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I have some very exciting news for you today.

I’m COMING to see you and I can’t wait!

Zac and the MTE team are coming too.

The reason we are is that during the tour for my book You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse in London and Los Angeles, Zac and I had the immense joy and pleasure to connect with many beautiful people in events, workshops, and Thriver meetups.

These are experiences we will NEVER forget.

I know … I feel called … to do more IN-person things with YOU.

And … we’d be doing you a disservice if we couldn’t offer you life-changing experiences IN-PERSON!

Today’s video is all about the details of our upcoming Live Events.

 

Complete the 2-minute survey and secure your early bird ticket for MTE’s in-person live event.

 

Video Transcript

In today’s video I want tell you something that we’ve been keeping under wraps for several months now…

It all started on our book tour to London and LA earlier this year…

Zac and I arrived in London, bleary eyed after travelling for 24 hours straight. Almost every hour of our days were booked with events, talks I had scheduled, and meetings, including my first in-person meeting with our Publisher, Watkins Publishing, and the wonderful woman, a dear angel, Theresa Cheung, who helped make my book You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse become a reality.

We knew the tour was going to be crazy, but we really had no idea what to expect.

But I can tell you, from the moment we got to our Airbnb, unpacked our bags, and set out on all our engagements, we fell in love with what we were doing!

Meeting Thrivers, who I’d been connected with for as long as I could remember, for the very first time, brought tears to my eyes…

Having the opportunity to speak live to our audience, see and feel the energy of all the incredible souls in this community.

And then getting the opportunity to deliver an all-day workshop, and witness in person the miraculous breakthroughs of all the people who took part…

If you told me just 10 years ago, that the Thriver Mission, which started in my little unit in Langwarrin, Victoria, could have led to this – I wouldn’t have believed you.

The entire London experience, everything, I couldn’t believe it.

All this time that we’ve been helping people heal and thrive from abuse, mostly from sitting behind a computer, I have known deep down that we had been changing lives. But to actually witness THAT, and to experience so many people come up to me and say, ‘Thank you – you saved and changed my life’…

I was speechless.

In fact, I remember turning to Zac and, looking at each other, we said simultaneously, ‘How lucky are we; we have the best job in the world!’

Then we went onto LA and the experience was just as special … I got to meet some of the most amazing people in my life, for the very first time.

I got to speak and spend an afternoon at our Thriver Meet-up. It was SO much fun!

Okay… So here’s the big news…

From the moment we left LA and came back to Melbourne, we have been itching to get back on a plane…

Because we know deep down that this is my mission to be with you, and even though myself and the MTE team produce so much material online – across YouTube, my Blog and social media, as well as our emails and healing programs – we know that we’d all be doing you a disservice if we couldn’t offer you something incredibly special in person.

That’s why later this year we are going to be hosting the first ever MTE Live Events – where you will get the chance to join me in your nearest city!

They’re going to be lots of fun… You’ll be able to meet and connect with other Thrivers, which is always so special. And, most importantly, we’ll be creating transformations, literally to the point where you will walk out of the room at the end of the workshop as a totally new you!

So how does that sound?

I hope you’re excited 😊

Now, there’s just two very important things I need from you to help make this happen:

Where you live. We want to know which cities have the BIGGEST Thriver Tribes, so that we can schedule the events accordingly. And we want to know what TYPE of events you would be most interested in, so that we can deliver exactly the kind of healing and transformational experience that you would like.

So, to help you share this information with us, we’ve created a quick-and-simple, two-minute survey for you to fill out.

And, when you fill out this survey you will automatically join the special Early Bird List, giving you the opportunity to be first to get tickets!

Judging by how the Thriver Mission has grown over the last couple of years, we don’t expect the tickets to last all that long, which means completing the survey will be a great way for you to secure a ticket when they go on sale.

Please fill out the survey here and then keep an eye out for news of the events, which we’ll be posting on Facebook, Instagram and here on YouTube.

I can’t wait to see and give you a hug in person … Bless!

 

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52 thoughts on “Big Announcement – I’m Coming To See You!

        1. How about calling the police and taking martial arts or self defense, in that order. How about a restraining order on the brute. Once they lay their hands on you, it’s serious business and if you stay you are gambling with your life.

  1. I live in Highland, California U.S.A. It it’s about 75 miles east from Los Angeles. I have been working the NARP program for about a year. My narcissist is my father. We became estranged with no contact 3 1/2 years ago now. We live only 3 miles away from him. He is a cussing raging first, then silent treatment verbally and emotionally abusive man to myself, my husband, my 2 young adult aged daughters. He is the overt grandiose narc who sees my little family and me as his possessions (slaves). I put up with his abuse on a weekly basis for 50 years and then said “no more.” He has texted and sent the most threatening and profane letters to me over the past 3 years, but I have stood my ground. My mother is his Stockholm syndromed #1 flying monkey that has been with my father for 59 years (since she was 14 years old). My golden child namesake (after my father) brother is totally defending my dad too and wants nothing to do with me (I believe because it was very convenient for him to have me take care of my parents and do all the dirty work, while he swooped in about 6 times a year on holidays, wined and dined them for a few hours, and then got to travel home to the peaceful home far enough away to not deal with my parents). I have read so many books (including yours), seen thousands of You tube videos, and have been through many coaching programs. NARP has helped but it is still so hard dealing with the guilt and disbelief that my parents and brother want nothing to do with me. We are so programmed by culture and our parents that we are to “honor our parents,” but I finally realized that no one should put up with abuse no matter who it is from. I still feel guilty that they are in their 70s and most likely need our help, but refuse our help because of what a terrible thing I did by abandoning them.I would love to see you in L.A. if you come out here.

