Melanie Tonia Evans

The Once Broken And Homeless Man Who Brought The Thriver Model To Life – Part 1

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Written By   Melanie Tonia Evans

I LOVE granting you information that I KNOW can help you beyond measure …

This is one of those exciting times … which can take the Thriver Model to an even greater level of radiance and effectiveness.

Helping you to anchor into and live fundamental Thriver Emotional Truths … the ESSENTIAL commodities that can and do make every area of your Life work.

The incredible benefits of Thriving after narcissistic abuse are this …

More inner peace, a deeper more abiding love and acceptance of yourself, better relationships with other people …

… and the expanding confidence to express your Truest Self and create your Highest aspirations, purpose and dreams.

Because after all – that is WHAT we are ALL here to do!

So … over the next week I am going to be doing a three-part series, where I will be sharing with you many insights and POWERFUL shifting exercises.

I will also share with you some more personal details about my story – including the core shifts I made to start Thriving in a life, that I am pinching myself with UTTER GRATITUDE for, every day.

These key shifts – that I have NEVER publically written about before – are the Core Painful Universal Beliefs that exist in VIRTUALLY every human being’s DNA.

Ones that literally DERAIL all of our chances for peace, real love and consistent happiness.

These Core Human Beliefs can be so damaging, devastating and “off-track” that they may even be taking us to our literal demise …

(Please know I am NOT exaggerating.)

The person who first revealed these Faulty Human Core Beliefs was, himself, once living a life of utter devastation and disintegration.

His name is Neale Donald Walsch, and in the early 1990’s he thought his life was over, because he had just suffered a series of chaotic events.

One after the other.

A fire that destroyed all of his belongings …

The break-up of his marriage …

And a car accident that left him with a broken neck.

Once recovered, but alone and unemployed, he was forced to live in a tent in Jackson Hot Springs, just outside Ashland in Oregon.

Broke and homeless he collected aluminium cans in order to make money for food.

And just when it looked like Neale was going to find his way out into Life again, he suffered yet another blow, which led to this breakdown moment …

Where in utter desperation Neale screamed out to God, asking God why his life had become what it had.

An answer “came” and before Neale knew it, he was having the strangest yet most profound conversation of his life.

Neale has been sharing these conversations with millions of people from all over the world ever since.

Neale, unbeknown to him at the time, was about to become a Modern Day Messenger – a man deeply embodying and sharing vital information – waking up human consciousness from the old paradigm of core beliefs to new ones.

His first book, Conversations with God, was published in 1995 and became an international bestseller. It remained on the New York Times Bestseller List for 135 weeks. Six of his other books have made the Times list in the years since. He has published 28 books and his works have been translated into 37 languages.

Neale Donald Walsch is a modern day spiritual messenger whose words continue to touch the world in profound ways.

Which leads me to EXACTLY what this three-part series is all about!

It is about bringing to you Neale’s incredible messages of shifting Core Beliefs and how that relates to the Thriver Way, which so many of us in this Community have learnt to adopt, live and love.

And if you haven’t yet – you may be on the verge of considering this “inside out” journey that promises to set you free.

During this three-part series, you will have the opportunity to participate in some very powerful workshop exercises to start identifying, dismantling and replacing the most painful Five Core Human Beliefs, that are leading you away from peace, radiance, acceptance and love … instead of toward the freedom to become Who You Truly Are.

As well as share with you a very exciting announcement, which you will find out about by reading on!

And … finally you will have a chance to WIN any MTE course of your choosing, valued up to $225, just by joining in and participating with us on the blog with this three-part series!!

 

The Shift One Person At A Time And Neale’s Involvement

I am adoring this exciting time of personal and collective awakening and growth this year.

At a time where our world desperately needs this shift.

As we see terrorism, fear and pain exploding all around us, as well as shake ups in our economies, country structures and alliances in unprecedented ways – we KNOW that things are changing.

Additionally, the relationship between men and women and our roles, for the first time in human history, has shifted away from gender definition and survival into conscious co-creation and mutual partnership.

How we view ourselves is changing; how we can give up being victims to the outside effects of our life is changing, and how we can heal from our personal pain and the suffering of the human collective experience is changing.

No matter what it all looks like (an abscess that needs to burst) I believe these are unprecedented and exciting times of revolutionary change, evolution and waking up from the slumber that has kept us all dimmed down, powerless and in fear.

