and emotionally drained by a narcissistic relationship? If so, you’re not alone. In this first of our very special Thriver Talks series, Christal discusses how she experienced this firsthand in her 13-year marriage to a benevolent narcissist. As her health and finances suffered, she was unable to find a way […]

Flying Monkeys – The Minions Narcissists Use To Do Their Bidding

Abuse by proxy (using other people to abuse us) is a such a common tactic of narcissists that most people in our community will know the term ‘Flying Monkeys’ – a phrase from the Wizard of Oz used to describe the narcissist’s minions. I know first-hand the horror of not only having to deal with […]

Reclaim Your Radiance and Confidence After Abuse

After abuse, we feel unattractive. How could we not suffer this when the abuse assaulted us on multiple levels? You lose self-esteem, energy and the motivation to do the most basic survival tasks, let alone look after yourself. For many of us, trying to be “attractive” was terrifying. What if that brought unwanted, abusive attention? […]

The Narcissist’s New Supply: Do They Have Something You Don’t?

Today’s article is about one of the most painful things that can ever happen at the hands of a narcissist. Being replaced by new supply. As if that isn’t bad enough – what if she or he is young and attractive? Or accomplished and wealthy? Maybe all of the above? In other words, the new […]