There is nothing more frustrating than trying to make a narcissist accountable, responsible and behave like a decent human being.  We try everything to make life happy, peaceful and sane but nothing works. We are looking to have a game of friendly croquet in a deadly hell zone with machine guns, rocket launchers and […]

  Maybe you know or suspect you have a covert narcissist in your life now and perhaps you are BEYOND TERRIFIED of experiencing another one AGAIN. Covert narcissists are amongst the slipperiest and most dangerous, because they are the hardest of all to detect! Yet…TRULY, it is NOT true that you are defenceless against them. […]

  A narcissist knows how to target you. It’s no different than a lion sizing up an injured gazelle. ESPECIALLY after narcissistic abuse, you need to KNOW how they do it… As well as close up all your GAPS – the things they LOOK for that MAKE you susceptible to them. If you are TERRIFIED […]

  Spiritual narcissists hit HARD. They devastate your belief, soul and life – and they do it under the most manipulative guise of healing you. It’s BEYOND devastating. HOW do they do it? How CAN we stop it?

  Narcissists fight DIRTY. In battle with a narcissist, whilst trying to get resolution, sanity or even a scrap of decency, it may seem like all you get is MORE traumatisation. Narcissists can feel IMPOSSIBLE to defeat. But … this isn’t the case. In today’s Thriver TV episode, I am going to hand you the […]

  A narcissist will always eventually, one way or another, discard you. It doesn’t matter whether you leave, they do, or how the relationship blows up. One of the hardest things to come to terms with is this:  the narcissist doesn’t care about me and can live without me. We experience this from their words and […]

  The pull we have towards narcissists is OFF the planet! Even when they are hurting us SO much that it’s literally killing us, we usually stay connected … Hoping they will wake up … change … get it … and stop doing what they are doing to us. But they don’t. If we can’t […]

  When dealing with a narcissist normal ‘human’ rules don’t apply! You can’t talk sense, be heard or reach a resolution. In fact, the narcissist DOESN’T want ANY resolution. So how do you deal with these individuals? How CAN you get peace, sanity, release, relief and your life back?

  It’s very likely you know what it feels like to meet someone who you thought was kind, charming intelligent and attractive … who turned out to be a wolf in sheep’s clothing. The whole experience and aftermath of having your life and soul terrorised by a narcissist can be so shocking, many people understandably, may […]