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Is He or She Really A Narcissist? Laying Boundaries and Accountability

Posted on March 14, 2012December 19, 2019 by Melanie Tonia Evans

I get numerous emails every week asking this exact question.

So many people ask – How can I be sure?

I want you to be very clear on what I am about to state. It’s actually not important whether someone has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) or whether they don’t, or are displaying enough narcissistic traits to make your life painful or unbearable. What is important is that you are aligned with and living the life that you wish to live, and creating that truth by holding powerfully to that truth – no matter how hard that may be to do ….

Most people have some narcissistic traits and it is normal to have exhibited narcissistic behaviour at some point in their life. However, there is a big difference between normal people who are capable of taking responsibility and being accountable for their behaviour and those with NPD who are incapable of this. Continue reading “Is He or She Really A Narcissist? Laying Boundaries and Accountability”

Trying to Make the Narcissist Accountable is Keeping You Hooked

Posted on August 29, 2011July 26, 2023 by Melanie Tonia Evans

As we know narcissists often act in ways that defy all definition of normal. They regularly break the rules, tell lies, break promises, degrade, demean and exhibit unjust, aggressive and abusive behaviour that is inappropriate, childish, without remorse and totally inhuman.

It’s likely, if you have suffered narcissistic abuse, that you have a high level of integrity, and it’s likely you’re known as a person who does the right thing. You have a conscience, and because you do, you’re mindful of considering your environment and other people. Continue reading “Trying to Make the Narcissist Accountable is Keeping You Hooked”