Is there anything more painful than being discarded?
Have you felt, or are you feeling that TERRIBLE feeling … when you are curled up in the corner after being deserted by someone you believed loved you … thinking this:
“I am NOT wanted”?
That’s painful enough in a normal relationship! And when we are discarded by a NARCISSIST, the trauma is amplified significantly, because it is not their intention to let you get on with having a happy, healthy life after leaving you.
Rather, he or she will strip you of your confidence and mental, emotional and physical health to leave you CONVULSING in the gutter, as they prance away with your goodies – the people and things closest to your hearts, as well as your finances and resources.
There are no words to describe the utter torture of this!
It not just about being ABANDONED, it’s also steeped in deep BETRAYAL.
How do we recover from this?
Is there a way to stop the obsessive thought loops in our head that consume us relentlessly?
Are we ever going to be able to go forward, without feeling that our hearts, souls, and lives have been torn to shreds?
Like so many of you I have gone through the indescribable anguish of narcissistic discard, and being so low and devastated that I would do anything to get ‘something’ from him.
I was like a crack addict crawling on a dirty floor trying to get a sniff of my drug. So please know, I understand what it is to LOSE all self-respect for ourselves when discarded with NO closure!
Yet, today, I have total closure, peace and the ability to BE in my heart and life in ways that far exceed my greatest dreams and joy.
And … I was able to create this closure without ever needing him to apologise, fix anything or be held accountable.
If you are suffering and/or fearing discard from a narcissist, today is a very special day because I am going to share with you how to get TOTAL closure, without needing ANY of what we used to believe IS closure!
This is such an important KEY! You need to watch to understand WHAT that means …
Please know from the bottom of my heart there IS a way to achieve closure (which means relief and freedom) when you understand and learn how to implement the keys in this video.
I look forward to answering your comments and questions below.
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