Month: February 2019

What Makes Narcissists Irresistible And How To Rid Your Cravings For Them

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

 

The pull we have towards narcissists is OFF the planet!

Even when they are hurting us SO much that it’s literally killing us, we usually stay connected …

Hoping they will wake up … change … get it … and stop doing what they are doing to us.

But they don’t.

If we can’t stop the cravings for a narcissist, just like anything in our life that is destroying us, they continue to do so.

Piece by piece by piece. Continue reading “What Makes Narcissists Irresistible And How To Rid Your Cravings For Them”

How To Know If You Are Thriving After Abuse

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

 

Welcome to the Thriver’s Life series, the creation of your highest and best life after narcissistic abuse.

I get asked all the time by people, ‘How do I know if I’m Thriving?’ ‘How do I know if I’ve made it?’

In today’s episode of The Thriver Life Series, I’m going to help you clear up all the confusion about this and tell you exactly how to tell if you are Thriving!

I remember I used to ask the same thing, but I was asking myself these questions from the defunct beliefs of perfectionism and conditions on myself rather than the true sense of Thriving.

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Why You Shouldn’t Give Up On Love After Narcissistic Abuse

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

 

Happy Valentine’s Day!

I know, in this Community, Valentine’s Day can be a very painful day. When I was single I originally used to dread Valentine’s Day – it felt like such a confirmation that I was a  ‘relationship disaster’, yet once I started Thriver Healing it became my self-love day … and I thoroughly suggest you do the same!

But, more than this today, I want to talk to you about how you CAN Open your heart and love again after being devastated by a narcissist.

And it’s a very BIG and IMPORTANT topic because so many of you (as I originally felt too) never wanted to risk such excruciating love devastation again.

I understand – totally!

Continue reading “Why You Shouldn’t Give Up On Love After Narcissistic Abuse”

Protecting Your Children From The Narcissist’s Damage

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

 

I’m always SUPER PASSIONATE about this topic.

The reason being is because I SO want our children to heal, and for our world to shift out of narcissistic abuse patterns.

I nearly lost my own son due to my and his trauma from narcissistic abuse, so I deeply know the loss, trauma and suffering so many parents have been through or are going through.

There is nothing more devastating than watching our children be abused, neglected or manipulated and feeling POWERLESS to stop it. And, when reaching out to authorities for their help discovering, to our dismay and disbelief, that they often turn away and even further abuse us and our children.

Continue reading “Protecting Your Children From The Narcissist’s Damage”

8 Things You Need To Know When Dealing With A Narcissist

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

 

When dealing with a narcissist normal ‘human’ rules don’t apply!

You can’t talk sense, be heard or reach a resolution.

In fact, the narcissist DOESN’T want ANY resolution.

So how do you deal with these individuals?

How CAN you get peace, sanity, release, relief and your life back?

Continue reading “8 Things You Need To Know When Dealing With A Narcissist”

Why Narcissistic Abuse Hurts So Much

Posted on by Melanie Tonia Evans

 

The pain of narcissistic abuse is beyond description.  Unless you have been through it, you can’t even begin to imagine what it feels like.

We find ourselves looking out into a life that we no longer recognise, having unspeakable inner trauma, with no idea whatsoever how we are going to stay vertical and breathing – let alone ‘deal’.

Nothing seems to make sense and everywhere we look, and everything we try sets off even more surges of pain.

Do we even know who WE are anymore? I know, initially I certainly didn’t …

Why is the pain so horrific? Why does it feel like it may never end?

Continue reading “Why Narcissistic Abuse Hurts So Much”

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