Melanie Tonia Evans

How Narcissists Draw You In By Identifying Your Gaps

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  A narcissist knows how to target you. It’s no different than a lion sizing up an injured gazelle. ESPECIALLY after narcissistic abuse, you need to KNOW how they do it… As well as close up all your GAPS – the things they LOOK for that MAKE you susceptible to them. If you are TERRIFIED of running into a narcissist again, this may be the most necessary TTV episode you have ever watched. (more…)

 

A narcissist knows how to target you.

It’s no different than a lion sizing up an injured gazelle.

ESPECIALLY after narcissistic abuse, you need to KNOW how they do it…

As well as close up all your GAPS – the things they LOOK for that MAKE you susceptible to them.

If you are TERRIFIED of running into a narcissist again, this may be the most necessary TTV episode you have ever watched.

The Pain of Narcissistic Abuse Won’t End Until You Do This

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Is there any greater devastation than narcissistic abuse? Many of us would say ABSOLUTELY not. Is there an end to the agony? Again, many people will tell you it takes a LOT of effort and time, and for many relief and healing doesn’t ever happen. (more…)

 

Is there any greater devastation than narcissistic abuse?

Many of us would say ABSOLUTELY not.

Is there an end to the agony?

Again, many people will tell you it takes a LOT of effort and time, and for many relief and healing doesn’t ever happen.

The Healer in Disguise – Spiritual Narcissists Explained

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Spiritual narcissists hit HARD. They devastate your belief, soul and life – and they do it under the most manipulative guise of healing you. It’s BEYOND devastating. HOW do they do it? How CAN we stop it? (more…)

 

Spiritual narcissists hit HARD.

They devastate your belief, soul and life – and they do it under the most manipulative guise of healing you.

It’s BEYOND devastating.

HOW do they do it?

How CAN we stop it?

The Real Reason Why The Narcissist Came Into Your Life

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Was the narcissist coming into your life a senseless, cruel mistake? Was it to destroy you and what is important to you? Trust me I know you could 100% believe that.  I used to too… However, know there is a REAL reason – an incredible one – that not only holds the key to your full Thriver Recovery… (more…)

 

Was the narcissist coming into your life a senseless, cruel mistake?

Was it to destroy you and what is important to you?

Trust me I know you could 100% believe that.  I used to too…

However, know there is a REAL reason – an incredible one – that not only holds the key to your full Thriver Recovery…

The #1 Trick For Bringing A Narcissist To Justice

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Narcissists fight DIRTY. In battle with a narcissist, whilst trying to get resolution, sanity or even a scrap of decency, it may seem like all you get is MORE traumatisation. Narcissists can feel IMPOSSIBLE to defeat. But … this isn’t the case. In today’s Thriver TV episode, I am going to hand you the REAL way to bring a narcissist to justice. (more…)

 

Narcissists fight DIRTY.

In battle with a narcissist, whilst trying to get resolution, sanity or even a scrap of decency, it may seem like all you get is MORE traumatisation.

Narcissists can feel IMPOSSIBLE to defeat.

But … this isn’t the case.

In today’s Thriver TV episode, I am going to hand you the REAL way to bring a narcissist to justice.

Protecting Yourself From Narcissists As A Highly Sensitive Person

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  It is so DIFFICULT being a sensitive person, who feels another person’s energy acutely. Most of us, who have been abused by narcissists, are highly sensitive people, including me … It can make us feel TOTALLY anxious and unsafe. ESPECIALLY when in the vicinity of a NARCISSIST. We know they have dark moods and can turn into horrible people who hurt us, at the slightest provocation and without warning, So … HOW can we navigate this? (more…)

 

It is so DIFFICULT being a sensitive person, who feels another person’s energy acutely.

Most of us, who have been abused by narcissists, are highly sensitive people, including me …

It can make us feel TOTALLY anxious and unsafe.

ESPECIALLY when in the vicinity of a NARCISSIST.

We know they have dark moods and can turn into horrible people who hurt us, at the slightest provocation and without warning,

So … HOW can we navigate this?

Why Narcissists Inevitably Discard You

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  A narcissist will always eventually, one way or another, discard you. It doesn’t matter whether you leave, they do, or how the relationship blows up. One of the hardest things to come to terms with is this:  the narcissist doesn’t care about me and can live without me. We experience this from their words and actions, lack of understanding, non-existent empathy, accountability or remorse regarding what they have done to us. We discover that our feelings and life mean nothing to the narcissist; he or she may even hate us now and be hell-bent on trying to destroy us. (more…)

 

A narcissist will always eventually, one way or another, discard you. It doesn’t matter whether you leave, they do, or how the relationship blows up.

One of the hardest things to come to terms with is this:  the narcissist doesn’t care about me and can live without me.

We experience this from their words and actions, lack of understanding, non-existent empathy, accountability or remorse regarding what they have done to us.

We discover that our feelings and life mean nothing to the narcissist; he or she may even hate us now and be hell-bent on trying to destroy us.

The Answer To Narcissistic Abuse That No-one Is Talking About – Peptide Addiction

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  WHY it is so hard too let go of abusers. WHY  can’t we stop thinking about them … And … WHY it has been so DIFFICULT to get over narcissistic abuse and get well. When you understand peptide addiction you will realise you are NOT mad, failing or hopeless. (more…)

 

WHY it is so hard too let go of abusers.

WHY  can’t we stop thinking about them …

And …

WHY it has been so DIFFICULT to get over narcissistic abuse and get well.

When you understand peptide addiction you will realise you are NOT mad, failing or hopeless.

What Makes Narcissists Irresistible And How To Rid Your Cravings For Them

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  The pull we have towards narcissists is OFF the planet! Even when they are hurting us SO much that it’s literally killing us, we usually stay connected … Hoping they will wake up … change … get it … and stop doing what they are doing to us. But they don’t. If we can’t stop the cravings for a narcissist, just like anything in our life that is destroying us, they continue to do so. Piece by piece by piece. (more…)

 

The pull we have towards narcissists is OFF the planet!

Even when they are hurting us SO much that it’s literally killing us, we usually stay connected …

Hoping they will wake up … change … get it … and stop doing what they are doing to us.

But they don’t.

If we can’t stop the cravings for a narcissist, just like anything in our life that is destroying us, they continue to do so.

Piece by piece by piece.

How To Know If You Are Thriving After Abuse

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Welcome to the Thriver's Life series, the creation of your highest and best life after narcissistic abuse. I get asked all the time by people, ‘How do I know if I’m Thriving?’ ‘How do I know if I’ve made it?’ In today’s The Thriver Life Series episode, I’m going to help you clear up all the confusion about this and let you know exactly how to tell if you are Thriving! I remember I used to ask the same thing, but truly I was asking myself these questions from the defunct beliefs of perfectionism and conditions on myself, rather than the true sense of Thriving. (more…)

 

Welcome to the Thriver’s Life series, the creation of your highest and best life after narcissistic abuse.

I get asked all the time by people, ‘How do I know if I’m Thriving?’ ‘How do I know if I’ve made it?’

In today’s The Thriver Life Series episode, I’m going to help you clear up all the confusion about this and let you know exactly how to tell if you are Thriving!

I remember I used to ask the same thing, but truly I was asking myself these questions from the defunct beliefs of perfectionism and conditions on myself, rather than the true sense of Thriving.