In today’s article, I want to answer a question people ask me A LOT – What does ‘Quantum’ mean?

Personally, it means a lot to me – so much that many years ago, I called my inner self-healing modality Quanta Freedom Healing™.

Today I am going to explain to the best of my ability what Quantum means. As well as what ‘Going Quantum’ means and why I believe it is the true solution for going free from narcissistic abuse and rising into Thriving.

 

The Basic Understanding of the Word Quantum

To many, Quantum refers to the vibrational Universe, the unseen interconnected energy generating the world we see. The wave function beneath matter, even below the sub-atomic level. Quantum Science is a recognition of an all-encompassing intelligence that exists outside space, time and matter, which is ever-present in every moment of now.

I firmly believe this is where spirituality and science become One. We may call this force God, Source, Creation, Higher Divine Mind, or Intelligence. I agree with this recognition of ‘Quantum’ completely.

Living in a Quantum world means constantly participating with a Higher Consciousness – whether we do this consciously or unconsciously. A deeper understanding of how life unfolds and our connection to the works of a Higher Mind allows you to manifest personal realities in a more fulfilling, successful and meaningful way.

 

Taking Your Power Back

The joy I experience living a ‘Quantum Life’ is because I have evolved beyond feeling powerless. I wanted to move past feeling victimised, frustrated and traumatised – narcissistic abuse was the zenith of that. I wanted to know what had happened to me had meaning – and if so, how I could recover from the trauma and create something better.

I always sensed there was more to the ‘game of life’ than continual struggle and survival, but I lost all faith in the Law of Attraction principles, which certainly did not work even when I was ‘staying positive’. Merely ‘staying positive’ when dealing with extreme inner trauma was impossible.

I wanted to know how the Universe and my part in it actually worked.

Becoming a conscious creator with the Higher Mind joyously became my life. As it can and will for anyone who wants to Go Quantum, and puts in the effort to become this level of Beingness.

 

The Connected Universe

Quantum Consciousness is Unity Consciousness, which can also be described as ‘Oneness’.

It becomes the lived experience of knowing that You and God / Source /Creation are One. That you are an individual piece of this Higher Consciousness.

The fall of humanity came through the programmed belief of ‘separation’ from God / Source / Creation. You are not separate, but you can have the belief that you are and thus manifest it as your experience – powerful Creator that you are. In this fractured belief you are not worthy of a Higher Power’s blessings. You have to earn it, beg for it or give your soul to get it.

Separation Consciousness is also the belief that there is lack, division, war, poverty, depression and sickness. This creates barbaric acts born out of division, fear and chaos from victims and perpetrators alike. There is rampant self-abuse and other-person abuse. We have been programmed to accept the separation condition as ‘normal’.This disordered consciousness is not natural – it’s a deep insidious sickness.

In fear and pain, and pitted against each other, we keep the delusion of separation consciousness going. We become more broken, are taken further away from Higher Consciousness, and then fall for False Substitutes – false people and systems pretending to be God.

This is what narcissism is – the denying of a Higher Self and the worship of the ego (Edging God Out). It’s the hubris of “I am God!” and the worship of the outer false idols of ‘stuff’ and ‘things’. It’s an attachment to the cost of outer things, whilst denying all true value of the inner self.

Denying the value of the inner self is denying God / Source / Creation – because the Higher Consciousness and your Soul are One. It is where God /Source resides – inside you. Separated people are hurt people, who hurt people and they spew trauma onto others, infecting humanity like a plague. Welcome to the narcissistic delusion of planet Earth.

Going Quantum is the reversal of this: the coming home to ourselves, to Source, to Truth, to Unity Consciousness and the healing of the delusions that have been ripping humanity apart for centuries. It’s a return to Oneness. To belonging (being long – not small) and no longer being out on the edge all by yourself. When you be-long (become long) you become All of IT. You are never separated again – because you never are. You cannot NOT be it, when you ARE it.

And when you BE it then it COMES – everything that will durably gratify your soul. This is what ‘become’ means.

It is all you. It is God / Source / Creation. It is the Oneness. It’s all the same thing.

That’s what ‘Going Quantum’ creates – it’s coming home to Who You Are.

 

The Inner-standing of Universal Truth

Unity Consciousness knows, “If I honour my soul truth, then I honour the entire Field in honourable and loving ways.”

This is why NO LONGER enabling abuse, by healing yourself beyond it, is the most loving thing you can ever do for humanity and this planet.

As Neale Donald Walsch famously said, “To enable another to abuse you is an act of abuse in itself.” Yes, as children, we were powerless to accept anything other than abuse, but as developing adults Going Quantum, we aren’t.

In separation consciousness, before returning to Quantum Law, we make choices that keep us powerless. They are not coming from your inner connection to Source.They are being controlled by the wishes of people outside of you, whom you were trained to believe are your authority.

