Category: All About Narcissists

The Difference Between Authentic and Malignant Confidence

We are all drawn to confident people. But how do we know the difference between someone who is truly happy in their own skin, and an individual who is suffering deep insecurities and trying to appear confident? It’s very important to know – because if you don’t, the individual who is not ‘solid on the […]

How to Overcome The Pathological Lies Of The Narcissist And Win The Divorce, Settlement And Custody Battles

  One thing is certain with narcissists; when you separate from them and still have legal property or custody to sort out … They will pathologically lie. As such, you can expect fabricated stories, twisted facts and downright dirty tactics. The narcissist is very capable of telling solicitors, police and courthouses exactly whatever lies he […]

Is He or She Really A Narcissist? Laying Boundaries and Accountability

I get numerous emails every week asking this exact question: Is He or She Really A Narcissist? So many people ask – How can I be sure? I want you to be very clear on what I am about to state. It’s actually not important whether someone has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) or whether they […]

There Is No Closure With Narcissists

  When we end a relationship with a narcissist – it can be a terrible and painful experience to realise there is no closure. There is no “I’m sorry, I treated you terribly”, there is the absence of “I realise that if I had done things differently we could have worked”, or “The way I […]