In this incredible year of 2016, the MTE team has connected with many wonderful partnerships with renowned global spiritual and love experts – other individuals who also believe It is TIME and We can’t stay asleep any longer, we need to healfor the sake of our our own souls, each other, our planet and our future generations.

And that this development and healing shift MUST happen one person at a time.

Neale Donald Walsch is such a person, who is on the global stage doing incredible work to help people shed the False Core Beliefs that keep them trapped, in order to rise up and into the ones which will set them free.

My deep and passionate love affair with Neale’s work began many years ago.

It was the year 1999 … I had suffered yet another breakup which had broken my heart.

Additionally, I had lost my job, and I was a single mother with a ten-year-old child to support with no assistance from his father, bills and a mortgage to pay … and here I was thrown into survival again, questioning everything and feeling terribly panicked by “How AM I going to Survive?”

A friend told me about the book Conversations with God.

She said to me, “The book has an energy of its own, some people have it sitting on their shelf for months and when the time is right they start reading it – they can’t put it down.”

I asked “Why …?”

She said, “If it’s time for you you’ll find out.”

I was intrigued and despite all the fear and uncertainty I had going on in my life, I started reading it.

I was only two chapters in, and this book hit me so hard …

I just knew … No human could write this. This is wisdom from somewhere else.

and …

This book describes everything I have been feeling LITERALLY about the Meaning Of Life, but did not know how to put into words.

My time WAS right for this information and I couldn’t put the book down.

I finished the book 12 hours later.

The next day I went to Collins Bookshop to buy Book 2 and 3.

Little did I know, the Core Beliefs of Life that the Conversations With God (CWG) Series talked about, would one day be the VERY foundation of the Thriver Model.

And it is these Five Core Beliefs that Neale first inspired within me, that I wish to share with you and help you shift … in ways that will change your life beyond description.

THAT is what this three-part-series is ALL about!

And I am SO excited about it!

 

The Five Core Truths

From Conversations With God came the knowing for me of the most painful Five Human Core Beliefs that separate us from from peace, radiance, acceptance and love.

In this article series we are going to be identifying, dismantling and replacing the Five Core Human False Beliefs with the Truth.

The truth that DOES set us free.

(And please know this is only MY belief about these being the MOST painful Five that need resurrection in order for us to Thrive.)

In stark contrast to the Old Core Beliefs, these following Core Truths revolutionise everything we previously may have believed the human experience to be.

 

Core Belief Number One: There is NO separation from our Higher Power, ourselves or each other

Meaning at the Quantum Level we are all in fact interconnected as One, and all pain and suffering comes through the illusion (and often delusion) that separation is real.

 

Core Belief Number Two: There is NOTHING we have to prove or do in order to be loved and approved of by our Higher Power and to love and approve of ourselves

Incredible pain and suffering comes from the beliefs “I am not enough to be loved” and “I have to earn love”.

 

Core Belief Number Three: Behaviours are created by belief, and the only way to change behavior is to change the core belief

Meaning that trying to change behavior without addressing the actual subconscious programming (what that person really believes about any topic – good or bad) is fruitless.

We can see that evidence everywhere, as the world has tried to deal with behavior (symptoms) but has done virtually nothing to address belief (causes).

Hence why the world events of pain, fear, attacking, murdering and destroying each other and our planet have not healed.

 

Core Belief Number Four: “I only send you Angels”

There is no better way for me to present this Core Belief to you other than to just repeat these five words written by Neale.

This was the incredibly profound quote from Neale Donald Walsch which led me to adopt the expression A.I.Ds (Angels In Disguise) meaning that everyone we encounter is a Soul Contract to assist our soul’s agenda of personal and collective evolution.

 

Core Belief Number Five: “There is a divine purpose behind everything – and therefore a divine presence in everything.”

Again, this is a quote from Neale’s CWG Series, meaning that God is everywhere.

Core Belief Number Five was instrumental for me in the understanding that if we don’t accept that God is involved no matter how it looks, and There is a purpose for this no matter how it looks, then we are determined to remain a victim.

Neale’s teachings in regard to “love” and “fear”, were also VERY impactful for me.

As Neale wrote, “Fear wraps our bodies in clothing, love allows us to stand naked. Fear clings to and clutches all that we have, love gives all that we have away. Fear holds close, love holds dear. Fear grasps, love lets go. Fear rankles, love soothes. Fear attacks, love amends.”

