Today’s article is going to help empower you immensely, as I share with you the eight ways narcissists target your weaknesses to manipulate and punish you. This article, absolutely, is for the individuals in our wonderful community who don’t just want to survive narcissistic abuse, but actually and utterly Thrive. In my humble opinion, there [...]

Narcissists have a script, they may not know it but they all pretty much say and do the same things. It all starts in the Love Bombing phase of the relationship when they are idolizing you and saying all the lovely words they know will hook you in. Once you’re hooked you can expect to […]

It’s quite possible that you have heard the term cognitive dissonance, because it’s a term that is used a lot in narcissistic abuse circles. It’s those times when your mind plays tricks on you; when it is in opposition to how you really feel about something. I’m going to explain this in more detail to […]

Arguments are a way of life for narcissists – that’s how they like to stack the cards. I’m sure you’ve wondered if there’s any way to win an argument with these toxic people. Hoping that one day they’ll stop the chaos and the never-ending energy drain you feel after every conversation you have with them. […]

Discussing the 5 signs you are ready to start dating again, is one of my most favourite topics to write about! I intimately know the difference between being terrified to love again, and having the absolute joy and blessing to be an empowered Thriving Dater! I know many of you may feel nauseous even at […]

When we’re caught up in a relationship with a narcissist we do all we can to force them to be decent enough to understand that they need to change. What we’re really after is for them to change so we can get love, approval, survival and security from them. But they don’t change. They just […]

Being infiltrated by a narcissist is literally like being poisoned. Not only do you feel like your Life Force is sucked out of you, you also feel like you have dark sticky black ink permeating every part of your being. There is also a sensation akin to white hot shards of glass coursing through your […]

There’s a deeper story playing out in your sexual relationship with a narcissist. Everything may have felt great at the beginning – the attraction and connection was probably intense and almost immediate. This person was everything you’ve always desired. They made you feel like the center of the universe. I’ve felt like that too because […]

Narcissist are nasty people. They are also sneaky … Today I want to share with you the six ways that a narcissist can use other people to abuse you. Why would a narcissist use others to do this? A narcissist, often by themselves, cannot inflict the levels of control or punishment that they may wish […]