Have you ever had the agonising issue of being head over heels attracted to someone who is totally bad for you?
And …. even though this person abuses you and is impossible to create a healthy, safe and happy life with, you feel like they are your perfect match?
This is the traumatic world of being connected with a narcissist lover, where I promise you SO many people have reported the same thing!
In fact, some people when they first connected with a narcissist, felt this heart explosion … “This is The One” (yours truly included), and then … when the relationship blows up and ends (as relationships with narcissists are apt to do) there is a forlorn emptiness of missing and obsessing about the ex-partner.
As well as, devastatingly, a benign non-existent attraction to anyone else.