I realized that to stay entrenched in beliefs of fear, pain and victimization and not heal and develop myself toward love – would only mean the withholding of love, healing and soul evolution to myself, my son and my world.

 

So there they are, the Five Core Human Beliefs that I am going to go into in much greater detail in this article series, and grant you the Workshop Exercises to start shifting from the Old into the New Truths powerfully.

Just as I did, to not just create a great life, but to originally save my life literally from total demise.

Back in the late 1990’s … as I read these books, I was “awake” … I felt these truths as incredibly REAL.

And I was excited … I believed we could reverse the Core Beliefs that had NOT been helping the human experience – the ones that had NOT brought us to the light, but had plunged us deeper into the darkness.

And I could FEEL it … the first sense of hope that there was a way to leave my victimisation and pain behind for good and be able to be the Source of God flowing through me as freedom, truth, purpose and love.

But, at this stage of my life, in my early 30’s I was nowhere near embodied in this.

Even though I felt it as powerful truth, I WASN’T living it.

I was still too wounded, affected and triggered by everything that had been my life and everything that was going on around me.

And … there were two things that I had not realised yet …

Firstly, that I was yet to live an extreme experience of being so enmeshed in the darkness that it would become an “evolve or dissolve” “Life or Death” experience …

And …

How much Neale’s writings in regards to beliefs create behaviours and how Human Core False Beliefs needing to be reprogrammed, would be the KEY to not just saving my own personal life, but would became a soul mission that I would personally take to the world.

But at this point – of first having had exposure to the MOST profound spiritual books that I have EVER read (I still recommend the CWG series as my number one spiritual read to people) –  I had a long way to go yet.

I was stubborn.

I was still sourcing life through my egoic fears, and I was not there yet.

The truth was, I had too much trauma in my body to allow it in …  and I was still doing everything to avoid the ONE thing I really needed to do …

Self-partner and MEET myself, to be with my wounds in order to release enough trauma and False Beliefs to allow in the new Core Beliefs that WOULD set me free.

Despite my still to come breakdown / breakthrough experience … Neale’s CWG series did keep me going for a long time.

They gave me hope and relief in difficult times.

They granted me the feelings of joy that somehow we could rise above fear and pain into love and Oneness, and that if we could all heal one person at a time – as Neale states “I think that things happen individually first, and then collectively. It’s not the other way around” – then we could all love each other safely and reverently.

These books for me, were the formula to totally revolutionize the ways we viewed our connection to ourselves, our Higher Power and all of life.

Radically, powerfully and FOR REAL …

In ways that peeled back the insane ways as humankind we have been achieving anything BUT that.

And … as the last bit … I want to talk a little more about this collective “push” …

… finally, here was a formula with the CWG Series to come out of the pain, struggle, fear and survival (which has been accepted as “the Human Condition”) in order to claim our organic True Nature of joy, creativity and co-generating true abundance, love and happiness within ourselves, with others and all of life.

This was / is our awakening to know that the accepted “Human Condition” is drastically ABNORMAL and INSANE, and the latter is Who We Really Are.

 

The Opportunity in This Three-Part Series

This article is the introduction to a three-part series in which I will share the most vital keys that Neale brought to me, through his words of wisdom.

This three-part series will span over this following week.

Granting the very teachings that were an integral piece of the puzzle for the Thriver Model – the healing system that allows people to truly THRIVE in their life after narcissistic abuse.

A model which the world so desperately NEEDS, if we are going to put an end to the cycles of abuse / abused.

The teachings that I will be sharing with you are the transformation of the Five Core Belief that allowed me to heal the unhealable – a diagnosis of psychotic breakdown and adrenal malfunction that I was told would have to be managed for the rest of my life.

You will discover in this three-part series that in order to activate and live the results of the shifting of these Five Core Beliefs, we need to accept this:

True Healing is never about trying to attend to “what happened to us” (the symptom), it is about deeply healing “why this happened to us” (the cause).

Personally, if I had not made shifts at this level, I would not be alive and sharing this information with you now.

Throughout this three-part series my aim is to provide you with the tools to create more inner peace, a deeper more abiding love and acceptance of yourself, better relationships with other people and the expanding confidence to express your Truest Self and create your Highest aspirations, purpose and dreams.

Throughout this series, which starts today and finishes next week, I implore you to participate in the exercises at the bottom of the next two articles and then fill in your answers in the comments below (you can always remain anonymous if you wish).