    1. Hi Robin,

      I would love to come and see you too! L.A. is a very possible place for us to revisit.

      Please know Dear Lady that research and learning about narcissism is absolutely no substitute for the deep inner work of purging any trauma that is keeping us in pain and limited, from our inner beings.

      That is the real work that NARP provides. I’d love to help you more deeply with this of course within a live workshop event, and by you connecting into the NARP members forum where we roll our sleeves up, get this real inner work done, and deeply and lovingly support each other to achieve this.

      The members who are struggling with committing to NARP inner work, or have some blocks with it and arent getting the true results, benefit greatly by reaching out in this way.

      I hope this can help.

      Sending healing and breakthrough solutions to you

      Mel 🙏💕♥️

  2. Dear Melanie,
    I am in the middle of a move. Familiar story, I could not keep my house due to narcissistic abuse. I am not sure where I will be.
    But I’m thinking San Francisco is where I could come to a workshop with you.
    I look forward to meeting you

  3. Hi unfortunately I cannot find the survey
    I’m in Melbourne and ready for live MTE
    I am interested in a seminar with live going within experiences as well as all your positive energy
    And the ppl around the room
    Hope Melbourne is included x

      1. How about calling the police and taking martial arts or self defense, in that order. How about a restraining order on the brute. Once they lay their hands on you, it’s serious business and if you stay you are gambling with your life.

  4. Melanie

    I would love to meet you! I travel all the time and could be anywhere at any given time. Home base is South Florida, but I’d go to up to New York, Boston, Princeton or anywhere on the West or East Coast to see you.

    I don’t know how I missed you last time you came to LA. Please keep me posted.

    You’re actually healing the brokenhearted and helping the oppressed go free. This is holy work.

    So grateful to know you.

  5. Hello Melanie!!
    I don’t know how far east you will be coming, but I am near Hershey and Lancaster PA!! We’ll see how many thrivers respond in this area!
    Hope maybe I’ll see you in the near future!
    Thank you!
    Debbie

    1. Hi Debbie and Melanie,

      I am also near Hershey and Lancaster, and will drive to Philadelphia as well!

      Melanie, I can’t begin to tell you how much your program has helped me. I’ve learned to stand up for myself at work and everyone who gave me a difficult time has left, just as you said they would as I healed myself. I am so grateful to you and continue to focus on healing rather than blaming. Please consider coming to Pennsylvania!

      Gratefully,
      Ilona

      1. Oh hi Ilona and Melanie!
        Great to see that you are near me, Ilona! Would love to meet you! Yes, I could go to Philadelphia as well… didn’t even think of that! Or Harrisburg, or even Baltimore, Maryland.
        Let’s hope there are others near us! This could be the opportunity of a lifetime!
        And Mel, I know you can’t meet everybody and be everywhere, but thanks for your response and I’m putting in another plug for PA;)
        Hope to see you soon! 💗
        Debbie

  6. Please come to Canada Melanie! Even though I am in Montréal (a gorgeous city to visit) Toronto is probably a better location. I would be honoured to help organize your event.
    I have been a NARPER for five years and with your guidance have been able to navigate a contentious divorce and the ex narc’s attempt to alienate my daughter. I have landed on my feet despite his every attempt to bring me down.
    I have been hoping you would hold public events to help us shine even brighter! I was even willing to fly down to Melbourne if needed!
    Thank you for this exciting news!
    Love to you!

    1. Hi Loreto,

      Wow thank you for your beautiful offer of assistance!

      This has been duly noted Lovely Lady.

      I’m so pleased for you and your daughter that you broke through, against all odds, with NARP.

      So much love to you, and please know we will be in touch with you!

