When I was in relationships with narcissists I was numb in disbelief, at the things they are capable of doing… I am sure you can relate. Maybe you have asked yourself – Do narcissists know what they are doing? Do narcissist’s know how they hurt people? I hear these questions all the time. The answer […]

When I met my ex narcissist I knew within 2 weeks that “something was off.” After being in regular contact for days, all of a sudden he was out of contact, and I had this overwhelming feeling that something was not right. Then evidence appeared that he was in fact lying to me – but […]

I want to share this article with you because I want to grant you some more awareness of the bonds that happen between narcissists and co-dependents – and why they happen. This is very important because it allows us to realise that connections and relationships between people are not a random event – they are […]

We all know that the pain of narcissistic abuse seems unfathomable. It is so severe that it may feel almost impossible to function in everyday life. It can be a major accomplishment to effectively eat and sleep, let alone have the emotional stability to start your life all over again. My greatest mission regarding the […]

I know that a lot of you in the Empowered Life and Love Community have asked me to talk more about energy and Law of Attraction and how this works in our life. A lot of people who haven’t looked deep enough into Law of Attraction believe that by affirming, staying positive and simply focusing […]

  One of the most painful parts about a relationship with a narcissist is the accusations and ‘labels’ the narcissist puts on you. During your relationship with the narcissist you were probably accused of doing and being all sorts of things that you know at a logical level you certainly wouldn’t do. Such as:

This question can be tormenting, and it can create great anguish. Especially if we believed we had learnt the lesson before, and that after recovering from a narcissistic abuse experience we would never have to live through another one again. For many people, this is not the case. If narcissistic abuse does continue to show […]

After spending time learning about narcissism and identifying narcissistic traits in people (especially in your ex or current partner) you might all of a sudden stop and go … Wait a minute, am I the narcissist?! This can be a shocking and horrifying, especially if you start to believe what your mind is telling you, […]

After ending the relationship with your narcissist it is very common to be left with destruction to your security, assets, connections with family and friends, and shattered emotions, as well as all the other losses you have sustained as a result of being in a relationship with a narcissist… As you look at the rubble […]