And to give you some extra incentive to participate … After the series has concluded the MTE team will be drawing 5 winners who will be able to claim any MTE course of their choosing for FREE.

In order to be eligible you must participate by commenting on both articles.

The winners will be announced late next week and will be granted any free MTE course of their choosing (valued up to $225).

Before we conclude, I have one last special announcement that I alluded to earlier.

I am extremely excited and humbly proud to bring to the Thriver Community, my dear friend Neale Donald Walsch’s free global event: Conversation With God – The 3 Secrets To Ending The Struggles And Making Your Life Work.

Just as Neale changed my life and planted the seed that would allow me to live my soul purpose, I know that his incredible work can do the same for you.

I can’t recommend connecting to his incredible, ever evolving work enough. Truly his messages are on the leading-edge to help individuals and the collective evolve and heal.

Here are just some of the things that you will learn in this free event …

How to:

  • Engage each day with renewed purpose, energy and excitement, because you’ll now know exactly who you are, why you’re here, and how much you matter.
  • Experience deeper, more authentic and fulfilling relationships, because your new clarity and awareness will attract and create positive interactions with everyone around you.
  • Almost effortlessly awaken to a happier, more centered and fulfilling life.
  • Communicate with Divine Guidance in every moment of your day, always feeling supported by and connected to God.

I want you to know that I only recommend the work of extremely gifted and generous souls who have an incredible message that I know can have an enormous impact on the Thriver Community.

Neale’s work is ABSOLUTELY no exception.

I will personally be taking part in this series …

As my love affair with Neale’s work certainly isn’t over!

(And as long as it exists it NEVER will be …)

Sooo …. I’d love you to join in and participate with me.

All you have to do is click here to reserve your seat and it’s 100% free.

The event begins on Thursday, July 7th at 5PM Pacific Standard Time.

Now, before I go … please know that the next instalment of this series, where we get down to business by beginning to identify and unravel the Five Core Human Beliefs that keep us stuck in fear, pain and unhappiness, will be released in a couple of days.

You will get notified about the next article by being a member of the New Life Newsletter.

Soooo ….  If you aren’t yet a member please click here to sign up, it’s free and you will also receive my free New Life Starter Pack.

And lastly, if you have a friend or someone close to you, please share this article and the sign up page for the New Life Newsletter with them, so you can take part in the series together.

I can’t wait to share this incredible SHIFTING of Core Beliefs with you.

It’s so exciting – because it changes EVERYTHING!

And as always I’d love to answer any comments or questions you have about this upcoming series!

 

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97 Thoughts on The Once Broken And Homeless Man Who Brought The Thriver Model To Life – Part 1
  • jeanjohnson2911@gmail.com'
    Jean Johnson
    June 30, 2016

    Looking forward to these questions!

  • black_miranda@hotmail.com'
    Miranda
    July 1, 2016

    This is the very thing I’m looking for at the point I am in this process. Thank you.

  • phoenx2009@hotmail.com'
    Phoenx
    July 1, 2016

    Hi Melanie!
    Through your YouTube videos, I finally could diagnose THE problem of my 10 year relationship! I’m FREE of the Narcissist, however, still stuck with myself! I really need to “level up”, as I too will become homeless very soon, if I don’t start my recovery from defunked programming! I have no job, although trying….Just feel LOST! My childhood involved “living in violent fear” (my mother being beaten n shot at, while my older sister n I lived with the fear of “Is today the day my daddy will rape me?” Older sister was molested from 5 to 15 years old. When I was in the 2nd grade, (she was in 5th grade) she told me, “I’m having sex with Daddy.” I thought she was crazy for a second, until the tears started rolling from her eyes. We were forced to live with this secret, cuz he told her that ifshe told our mother, he would kill us all (5 kids), make mother watch, then kill her! Had no reason to doubt his word, based on what we’d already seen and heard ourselves! I really hope reprogramming of the sub conscience works, because I need fast track….no years of talking about it! I don’t want to “stay there” talking about it! I want to “throw it up,” put it behind me for good and THRIVE!!! I am hopeful, broke n broken…stuck in repetitive patterns that “You can’t logically think your way out of”…(Sound familiar?lol) I know, I’ve been trying that for years! I
    I’m looking forward to this next 3 part series n hoping to win a MTE class!!!?
    Thank you for all you do,
    Phoenx

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 1, 2016

      Hi Phoenx,

      I am so pleased my YouTubes have helped.

