Year: 2013

How To Release Shame And Come Home To Yourself

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

In today’s article I want to bring up a topic that so many people don’t want to think about or talk about.

It’s about that inky, insidious word ‘Shame’. Even saying the word “Shame” feels yukky!

The reason I want to do this is because if we leave shame buried in the darkness it remains insidious. Truly this topic needs to be brought up into the release and the relief of the light of day – and that is my intention in regard to ‘shame’ today.

Life doesn’t always go perfectly. Life just isn’t like that. There are things that happen in our life that get us questioning all sorts of things. Continue reading “How To Release Shame And Come Home To Yourself”

The Futility Of “I Will Be Happy When…”

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

Life is full of many incredible ironies, and the more we get to understand how life really works, and Who We Really Are, we can begin to understand what does serves us is not what we have been programmed and conditioned to think.

The operative work in the above sentence is ‘think’.

The information in today’s article is a sharing of my personal journey and the path I am connected to presently.

This path fascinates me and excites me beyond anything I have ever felt and experienced emotionally and vibrationally before, and I am literally stunned by how pure and simple it can be. Continue reading “The Futility Of “I Will Be Happy When…””

Are You With A Narcissist?

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

 

Today in the world and in the news we hear the word narcissism quite often, but if you were to ask the general public what makes someone a narcissist would they be able to tell you?

Would they say it is someone who is full of themselves? Would they say it is someone who is arrogant and conceited and thinks they are better than everyone else?

This announcement is incredibly important. As you read on you will understand why.

The truth is, Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is much more sinister then that…

Continue reading “Are You With A Narcissist?”

Transforming Family Of Origin Wounds Mini Course Released!

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

I hope you enjoyed my last 2 articles about how to transform your family of origin wounds.

Because I discovered how important it was to target and shift my own childhood programming, I decided it was vital to share this information with the New Life Community.

It has been incredible just how much interest this new Mini Course has generated since my two latest blogs.

I know that many of you truly have made the connection in realising just how impactful your childhood has been to your adult life. Continue reading “Transforming Family Of Origin Wounds Mini Course Released!”

How To Transform Your Family Of Origin Wounds Part 2

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

I am so pleased I shared with you last week the wonderful experiences I have had as a result of releasing and transforming my childhood wounds, and I thank you so much for your beautiful supportive comments regarding the joy I now experience with my parents.

I know many of you have made the connection between the pain of your childhood and the disappointments of your adult life – specifically in the realms of relationships – and I know many of you also want to create a much healthier ongoing experience of life and love. Continue reading “How To Transform Your Family Of Origin Wounds Part 2”

How To Transform Your Family Of Origin Wounds Part 1

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

So often I receive emails and messages from people about how to heal from narcissistic parents, as well as narcissistic family members.

I know my information has primarily been about how to heal from narcissistic partners, because that has been my personal experience, but the reality is the wounds of abuse began in our childhoods.

Many people have used the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program in order to heal from narcissistic parents by putting the energy and pain of the abuse from that person into the Healing Modules (rather than an intimate partner) and have received healing and liberation as a result. Many people have also, after healing from the narcissistic intimate partner, then focused the Healing Modules on a narcissistic parent (or family member) for the same result. Continue reading “How To Transform Your Family Of Origin Wounds Part 1”

What To Do When You Feel Emotionally Stuck

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

You have been working really hard on yourself, you feel yourself become more aware, more aligned with what you want, and you know how much better you have got at honouring yourself.

And then something happens…

It feels like it all falls apart.

Your limiting beliefs come to the surface and you feel like you can’t move forward any longer.

Sound familiar? Continue reading “What To Do When You Feel Emotionally Stuck”

Co-dependency Checklist – How Far Have You Come?

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

Whilst talking about what article was going to be written this week, an idea was raised, which was “How about checking in with the community as to how they are going with working on co-dependency?”

Immediately this really felt right…

Whenever I have done radio shows, or blogs and of course the 30 day challenge – and its segment on co-dependency – a lot of people’s ears definitely prick up, and a lot of people get involved.

I thought it would be a great idea to get you to do a co-dependency checklist now, to see just how far you have come in releasing your co-dependent patterns, and to identify which areas are still lacking, so you know what you need to keep working on. Continue reading “Co-dependency Checklist – How Far Have You Come?”

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