Category: Survivor to Thriver

Without Innerstanding You Will Never Be Understood

I love the expression “Innerstanding” - because it is SO Quantum! People ask “What does Quantum mean?” My explanation is this: entering the unseen world and seeing the base-note truth from where all physical reality springs from. Your personal Innerstanding relates to your energetic relationship with yourself. It’s your emotions, and your emotional decisions. To [...]

Is It Limerence Or Is It Love?

Have you heard of limerence? It’s a real buzz word at the moment – and for good reason. Limerence happens when you fall hard and fast for a person you do not really know, but feel a powerful connection to. This unfamiliarity allows you to take all your hopes and dreams of a perfect partner, […]

How Do You Change A Toxic Person?

Have you noticed that some relationships just gorgeously flow and organically evolve, whereas others seem to take up all your time, emotional energy and mental load – yet never improve? Today’s Thriver TV episode is all about those relationships where we find ourselves endlessly explaining, arguing, lecturing and prescribing – desperately doing everything we can […]

New Age Versus Quantum Beliefs When Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse

Today's article is on a topic I really want to speak to, because I know that lots of spiritual people get abused by narcissists. Like many of us, I used to be highly invested in being “spiritual”, being aligned with “love and light” and believing that if you are a good person then others should [...]

Is The Narcissist All-Powerful?

I’m sure you, like me, have been in situations where it has felt like the narcissist holds all the cards, and has all the power. It can feel like whatever you do, you are unable to get through to them, and have no choice but to knuckle under and accept whatever horrific, degrading or traumatizing […]

Your Relationship with Money and Financial Abuse

Many of us within this community will have suffered horrible financial devastation due to narcissistic abuse. We may struggle to regain the prosperity we once had.Or we may rebuild, only to find ourselves smashed down into poverty and debt again. This happened to me more than once, and without Quanta Freedom Healing I could never […]

8 Ways Narcissists Make You Lose Yourself And Bond To Them

You have probably heard of the term ‘trauma bonding’ before, and even if you haven’t, I’m sure that like me, you will have experienced the symptoms of trauma bonding within a narcissistic relationship. Trauma bonding holds us attached to an abuser even when our brain is logically screaming at us to leave and stay away. […]

How Does Lack And Dependency Feed Into Abuse?

In today’s article we are going to deeply peel back one of the most painful reasons why abuse can happen to us – lack and dependency. My intention with this article is to allow all of us to understand the “gaps” that have ensnared us with abusers, so that we can ascend beyond this to [...]

How To Become Immune To Narcissists

Have you been wondering if there’s a way to build up your immunity to narcissists? A way to be absolutely sure they will never trigger you, reel you in, manipulate you or hurt you again? I once wondered this myself because, like you, I felt unsure that I would recognize if someone is a narcissist, […]