      My heart goes out to you … you have had it so tough – right from the get-go.

      Yes, truly the answer to that much trauma is never cognitive … it has to be shifted cellularly.

      I really want you as well Phoenx to come into my next Webinar Group – that is all FREE too, and there is so much powerful support and healing for you there https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar

      This is your time to rise and heal – just as your name suggests.

      Mel xo

    • ssw319@aol.com'
      sandi
      July 2, 2016

      Phoenx,

      I just read your post and I had to reply to you.
      I wanted you to know that there are people out there who more than understand what you have gone through. I could have written your post. I started crying reading it.
      My younger sister and I were terrorized, stalked and raped by our bio father. With the same threat of death if we talked.
      My mother knew and did nothing about it until DHS came knocking at our door when I was 14, because one of our friends had called them to tell them of the abuse. If DHS would not have investigated, my “said, non-offending parent “mother” would have stayed there pretending to be the perfect family.
      My sister remembers all of the sexual abuse. The “real” me could not handle it and I dissociated and took all of the memories with me.
      My sister started telling me some of what she remembered about what she saw he did it me. The minute she tells me, I am transported back like it was happening…. at age 6-7.
      Like you, I have felt lost and out of place my whole life. All of my adult relationships have been with a Narcissist. The last was the hardest one to leave. I still have moments when I want to break the No Contact, after 5 years. He will contact me out of the blue about 10 months a go. I swear, he knows when I have moved on. I made the huge mistake of talking with him for months. He told me that he cant forget me, there is “no one like me” and that “His life is on hold until he sees me again, he stills and always will love me”
      He had me on the hook again and I actually bought a plane ticket back to SF to stay with him.
      Then I found Melanie!!!!!!!!!!! I watched her Utube videos for hours! and cried for hours. She made me finally get it through my head what he actually was about…….. HIM! And just as she said that the narcissist can not maintain the mask he wants me to see. It was like a slap in the face, a HUGE light bulb moment!!!! I cancelled the plane tickets and told him I was new and improved and would not be seeing him any time soon if ever. After that, he hung on for a month or so, telling me everything I always wanted him to say to me, but I held my ground. And he slowly just went back to someone he could still “Hook” as his source.
      SO, Melanie, you are my guiding angel! If you had not given me the insight and the tools to know how to change my thinking….. I probably would have gone back. I still cry at times and think that I miss him and that it would be “different” this time….. Then I get online and watch your scarcity consciousness video and I’m over it. You are in my daily gratitude journal. You can never realize just how much you actually saved my life!!!!
      So, thank you Melanie, Thank you
      Sandi, the “ex” source supply

      • Melanie Tonia Evans
        July 2, 2016

        Hi Sandi,

        goodness, my heart goes out to you …. I just so want to reach through this computer screens and give you a HUGE hug!

        Saudi – PLEASE, please consider 1) Coming into my next Webinar Group https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar and also please know NARP is the answer to getting EXTREME trauma out of your body and then being able to BE a New Self living WITHOUT it.

        I cannot recommend this step enough in order to get well from the horrors your Life has been.

        Also, please know Sandi that if you can’t afford NARP (even the small monthly payments) due to financial challenges then MTE offers sponsorships.

        You are certainly a person who I believe deserves to heal as much as ANYONE – and I would personally love this to take place.

        NARP details are here: https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp

        And if your require sponsorship please email your details to support@melanietoniaevans.com for help.

        I hope this helps.

        Mel xo

  • love2livel@yahoo.com'
    Patty
    July 1, 2016

    I need this because I go to AA meetings and church and you can really tell that people have trouble believing there is a God. Because of the violence and evil in our world turning on the TV turning on internet. Also I am personally struggling with knowing there is a God, He is there for me and loves me. Encouragement is needed for our world.

  • cblair456@yahoo.com'
    Cathy
    July 1, 2016

    Looking forward to the live event!

  • mccloudck@aol.com'
    Lyn
    July 1, 2016

    Hello MTW team,
    I’m looking forward to the 3 part series! Neale used to come in to our second hand shop (before he wrote his CWG books) in Talent, Oregon — a small town a few miles north of Ashland. Thank you, thank you for all you do, for all of us.

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 1, 2016

      Hi Lyn,

      Awww that would have been so cool!! 🙂

      You are very welcome Lyn and I am so pleased you are looking forward to the series!

