Category: Symptoms of Abuse

The Narcissist in the Workplace

Many people in the community have requested an article regarding narcissism in the workplace. Finally, I have enough of the backlog out of the way of articles that I wanted to write to be able to focus on this one. As with family of origin narcissism, narcissism in the workplace is not really my area […]

Hoovering – How The Narcissist Tricks You Into Breaking No Contact

“Hoovering” is the term used to describe a narcissist trying to re-connect with you after a time of separation. Often, this separation occurs after a time of silence between you and the narcissist. The hoovering generally happens when you are not making contact, and at times when you are trying to get on with your […]

The Effects Of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder After Narcissistic Abuse

Leading up to this week’s article – I had so much on…and the inspiration hadn’t struck me yet regarding what to write. I asked the Facebook Community for their thoughts, and before long there were many responses and replies. If you would like to join in on these discussions, you can join my Facebook page […]

The 50 Shades Of The Narcissist

A couple of weeks ago, a HUGE discussion broke out on my Facebook page about the book and upcoming movie Fifty Shades of Grey. I have never seen such a spirited and heated discussion on my page! It was clear to see from the posts on the thread that people were divided into two camps. One […]

Heartbreak And The Narcissist

This is a topic I have never written specifically about.Most definitely we know that breakups and breakdowns with narcissists hurt our hearts profoundly.When we understand so much more about our own evolution, and the transformational process of growing and healing, we can start to know that the journey of life is primarily through our heart.At first, opening our heart can […]

What If The Narcissist Is a Family Member?

I have just released the updated Quanta Freedom Healings™ in the Transforming Family of Origin Wounds Programs. These new healings are the most powerful and effective version of Quanta Freedom Healing™ yet! I’ll provide more details about these releases at the end of the article.

A Deeper Look At Triangulation

A lot of people have asked me to write an article on triangulation because it is a prevalent tactic that narcissists use to inflict abuse. Most people in this community have suffered triangulation, as I have personally. There is already a great deal on the internet about triangulation, and I know many of you have […]

Shouldn’t We Make The Narcissist Accountable?

Truly…I hear this question all the time… Even people on the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program can agonise with this question. This is how they present it to me… “Melanie please tell me WHY I shouldn’t hold him / her accountable!” and, “WHY shouldn’t he / she PAY from what he / she did?!”

The Narcissist is a Chameleon and an Empty Void

This article is about one of my most recent anchorings into truth. I love how the journey of self unfolds, and as more and more of my illusions (the fear and pain in my body) gets shifted out, how there is the ability to just naturally know things. I think many of you can relate […]