      Mel 🙏💕♥️

  7. Hi Melanie I am in San Francisco and I’m also too broke to travel further than my home town of San Francisco. I would do anything to meet you and work with you. You are an inspiration to me and my children. I took the two minute survey and said I could not do the three day workshop on post abuse because I cannot imagine getting through all the trauma I’m currently feeling now. Can’t wait to hear from you! Allison

  8. Dear Melanie,
    I have just recently found you….and SO glad I did. I have never heard or read someone who describes narcissistic abuse quite as accurately as you. I mean no disrespect to others, but you have exactly described the narcissist and the experience in a way that I am all too familiar with.
    I grew up with a sister who is almost two years older than I am. She is on the high end of the spectrum….complete with rage, …fear & intimidation are her tools. My mother is on the low end of the spectrum of Narcissism…more of a victim narcissist. My step-father was the raging abusive alcoholic…abusive in every way imaginable.
    When our current president was still campaigning back in 2015-2016, I came to the conclusion that something was wrong with this guy….I started reading books on NPD and started to understand on a deeper level….what my life has been about.
    I made a list of the narcissists that have been in my life….there have been 9, including my mother & sister.
    Yes, I have made a career out of picking these types for relationships.
    It was when I started reading the books that I started connecting the dots,
    I have been in therapy for 19 years (on July 1st) I do not know who I would be without my therapist’s patience and guidance.
    I have just recently started doing the deep work involved with true healing from the devastation of these relationships.
    I am so happy to have found your words of support and similar experiences.
    Thank you for sharing and giving of yourself to help us heal.
    I am about 60 miles north of San Francisco.

    Sincerely Grateful, Elizabeth

    1. Hi Elizabeth,

      I’m so glad you found your way to this incredible community too.

      That’s wonderful you have started the deep inner work, it is such a game-changer in how we can heal.

      I’d love to meet you in person in SF.

      Much love to you

      Mel 🙏💕♥️

  9. London, ??? England??? I live in London, Kentucky so, I doubt that is where you are referring to.

  10. Hi Melanie!

    I’m a NARPER and a big fan – Love your work!

    Unfortunately I’m in the midst of breaking free from abuse, so I can’t come to any event. Began the survey but realized answering the questions wouldn’t help you, as it wouldn’t be possible at this present moment. However, I’d love to attend an event in the future as a THRIVER!

    Anyway, please, keep us updated on how things are evolving, and I wish you and MTE-team best of luck and lots of Love!!

    Warmly,
    Malin

  11. Hi Mel…
    Missed you in London..
    Please come again or even better, Liverpool!!
    We have been great hosts to Richard Grannon & Sam Vaknin!!
    Much love
    Lydia

  12. Hi Mel,
    I am thrilled you are coming to the States! I live above Denver in the “foothills”. I can easily reach Boulder, Colorado, and/or Denver, Colorado. In fact Boulder is closer.

    Can also travel to New York (if my friend’s are there to host me on their couch :), Chicago, Seattle, San Francisco, Albuquerque or Santa Fe. But the very closest city is Boulder, and/or Denver, Colorado.

    I would so love to meet you and your team in person and say hello and thank you in person!

    If you come near enough that I can bring my harp, I’d love to play for your gathering in some fashion. People tell me my music is deeply healing for them. It is about love and joy 🙂 That would bring great joy !

    Have a safe journey and hope to see you in person !
    Love and thanks, Val

    1. Awww Val,

      It will be so beautiful, after all these years being connected, to finally meet in person.

      Your harp could be a gorgeous addition lovely lady.

      Cant wait to meet Val!

      Mel 🙏💕♥️

  13. Dear Mel, I have been wanting to say THANK YOU for so long!!! Also for your NARP relaunch and the much shorter modules, they came along just at the right time, and released so much psychological pressure for me personally – THANK YOU! And your announcement today – WOW – I would LOVE to meet you in person – so of course I would also travel to make that happen! I am in Munich, Germany. Such great news, I cannot wait :)) Love Katja

    1. Awwww Katja,

      How special it will be!

      I’m so pleased NARP version 3 is working so well for you.

      It would be wonderful to travel to Germsny … we would all love that so much.

      Much love

      Mel 🙏💕♥️

  14. Hi Mel,
    I am just so grateful that I found NARP, I have a feeling that without it I wouldn’t be anywhere near this far along on my healing journey. There are no words but thank you.
    If you are over in the UK again then it would be wonderful to see you in Brighton if you get the chance.

    All the best on your mission, you really are changing the world from the inside out. Amazing.

    Much Love,
    Petra 🙂

  15. Hi I live in a small town in Hampshire and Hampshire is one of the counties in Southern England. My name Is Christine but anyone can call me Christine, Chris or Chrissy. I hope to come to one of your conventions or seminars one day. I hope everything goes well for you Mel and your MTE team moderators members too.

  16. Im in South Africa and believe me no help whatsoever here. Ive look at most of your video’s and find them very helpful
    Just couldn’t get any plan , help to get out of this sick narcissistic marriage. Wish I can personally get afvise from you.

    1. Hi Rina,

      My heart goes out to you, as I know that you do have limited support and resources there.

      Please know that we do have women from South Africa in our community who have healed from abuse and are Thriving.

      I’d love you to connect to my free inner transformational resources to start understanding more about this process http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse

      Sending love and support to you

      Mel 🙏💞💛

  17. I’m having a problem with the survey. It’s rejecting my yahoo email. It’s the same email i’m a thriver member with. I also have a g-mail combined email and it is rejecting it too. Help!😆

      1. Wonderful! Your book has helped me so much in healing my inner wounds so I can move on from my covert narcissist husband. Many, many thanks!

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