Your GPS (God Protection System) – your inner intuition – knows this. It screams “No!” You pay a terrible price every time you deny yourself, Source and the Higher Mind by going against your intuition, and not taking time to thoroughly check things. We know, but we don’t want to know. We don’t want to experience friction, ridicule, attacks, and defamation – all narcissistically engineered to make us comply. If you are NOT your SELF, you are controllable, hackable, and can be weaponised for someone else’s benefit.

Strong words I know – but I must tell you the TRUTH to awaken you from the narcissistic abuse programming that you are in!

We make excuses and tell ourselves stories to make our own intuitive self-denial acceptable. But it never is – it rips at the very fabric of your Soul and Source connection making you sick. Acquiescing to false selves and objects doesn’t grant us health, sanity, safety and power; it takes us further away from it.

It’s only Source Self interconnectedness that grants durable ‘arrival’ of joy, love, prosperity and other Universal Blessings.

 

 

Going Quantum Equals Personal Freedom

Your inner evolution of Going Quantum is what grants your outer revolution of freedom.

What does personal freedom mean? Recognising you were born with limitless inner freedom to be yourself and powerfully create the truth of your Source / Soul Self – living meaningfully and purposefully to make a difference to The All and experience what your true Soul Self desires.

Being yourself requires being free from guilt, shame, pain, and attachment to what other people think of you. It means you no longer hand away your power and enable abuse because of feeling empty, needy, obligated, manipulated, or trapped.

Going along with programmed narratives to be ‘liked’ is a big pitfall, especially when you are disconnected from your inner wisdom and not looking deeper for your truth. Going Quantum means the WHOLESOME truth inside of you is the truth you follow. It MAKES SENSE and it resonates deeply in your being – rather than just accepting what you are told. This allows you to carve out a sane, healthy, happy, loving life regardless of what anyone else is or isn’t doing or saying.

You don’t need to participate, manifest and be a part of mass psychosis and suffering when guided from a much deeper, wider, more powerful place within.

Going Quantum is NOT about ‘learning’ how to be expansive and connected to God / Source. You already ARE organically connected to God / Source and ARE Higher Consciousness and Infinite Unlimited Expansion. You are made of the same stuff as not just The Universe but Infinite Universes.

The problem is being chopped off from knowing this. Being infected with separation consciousness makes you ‘small’. Yet your Inner Being is urging you to come home and reconnect by trying to shed ‘what hurts’ to get there.

This is the screaming inner wounds of the lies, the falsities and the shadows that are not Who You Are. Hence why they ‘react’ inside your emotional somatic self. They hurt because they are NOT you and so cannot sit inside you comfortably and wholesomely.

In separation consciousness, you have been trained to stay ‘separated’ by ignoring those painful feelings, switching them off, numbing them out, projecting them onto others, stuffing them down, faking them away, or trying to blame and shame yourself out of them. Anything BUT going to them and transforming them.

So why not just LET.THEM. GO? Go free from them? Why not release them up to God / Source for recycling? Purge them, detox from them, go empty, clean and clear from them?

Intuitively it is astounding how we all KNOW we have to do this!

I can’t tell how many people have said, “I need to let go! And asked, “Mel, how can I LET GO of these feelings?”

Over the years, I have given people the same answer every time “Use what I did, Quanta Freedom Healing™. It works!” But of course, until they start doing this and experience what I am talking about, these are just words to them.

If we don’t let go, then we can’t be free. We can’t remember if we are still operating as small selves clogged with toxic trauma, lies and false programming.

This is where we need more than JUST letting go. Why not bring in the Light of the Higher Mind to replace the traumas? Why would we even think of that in separation consciousness, when we have been taught to be separated from Higher Consciousness and that we are not worthy of it?

When the truth is, it is IMPOSSIBLE to be unworthy of ourselves!

To re-member is to come back together to the Truth of ourselves as a God / Source / Soul Being.

Then False Selves are powerless against you; not being congruent with integrity means the force of Truth cracks them open. Once the shadows of deceit are flushed to the surface, false selves can no longer hide in dark veils of deception, taking you in due to your own disowning and woundedness. Vampires hiss, become powerless and retreat when under a Bright Light.

Plus, you are backed up and protected by The Oneness, The Divine Force of Life-force, as a result of being filled with THAT.

Leaving you to BE that Light.

 

How Do You Activate Your Quantum Self?

You recognise that you are much greater than just a flesh suit banging around trying to survive. You are made in the image and likeness of God / Source yourself – meaning you have capacity beyond your wildest dreams.

How I went, Quantum was simple, and I had no idea it would happen at the time. I just LET GO of what was hurting inside me with Quanta Freedom Healing™ – The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program (NARP) modules. I shed those parts of me in separation consciousnesses – fear, pain, dis-ease, scarcity thinking and more. Every part of me that felt small, powerless, victimised, heartbroken, abandoned, afraid and confused or suffered any other negative emotion.

