Have you ever felt the urge to go and get psychic readings to find out when and how you will get love right? Or maybe you have consulted reputable astrologers or numerologists to pinpoint when the love of your life is going to show up.
The idea for this week’s newsletter came to me whilst working with a client. Thank you Bonnie for this inspiration! This newsletter is about self-empowerment, and the reasons why we need to disconnect from being co-dependent to outside sources, in order to create our own truth.
Trying to Find the Answer from the Outside
Many of us question when love is going to work in our life. I have experienced both sides of the fence in regard to this issue. Once upon a time (a long time ago) I worked professionally on a Tarot Line. At the time I had a growing interest in personal development, and found it quite disturbing when the same people would continuously call to ask When is he coming back to me? Does he really love me? and If he’s not the one, when is the love of my life coming?
No matter how hard I tried to get these women to empower themselves and become an attraction force for love, I couldn’t. They were broken, empty and not in their power at all. These ladies were not engaging in their own lives, and their lives were on hold whilst relying completely on what ‘he’ was or wasn’t going to do.
Frighteningly, some of these women hadn’t heard from a particular man for 5+ years, and were still stuck in limbo and pain.
I found it heartbreaking, and after a year of this job, I decided to leave it.
I admit I have been one of these women, maybe not quite to that extent, but definitely co-dependently hanging out for advice from psychics or numerology and astrology predictions to try to ease my inner emptiness and loneliness.
In fact during the times when I felt the most empty (before I discovered the Truth about becoming my own Creator) I would regularly pull out my cards, or go back over my transits and try to find some sort of answer to relieve my fears of being alone, or being stuck in a relationship that wasn’t working.
Can you relate?
Chances are many of you can, because the tendency to try to gain power and answers outside of ourselves is a common female affliction. Its called co-dependency…Sadly co-dependency doesn’t work, it only brings us more pain.
I still do readings, but I do them very rarely (because in virtually every case Quanta Freedom Healing provides more real value), and I always strongly (adamantly) suggest vibrational shift work as a necessity, so that people who have readings get on to the real work of becoming the Creator for themselves powerfully and authentically.
This never happens when we wait for the ‘outside’ to change and do something.
There is No Outside
Get this – and get it very clearly…There is no ‘outside!’ The ‘outside’ is stuff showing up as a match to your vibrational ‘inside’ – pure and simple!
This is irrefutably The Truth…
Please know, I thoroughly believe in the powerful evidence that can come forth as a result of a reputable reading, and I believe that even the greatest sceptics would find it very hard to dismiss the information gleaned from a real astrologer or numerologist, who can accurately pinpoint your strengths, weaknesses, occurrences in your life, deep karmic patterns and tribulations and potential.
I firmly believe these systems of nature, life and the universe and how they relate to us as individuals are real, yet what I know is the True Power and Reality of our life is how we choose to work on and align ourselves.
You see all the evidence discovered in your ‘charts’ was originally created by you.
Your True Self is not Your Weaknesses
Regardless of your karmic patterns, weaknesses and insecurities in your makeup (personal false belief systems and associated fears) you can release these inner issues that are keeping you separated from real love and come back to your True Self Power regarding love (and any other topic).
Why? Because your True Self is always what ‘you want’ – your soul does not get it wrong, and life is waiting to deliver you these desires (you and Life are energetically one) once you have cleaned up your false beliefs and fears.
This is the only formula that bags you what you want! Information regarding what ‘Life is going to do’ won’t, because it can’t deliver What You Want without your inner alignment.
If you know you have an interest in metaphysics and gaining spiritual answers, please stop seeking that power outside of yourself (other than for clues and guidance about yourself), and please stop thinking that You, Life and The Universe are disconnected things.
Stop thinking that Life and the Universe is doing things to you, and start thinking, and more importantly knowing, that You and you alone are the Creator and the director vibrationally of Life and The Universe in your entire experience.
In effect, you have been making it all up. That means you have been creating everything in your experience in relation to your belief systems and feelings about Love and every other topic in your experience.
Isn’t this exciting? Isn’t it wonderful to know that if your love experience is not what you want, you can stop looking to the outside to try to make it work, and come home to your inner to create what really works!
Please note that all future newsletter topics will be posted here on this blog so that you can contribute and share your thoughts, as well as ask questions. I would love to hear what you think of the blog and if you have any suggestions to improve it. I will be doing my best to respond to all comments.
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