What Makes Narcissists Irresistible And How To Rid Your Cravings For Them

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  The pull we have towards narcissists is OFF the planet! Even when they are hurting us SO much that it’s literally killing us, we usually stay connected … Hoping they will wake up … change … get it … and stop doing what they are doing to us. But they don’t. If we can’t stop the cravings for a narcissist, just like anything in our life that is destroying us, they continue to do so. Piece by piece by piece. (more…)

 

The pull we have towards narcissists is OFF the planet!

Even when they are hurting us SO much that it’s literally killing us, we usually stay connected …

Hoping they will wake up … change … get it … and stop doing what they are doing to us.

But they don’t.

If we can’t stop the cravings for a narcissist, just like anything in our life that is destroying us, they continue to do so.

Piece by piece by piece.

How To Know If You Are Thriving After Abuse

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Welcome to the Thriver's Life series, the creation of your highest and best life after narcissistic abuse. I get asked all the time by people, ‘How do I know if I’m Thriving?’ ‘How do I know if I’ve made it?’ In today’s The Thriver Life Series episode, I’m going to help you clear up all the confusion about this and let you know exactly how to tell if you are Thriving! I remember I used to ask the same thing, but truly I was asking myself these questions from the defunct beliefs of perfectionism and conditions on myself, rather than the true sense of Thriving. (more…)

 

Welcome to the Thriver’s Life series, the creation of your highest and best life after narcissistic abuse.

I get asked all the time by people, ‘How do I know if I’m Thriving?’ ‘How do I know if I’ve made it?’

In today’s The Thriver Life Series episode, I’m going to help you clear up all the confusion about this and let you know exactly how to tell if you are Thriving!

I remember I used to ask the same thing, but truly I was asking myself these questions from the defunct beliefs of perfectionism and conditions on myself, rather than the true sense of Thriving.

Why You Shouldn’t Give Up On Love After Narcissistic Abuse

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  Happy Valentine's Day! I know, in this Community, Valentine's Day can be a very painful day. When I was single I originally used to dread Valentine’s Day – it felt like such a confirmation that I was a  ‘relationship disaster’, yet once I started Thriver Healing it became my self-love day ... and I thoroughly suggest you do the same! But, more than this today, I want to talk to you about how you CAN Open your heart and love again after being devastated by a narcissist. And it’s a very BIG and IMPORTANT topic because so many of you (as I originally felt too) never wanted to risk such excruciating love devastation again. I understand – totally! (more…)

 

Happy Valentine’s Day!

I know, in this Community, Valentine’s Day can be a very painful day. When I was single I originally used to dread Valentine’s Day – it felt like such a confirmation that I was a  ‘relationship disaster’, yet once I started Thriver Healing it became my self-love day … and I thoroughly suggest you do the same!

But, more than this today, I want to talk to you about how you CAN Open your heart and love again after being devastated by a narcissist.

And it’s a very BIG and IMPORTANT topic because so many of you (as I originally felt too) never wanted to risk such excruciating love devastation again.

I understand – totally!

Protecting Your Children From The Narcissist’s Damage

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  I’m always SUPER PASSIONATE about this topic. The reason being is because I SO want our children to heal, and for our world to shift out of narcissistic abuse patterns. I nearly lost my own son due to my and his trauma from narcissistic abuse, so I deeply know the loss, trauma and suffering so many parents have been through or are going through. There is nothing more devastating than watching our children be abused, neglected or manipulated and feeling POWERLESS to stop it. And, when reaching out to authorities for their help discovering, to our dismay and disbelief, that they often turn away and even further abuse us and our children. (more…)

 

I’m always SUPER PASSIONATE about this topic.

The reason being is because I SO want our children to heal, and for our world to shift out of narcissistic abuse patterns.

I nearly lost my own son due to my and his trauma from narcissistic abuse, so I deeply know the loss, trauma and suffering so many parents have been through or are going through.

There is nothing more devastating than watching our children be abused, neglected or manipulated and feeling POWERLESS to stop it. And, when reaching out to authorities for their help discovering, to our dismay and disbelief, that they often turn away and even further abuse us and our children.

8 Things You Need To Know When Dealing With A Narcissist

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  When dealing with a narcissist normal ‘human’ rules don’t apply! You can’t talk sense, be heard or reach a resolution. In fact, the narcissist DOESN’T want ANY resolution. So how do you deal with these individuals? How CAN you get peace, sanity, release, relief and your life back? (more…)

 

When dealing with a narcissist normal ‘human’ rules don’t apply!

You can’t talk sense, be heard or reach a resolution.

In fact, the narcissist DOESN’T want ANY resolution.

So how do you deal with these individuals?

How CAN you get peace, sanity, release, relief and your life back?

Why Narcissistic Abuse Hurts So Much

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  The pain of narcissistic abuse is beyond description.  Unless you have been through it, you can’t even begin to imagine what it feels like. We find ourselves looking out into a life that we no longer recognise, having unspeakable inner trauma, with no idea whatsoever how we are going to stay vertical and breathing – let alone ‘deal’. Nothing seems to make sense and everywhere we look, and everything we try sets off even more surges of pain. Do we even know who WE are anymore? I know, initially I certainly didn’t … Why is the pain so horrific? Why does it feel like it may never end? (more…)

 

The pain of narcissistic abuse is beyond description.  Unless you have been through it, you can’t even begin to imagine what it feels like.

We find ourselves looking out into a life that we no longer recognise, having unspeakable inner trauma, with no idea whatsoever how we are going to stay vertical and breathing – let alone ‘deal’.

Nothing seems to make sense and everywhere we look, and everything we try sets off even more surges of pain.

Do we even know who WE are anymore? I know, initially I certainly didn’t …

Why is the pain so horrific? Why does it feel like it may never end?