Whether you’ve had the misfortune of encountering an overt or a covert narcissist you will have endured the cycle of idolise, devalue, and discard. ALL narcissists apply this cycle of tactics … yet it’s in how they hook you in and destroy you that the difference lies. Overts have big outgoing personalities, they are entitled, […]

It may seem like the narcissist gets to coast through life never receiving the karma for the pain they cause. But it’s just not true! Even if the narcissist has a hot partner, a Ferrari in the garage and an opulent home and lifestyle they don’t truly enjoy their lives. Understandably, it’s hard to see […]

Have you caught yourself wondering if the narcissist is missing you after the relationship is finally over? Have you found yourself questioning whether they think of you when they’re alone or even when they’re with someone else? I was once stuck thinking these troubling thoughts until I came to some serious realizations about what was […]

After everything the narcissist has done to you wouldn’t it be nice to get a little bit back one day? I’m not talking about doing something cruel or vindictive like them, but I am talking about solid ways to stand in your power that bring them TOTALLY undone. In this episode of Thriver TV, I […]

Today I want to talk to you about the 6 ways that you can stop handing your power to a narcissist. Why is this so important? Because narcissists are powerless to operate against you if you DON’T hand them your power. Truly this is for real – and I hope that today is going to [...]

Narcissists are highly skilled at making you agonize over the silent treatment by rendering you invalid, invisible, and totally redundant. Being switched off and treated like you don’t even exist, after everything you’ve done for this person, is devastating. Don’t I know it! If you have also felt these feelings of despair, betrayal, and the […]

Many of you have been talking about divorcing a narcissist at the moment so I really wanted to reach out with this article to help you with that because I know many of you are contemplating this decision. Divorcing a narcissist is one of the most gruelling experiences of your life, and it is impossible [...]

Given the distress and damage narcissistic abuse causes it can be hard to believe that we have superpowers that can make them bolt the other way! Just like vampires when you shine the light on them, they retreat into the shadows when you are not needy or empty any more. And positively flee when you […]

If you’re part of this community, by now you’ve probably experienced the destructive triangulation tactics narcissists use to gain dominance and control over you. It’s insidious and a very painful dynamic that triggers your insecurities. When you’re caught in this web – whether it’s in a love relationship, at work, with friends or family members […]