      Mel xo

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    Lyn
    July 1, 2016

    I meant to type MT “E” — not W : )

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    Evelyn
    July 1, 2016

    Hi melanie,
    I’d love to experience this series as I watched on Youtube Neal’s movie, but I’ll be at work at 5 pm July 7th.
    Is there going to be a replay to watch it ( hear it) later ? I don’t want to miss this opportunity!!!!!
    Thanks for all you do.

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 1, 2016

      Hi Evelyn,

      That is so wonderful you are going to be a part of this series!

      Yes there will be a replay – absolutely!

      My pleasure Evelyn, and please know you are very welcome 🙂

      Mel xo

  • Jadams1121@hotmail.com'
    Jennifer
    July 1, 2016

    I am excited about the message! I just downloaded his first 3 books. Thank you Mel for always giving us access to wonderful people such as yourself to continue our journey.

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 1, 2016

      Hi Jennifer,

      How awesome you now have Neale’s Books – you will LOVE them!

      I am so glad you are excited – I am SO excited!!

      You are so welcome Jennifer, I feel so blessed and joyful that I CAN!

      Mel xo

  • Taliwork@yahoo.com'
    T
    July 1, 2016

    Looking forward to this

  • bhramirez702@gmail.com'
    Bea
    July 1, 2016

    This article is very timely as I am also going through a lot of turmoil right now. I am whole-heartedly looking forward to this series. Thank you Melanie!

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 1, 2016

      Hi Bea,

      I am really excited for you, because there may be a really powerful KEY for you in this!

      Mel xo

  • Maganaamber25@yahoo.com'
    Amber
    July 1, 2016

    Hi Melanie! What a beatiful blog post, I felt your wonderful energy and excitement reading it. Your NARP program has sometimes left me reeling about how effective it has been for me. Just 6 months ago I would of never imagined being at the emotional state I am currently at. It’s just awesome! Will be for ever grateful. Many more blessings to you and anyone reading this. Please give NARP a chance it WILL change your life in ways unimaginable. Can’t wait for your other part of your series. Much love, Amber

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 1, 2016

      Hi Amber,

      I am so thrilled that NARP has helped you so much! That is just wonderful 🙂

      So great Amber you are going to participate in this series, and much love to you too!

      Thank you for your post!

      Mel xo

  • Magdalenarte@gmail.com'
    Magda
    July 1, 2016

    Dear Melanie,
    Thank you for all your help, you are my angel! I came across your youtube videos in March of this year, when I was in a very dark place. Last summer, just days before moving into our new house, my partner of 15 years surprised me one night me with, “I love you, but I’m in love with someone else. I’m leaving.” Two days later his lover dumped him, so he never left. But by then our ten year old daughter had already been told her dad was leaving, a lot of harm had been done — so much crying! I’m embarrassed to say that we weren’t even married, it feels so irresponsible now, but I never wanted to sign a marriage contract. I felt so vulnerable. To make matters worse, we live in the UK, but are not citizens, my daughter and I are here as his dependents, we residents with visas, I don’t work and have no rights here. The experience broke me. Instinctively I knew to search for spiritual help, I read Elkhart Tolle, Dr Mario Martinez, Michael A. Singer, and many others. Then in February I woke up with a lump on my left breast. The lump turned out to be mastitis. I know the lump developed from the pain of betrayal. I had a biopsy which caused a hematoma that became infected, and that is where I am now, I literally have an abscess on my breast that needs to burst (two already did). The abscess is a reminder of the changes I have to make in my life: change of thoughts and emotional healing. I’ve seen all your videos! They have helped me so much! You’ve given me back my honor, dignity and self worth. I will gladly participate and provide answers in the upcoming articles — and I will keep my fingers crossed about winning a free course! Much love and respect.

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 1, 2016

      Hi Magda,

      you are very welcome.

      It is so true that the physical dis-ease we suffer is the way our being its our attention to what is happening to us at an emotional level.

      I hope with all my heart that this material can help empower you for the sake of you and your daughter, and that is wonderful that you will be participating and you want to heal.

      Bless and fingers crossed for you too 🙂

      Mel xo

  • lilyamongthorns2012@gmail.com'
    Christy
    July 1, 2016

    I want to release living in fear and live in Truth and love

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  • Melanie Tonia Evans
    July 1, 2016

    Hi Angela,

    it is so true that when the words of truth hit – it is like the feeling of coming home.

