When you discover what narcissism is all about you know you are not the ‘sick’ one, and you know you weren’t to blame – because no-one can create a healthy relationship with a narcissist. But truly, is it enough to just know this? Is this enough for us to heal and move forward and know you will […]

If you have tried to break away from a narcissistic relationship you know that it is excruciatingly difficult. Just when you think you’re finally ready and determined to leave, or simply know that you have to get away, the narcissist turns your emotions upside down with guilt, intimidation or fear tactics, or looks you in […]

Manifesting the Goals and Dreams You Desire   Did you know the belief system you have about yourself self dictates your capacity to achieve your goals and dreams? Our inner belief about ourself creates our real life experiences, regardless of the direction our mind would like to take us. The problem is most of us […]

Do you struggle to put yourself first? Do you have trouble envisioning your success and survival without the support of someone else? Do you sometimes feel subconsciously that your goal in life is to procure a partner, regardless of the emotional cost, who will provide for you? Do you ever wonder why you believe this […]

This week we are nearing Easter. For many of us this is a time spent with people close to us. These times are some of the most memorable of my life, many of them good but some of them were at the time, very unpleasant. As many of you may know, years ago I lived […]

I get numerous emails every week asking this exact question: Is He or She Really A Narcissist? So many people ask – How can I be sure? I want you to be very clear on what I am about to state. It’s actually not important whether someone has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) or whether they […]

I know that many of us think that we are there with our unhealed inner programs. We may have thought because we had done so much work on ourself, that we had it right, and we’d moved into the space of receiving a great life experience. Then bang! Something happens in our life that feels […]

Do you know what one of my hardest jobs being a healer is? Let me tell you… It is convincing women that the man they lost is not a loss… How can I do this when women have the gut wrenching feeling “How will I ever feel as attracted to anyone else as I DID […]

This topic on taking personal responsibility may lose some of you – and indeed, that is okay because even though this is the case, it will also “find” many of you – in that you will have the ability to totally find yourself, pick up the key, and turn it to create true relief and […]