When I first channelled Quanta Freedom Healing™, I was ‘told’ how to do this, and to fill the space where the trauma had been with God / Source Light. I had no idea that this was going to be as impactful as it was. I originally though bringing in The Light – to the space left by releasing the trauma – would be ‘healing’ and ‘soothing’. I had NO idea it would activate my Source /Soul self to come on-line.

I didn’t even know I was One with the Higher Infinite Mind.

Clearly, I have no regrets about this! You could not give me trillions of dollars to go back to living life the Old Way, even before the abuse. If it had not been for narcissistic abuse, I would have kept trying to “Law of Attraction” my life, instead of shifting out fear and bringing in the re-membering of Who I Am.

And helping others activate their Source / Soul / True Self as well.

 

Conclusion

There you go, the meaning of Quantum and Going Quantum.

I hope I’ve explained how powerful this is as a direct path to elevate you up and out of narcissistic abuse, and also make you impervious to it in the future.

I know for all of us ‘Going Quantum’ is not spectacular – it’s merely and magnificently natural. We are all coded to be released organically into this. It allows us to live in heaven rather than in hell, as we were always supposed to be. It is the direct shift out of being sick and tired, into being expanded and well.

It’s the place where the pain stops and real life begins.

It’s yours and my birthright.

Let me know in the comments if this article made sense to you. Can you feel the truth of this resonating inside yourself cellularly?

Do you have any further questions about this? What has been your expereince with ‘Going Quantum’?

Are you ready to go home to you? If so, I’d love to help you. You can do so by clicking this link.

I look forward to answering your comments and questions below.

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24 thoughts on ““Quantum Living”: What Does It Mean?

  1. I’m so frightened all the time. It’s crazy. I don’t feel the presence of God but I know that’s where I came from, where I’m going, and where I’ll wind up. And what I am.

    1. Hi Kevin,
      indeed, you will feel Gods presence again. Trust you have the power to get rid of all the traumas, with NARP.

      Love,
      Oshun

  2. Dear Mel,

    Thank you so much for NARP and QFH! I definitely agree that these are the best tools to break self-destructive patterns and our participation in toxic relationships.

    I am currently healing core childhood traumas of non-deservedness and lack of love and acceptance from my family, as well as the terrible false belief of having to sell my soul in order to survive.

    I am very happy with the progress within me, but I feel depleted of energy, drained, burnt out. This exhaustion may have to do with recent events I´ve had to face with narcissists in the last months, and the overall not being in my true self as yet, even though I can tell my healings have helped me immensely to improve my reality and heal form the inside.

    I can tell I am letting go of deep childhood wounds, but at the same time I feel perplexed from my lack of energy that I´ve had for about three weeks. Is it normal to feel this exhausted while healing childhood/in utero wounds? Is there anything you can recommend to do with energy levels in periods like this?

    Thank you very much,

    Nury

    1. Hi Nury,

      it’s my pleasure.

      Exhaustion can happen after letting go of deep primal survival programs – because the body now doesn’t have to be hypervigilant and on guard trying to survive internal trauma. Like the metaphor of the hunter returning to a safe cave who can now “collapse” and sleep.

      It may just be that – time to rest, have lovely nourishing food, nice baths and self-nurture in this downtime. It could be a “shift” targeting the traum of exhaustion – that can shift something that is ready to be released, or you may need to check in on healthy food, and supplements.

      Really sometimes Nury the body is just saying “rest”. I have had a period of this just this weekend!

      I hope that these suggestions help

      Much Love to you as always!

      Mel 🙏💞🦋

  3. This is exactly the article I wanted to read! As I recalibrate myself to Source in an even greater way, and start a new life, free of some beloved people who just aren’t ready to go Quantum as I’ve been doing the last four years with NARP… and thus they and their attachment to staying wounded have left my life… I’ve been reaching for clarity, my Truth and my next highest expression of Self. I was wishing for some clarity about how NARP and Quantum healing fits with this rebirth for me, and here you are Mel with an article which most concisely reminds me. Brilliant.

  4. I do believe and feel this on a cellular level in such a profound way, thank you immensely for sharing your journey – I have healed and grown so quickly thanks to you and the beautiful and loving work you are doing. Thank you from the bottom of my ‘no longer broken’ heart Mel. I am eating this up every day, and am sharing with a friend who it is also helping. It is so empowering and delightful to break free from those chains of shame, guilt, unworthiness, loneliness, all of the terrible things – that make life so deeply painful. I never thought I would ever go through the nightmarish hell I have gone through, and can now fully appreciate the reason for it. No regrets. I can finally see the light, and am enjoying the lessons from being in such a dark and confusing place for so long. You make the sunshine extra bright, thank you for guiding so many of us to it – as it is the path to bliss, and it’s right there inside of every one of us. Much love to you! 💝

    1. Hi Michele,

      Please know how welcome you are! That is beautiful that you are doing well – I’m thrilled for you!