    Finally, finally being able to make sense from the madness.

    I adore how you wrote “reading what the soul already knows” … that is SUCH a powerful expression – and is the true meaning of “resonating”.

    You are so welcome Angela, and I am so pleased I can help remind you and bring you back into that joy, freedom and “safety”.

    Mel xo

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    goodbye terrorism, violence, cruelty to all species..
    namaste, dearest Angel Melanie
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    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 2, 2016

      Hi Val,

      I so agree, and know how much you share my passion for an enlightened world.

      Oh gosh … yes … our world would literally transform OVERNIGHT – in so many ways.

      Yes… goodbye to all the fear and pain of separation.

      Love you Val.

      Mel xo

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    This is such a great reminder! I read one of Neal’s partly years ago and it absolutely didn’t resonate with me at the time… Maybe it was due to the translation, but more likely I just wasn’t ready yet!

    I just found out about narcissistic abuse and realized that I was raised by one… It made so many things clear!

    A couple of years ago I came across the Open Secret from Tony Parsons, have you heard of him? (http://www.theopensecret.com/)

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 2, 2016

      Hi Iris,

      I have heard of soooo many people who originally tried to read CWG – and later – they had the same experience of “not being able to put it down”.

      I am so pleased you are in this Community connected to this information now!

      No I haven’t heard about Tony Parsons, when I get time I will check out!

      Mel xo

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      Hi Sarah,

      that is so great!!!

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    Beverly
    July 2, 2016

    Hi Melanie
    I am trying to get in the headspace to participate in your programs. My partner (N) passed away 2 mths ago. It was devastating as we have a teenage some and his family banned us from even his funeral. I am trying to heal while grieving all at the same time. I want to thrive.

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 2, 2016

      Hi Beverly,

      I am so sorry that you have been going through such grief.

      I promise you, that when you can start shifting that grief and trauma out of your body – then you will start feeling relief.

      Are you on NARP, and are you in the NARP Forum?

      https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

      Because there is so much love and support you can be receiving there to help you Beverly get through this stage and into the shifts in your body.

      Mel xos

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    Donald’s books brought me home to a loving God and to me where I have begun an incredible journey inward. I am excited to tune into the series as I am still healing from a 27 year marriage to an N. I look forward to the series. Many thanks for making this possible. xoxo Brigit

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 2, 2016

      Hi Brigit,

      I love that Neale helped you connect to God and to yourself.

      That is great that you are excited to start doing the Workshop Exercises … and please know your are very welcome – it is my absolute joy!

      Mel xo

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    July 2, 2016

    Hi Mel,

    Yep, I still have his books on my shelf plus a stack of his newsletters “Conversations” The national newsletter of ReCreation from 1998 and 1999 published in Ashland, Oregon. He certainly impressed me then. I just couldn’t put it all together like you have. I’m so grateful for your loving kindness, genius and generosity!

    Love

    Don F

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 2, 2016

      Hi Don F,

      Maybe these upcoming Workshop Exercises and Neale’s event will now!

      I am very confident that you will have a big breakthrough Don!

      Thank you for your lovely comments, and you are so welcome!

      Mel xo

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    I purchased the book ‘Conversations with God 1’ read the first page and it resonated with me completely. I didn’t pick up the book again until 15 yrs later and finished it in a couple of days, then went on to read the 2nd and 3rd in the series consecutively.

    The past 7yrs I’ve been through narcissistic, spiritual abuse and coming out of it now. At the time I didn’t even know it was narcissistic pathology I was dealing with. I’m interested that you have a program that helps heal through theta & quanta, actual processes for recovery specifically for narcissistic abuse. Thank you for your offering & experience to teach us.

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 3, 2016

      Hi J,

      you are so welcome and I am so pleased you have found your way to this Community.

      I am very grateful that I did discover a Quantum Way to heal this – because there was no other way that did it for me!!

