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Why Narcissists Punish You at Holiday Time
I’m sure you will have noticed how when narcissists are miserable, then their nearest and dearest have to be punished – and this goes double for holiday time. Whether they are disrupting preparations, creating arguments and drama, giving you the silent treatment, or discarding you and going missing at crucial times, everything they do at […]
What Causes Narcissism?
One of the questions I get asked over and over is “what causes narcissism”. So today’s Thriver TV episode is my take on this. Of course, I cover the impact of nature and nurture. But most importantly I wanted to go even deeper, into the spiritual cause and meaning of narcissism. The debate around the […]
How Does a Stay At Home Mum Survive After Narcissistic Abuse?
Being financially dependent on a narcissist is something I've wanted to write about as a priority, because I know this topic is so big for many of you. Especially as my beautiful support team at our weekly meeting said “Mel please do an article on this topic - our community needs it!” I am really [...]
A Deeper Look At Anti-Hero
The subject of this week’s Thriver TV might be a bit of a surprise to you, as I don’t usually comment on celebrities. But with Taylor Swift riding high as the first artist to claim the entire top 10 in the Billboard Hot 100, it’s been hard not to notice her singing about narcissism in […]
7 Things Never To Say To a Narcissist
In my humble opinion there are 7 things never to say to a narcissist. They are disastrous if you do! Narcissists are not normal people. When I say normal, I mean someone who wants to hear you, validate you and care about you. With a narcissist, it is the complete opposite. It is all about [...]
New Age Versus Quantum Beliefs When Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse
Today's article is on a topic I really want to speak to, because I know that lots of spiritual people get abused by narcissists. Like many of us, I used to be highly invested in being “spiritual”, being aligned with “love and light” and believing that if you are a good person then others should [...]
Your Relationship with Money and Financial Abuse
Many of us within this community will have suffered horrible financial devastation due to narcissistic abuse. We may struggle to regain the prosperity we once had.Or we may rebuild, only to find ourselves smashed down into poverty and debt again. This happened to me more than once, and without Quanta Freedom Healing I could never […]
8 Ways Narcissists Make You Lose Yourself And Bond To Them
You have probably heard of the term ‘trauma bonding’ before, and even if you haven’t, I’m sure that like me, you will have experienced the symptoms of trauma bonding within a narcissistic relationship. Trauma bonding holds us attached to an abuser even when our brain is logically screaming at us to leave and stay away. […]