      Thank you Michele for your lovely post, you have made my day.

      Love and blessings to you and your friend

      Mel 🙏💞🦋

  5. Hello Melanie,
    This is just a comment never a criticism. To me the picture at the top of the article makes me feel nervous, anxious, it speaks to me desperation and I have avoided to look at it even just in passing. Your article is too valuable and precious and to me it seems like there is a discordance between something that is giving you answers, the way to find peace and a life of freedom and the picture. It doesn’t convey the message of the article, it takes from it.
    Thank you for being someone who explains so well the inner workings and dynamics of our being. It’s so reassuring witnessing someone who’s been there and is able to relate it so accurately. Thank you.

  6. This is my first reading. Think I need to read this more to fully understand but for now have I understood this correctly, that in simple terms Quantum/Quanta = God? Thank you eternally for NARP, that I understand ❤️

  7. Hi Melanie,

    To answer your question: Yes, this makes sense to me.

    For me, who personally only use the word ‘god’ as a metaphore; it would be perfectly logical that human beings have some fundamental patterns of behaviour and emotional functioning “written” into our DNA, just like every other species. Describing them as our Source or True Self makes perfect sense. It includes the need for spirituality, connection, justice, love and respect as part our social functioning. It also makes sense that if we are hindered, or stop ourselves, from functioning according to these fundamental patterns, we get “messed up” and have trouble consciously “step back” and analyzing the situation. Fortunately we have an enormous capacity for adapting to realities and “saving” ourselves.

    Just to be clear: I’m not an expert on this, my strong point is logical reasoning (BA with honours in philosophy) on top of other education, and general knowledge and awareness. And personal experience with authoritarian parents! I know I sound a bit weird in this company, but I think your work deserves to be connected to a more scientific narrative, that is why I’m using my “research voice”. This kind of thinking has also always been my personal strategy for saving myself from confusion due to neglect, manipulation and gaslighting, once the emotional reactions fade away.

    Now I’m hoping this makes sense to you and everyone else 🙂

    Thank you for keeping the blog going!

    1. Hi Always Reflecting,

      I used to also be always reflecting.

      Now I just turn inside let go of dense energy and bring the Light in.

      That’s what I teach others to do, who like me over-thought it all, and who now heal in a direct line. This is not just my opinion you will see even on this blog those who do this and those who still are in analysis – and the drastic difference.

      I can assure you I too used to “try to think it all out to make sense”. It never did. Fortunately for me I came finally to a place where I was “unable to think”, that was the first freest day of my life to start accessing REAL truth – how I FELT about something, rather than the fearful or confused thoughts in my head.

      That was my GOD voice, and still is.

      Quantum Healing is somatic, embodied … mere words or thinking don’t even do it justice (like God Source Self)… How can mere science explain literal “multiverses” (God)? How can it, any more than a doctor produce an xray of your encased internal grief?

      Trying to “think” Qunata Freedom Healing (understand it) also gets in the way of the healing, during the healing. Put simply – people in their heads don’t get great results until they let go and follow their feelings.

      A simpler example is just like gym fitness brings fitness, thinking about fitness doesn’t create it – moving your body and participating in it does. Inner Being fitness is the same.

      Of course, you can do as much research and learning as you wish, but I’m always going to stay true to what I know works – simply feel and visualise releasing what hurts and replacing it with Light. The “scientific” results are radically positive outcomes – that happen very fast.

      I honestly have no more to give you than that, which brings comprehension in the only way it can be understood.

      So much love to you!

      Mel 🙏💞🦋

      1. Hi again Melanie,

        I’m sorry if I came across as confrontational, that was not my intention. I thought it was a good thing that what you wrote in your article could also make sense using a more scientific line of reasoning. And I thought you would take it as support, not as criticism.

        All the best,

        1. Hi Always Reflecting,

          no not at all – please know I wasn’t offended in the least.

          Just explaining my personal take and position on this, as being true to my calling and work. As I suggested Bruce Lipton’s work may touch on this more, as per his specific area of expertise. The Biology of Belief could be a great read for you.

          Much Love

          Mel 🙏💞🦋

  8. Hi Melanie
    It’s Nancy , you and God truly saved my life I was in a narcissistic abuse relationship for 14 years, I got away but still was suffering for another 3 years and watched him with new supply live there best life ,, so I thought until I started to thrive, and now I’m still working on thriving every day, but I feel like a caterpillar 🐛 breaking open my cacoon and slowly turning into a beautiful butterfly 🦋, and loving myself again even better than 14 years ago ❤️ Thank you and God ! Lots of love 💕😍

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