      Bless 🙂

      Mel xo

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    Melanie, I have found all of your shared experiences, your clear definitions of narcissistic abuse and your unique, yet particular words in describing narcissistic abuse as EXACTLY “my” hurts….all so helpful. I have done your webinar, joined your NARP forum and NARP Facebook. I have done module 1 over and over and over and over again. I have made progress yet I am still struggling to peel my artichoke leaves to get to my luscious heart buried in the center of me which is My True Self as Source/Light/God sees me. I honestly, genuinely and with all of my “hidden” heart want to thank you for your perseverance in bringing this important information, healing and transformation to those of us still wounded. …. and I hope my perseverance in turn pays off. I am trying to “trust” (as I can hear your voice say to me in module one and which I hear as a true comforting unconditional nurturing love and which gives me such peace). I am soooooo excited for this series. THANK YOU! Cassie Dey

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 4, 2016

      Hi Cassie,

      I am so pleased you are a part of this Community and on your way to Thriving.

      You are so welcome Cassie 🙂

      Are you in the NARP Forum lovely lady? https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member because truly there is so much support and breakthrough there, helping to give you the “tweaks” you may need to get that personal breakthrough.

      You SO don’t have to do this alone.

      Mel xo

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    Hi Melanie, I did your webinar couple of yrs ago but I was so buried in trauma and found everything very confusing even after a few sessions with you. I am much more aware now so better receptive. Is it possible to have another go at the webinar please. I think a guided session is better for me but you don’t take new clients now.

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 7, 2016

      Hi Jean,

      you certainly can take place in the next Webinar Group! All you need to do is email support@melanietoniaevans.com and either Harry or Clarie will get you hooked up.

      I don’t take any more clients now Jean, you are right … the Webinar Groups have evolved so much since 2 years ago … and it will be great for you now!

      Mel xo

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    I have been reading your posts and watching your you tubes for some time now. I was in a 17 year relationship that end the end left me feeling confused, heartbroken, and seriously doubting myself. The post that made me really understand my marriage was the one that described how a narcissist argues. My husband exhibited all of those traits, and, unfortunately, it brought out the shadow side of me, which of course he picked up and used against me with full force. Thank-you for all of your work. I am not completely a thriver yet, but I have come a long way, in large part because of your material.

    Thank-you,
    Vickie

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 7, 2016

      Hi Vickie,

      you are so welcome, and I am so pleased my material has been able to help you!

      Wishing you wonderful and continued healing 🙂

      Mel xo

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    Looking forward to this! You have linked many an interesting article, video, person. All of which, along with NARP had really opened my eyes to myself and the world around us.

    Through NARP I’ve learnt to deal with things on a much different plane. Well, not so much learnt because everything processed is now felt differently so therefore I just act on what I encounter in a different way.

    But as much i am the dealing with the N and my past, my future is still blocked. My key question for me to feel I’m really moving forward in the direction I need to is “what is my purpose? ” I am still trying to find what brings me joy and excitement. Still trying to find my passion and drive. I’m excited to think that the answer may well lie here! ? x

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 7, 2016

      Hi Jude,

      That is wonderful that you are looking forward to this!

      I am so happy you are working NARP and getting your breakthroughs!

      So, so true that after breaking out of our abuse traumas – the next step is Expansion – with a Capital “E”!

      And it is so juicy and exciting when we start working on and focusing on that stuff!

      This series will really help unblock a lot of stuff so that your True Self can start coming through – and also please know there is sooooo much on that level you can achieve with the Goal Setting Module as well as Empowered Self as a Course consideration – (maybe you could win it in the draw!) – to really start to get your Life to take off!

      Are you in the NARP Forum Jude? Because that resource will help you immeasurably too!

      https://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member

      Mel xo

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    Hi Melanie and everyone!
    Thanks to Neale’s (loved and Melanie’s inspiration, support and brilliant insights, I’m unblocking left and right! the goal module was tremendous in assisting me in to getting down to the nitty-gritty. All my beliefs went from 10/10’s to 3’s and 5’s. More later, if I’m not too shy too : )
    Thank you, thank you,
    Lyn

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    Hi all,

    Oops.. . . meant to say after “Neale’s” — (loved his webinar!)

    Best to all,
    Lyn

    • Melanie Tonia Evans
      July 11, 2016

      Hi Lyn,

      that is SO wonderful!!!

      So pleased you have loved working with all of this!!

      Yaya!!!

      Mel xo

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    Okay this is very timely.
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    As an example, I just read his ‘CWG for Teens’ and while discussing ‘Original Power’ God says that, until teenagers speak to their parents and get their agenda out into the open, they are manipulating their parents into looking after them and providing them with the things they need and want such as their parents’ love and a place to live.

    This God doesn’t appear to have any sense of responsibility towards those who are dependent or vulnerable. I think it sounds more like something an abuser would say.

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