What does being willing “to lose it all to get it all” really mean?
I explain the answer in this Thriver TV episode because if you are willing to “lose it all to get it all” you can turn your life around in record time.
It is one of the most powerful ways that you can create anything in your life and it takes courage and guts.
And, this is brilliant after suffering the devastation and losses that we have had with narcissistic abuse.
Video Transcript
There is an incredible power that we have to harness creation.
This is activated by being willing to “lose it all to get it all”.
Today’s episode is all about this ultimate step of being able to fully let go of what isn’t serving you, and become the magnet and generator of what will, in the highest way.
But before I explain this to you, I’d like to thank you for subscribing to my channel and supporting the Thriver mission, and also remind you that if you haven’t yet done so, please do.
Also please give this episode a thumbs up if it resonates with you.
Right, let’s get into this juicy topic!
The Limitations of the Mind
Our mind gets in the way. It snaps us off from the power and laws of Creation, by wanting guarantees and absolutes.
The brain’s mindset is, “show it to me and then I will believe it”.
But this turns Creation upside down. It doesn’t work this way!
The reason why it doesn’t work this way is because the creation of everything in your life, as your life, is coming from your inner universe and then flowing out to generate itself with your outer universe.
If you are waiting for the physical reality in order to get your Beingness, then you have it back to front. It is likely that you will be a long time waiting.
No one taught us this! No one taught us how to define our values and truth and stand in them, to BE them, in order to RECEIVE them.
We were taught to research, learn, look at statistics, try to come up with all kinds of strategies and safety nets and hang onto something even if it isn’t serving us, and then try to have something new that is better to transition into.
In some ways, that can be very sensible and applicable, such as staying in your old job when looking for a new job. All working within your existing profession, and after-hours getting your own business going.
However, in relation to situations where we are being soul violated and even destroyed, and staying where something is Not Our Soul Truth, this isn’t serving us.
We may hang on because we think that there may not be something else to go to. Or maybe we are looking for a life raft to come along before letting go. And, of course, we’re trauma bonded, which is the case when dealing with toxic relationships and narcissistic abuse.
Being stuck in situations that don’t serve us, can also relate to a state of ourselves that we were struggling with. An example may be an addiction that you are using to self-medicate away the pain. It’s not the truth of your life, and maybe you are trying to establish new patterns whilst still indulging in the addiction, yet it is not working.
The reason why your life does not transform from emotionally painful situations that you are still participating in is because you are not yet willing “to lose it all to get it all”.
I relate! It used to be terrifying for me too!
Now I know, when something or someone becomes Not My Reality, then it is time to “lose it all to get it all”.
I’ve got a really cool story to share with you about this, which was to do with my recent one-day workshop in Brisbane.
Myself and the MTE team were just about to board the plane and didn’t as yet have a photographer for the event. Iva, my gorgeous staff member, was corresponding with a photographer who we could get at short notice.
This photographer started demanding all sorts of unrealistic things. It was clear that she was unhinged and totally entitled.
We didn’t have anybody else lined up and were running out of time to find somebody, yet I said, “Enough. We are not going ahead with her, no matter what!”
I knew 100% I would not compromise myself, my team, my mission or anything to do with my life with somebody like this, whether we could get another photographer or not.
She exploded when we told her we didn’t want her services and totally confirmed this was the right call.
Then in the most synchronistic way, we connected up with a photographer who went beyond the call of duty and was a total delight to work with.
This was a spectacular and total example of “being willing to lose it all to get it all”.
Now let’s explain the deeper Quantum Truth about this.
Why is “Lose It All To Get It All” So Powerful
All of us have patterns, limitations and programs where we can hand our power away. It’s where we are not Being and standing as our True Self.
The reason why we do this is because of lack – fear, scarcity or poverty consciousness. And our inner beliefs and brain synopsis wiring are aligned with these limiting beliefs, which means that we are stuck in these limiting programs.
Let me give you an example of this.
Let’s say a woman named Jenny has a history of connecting with unavailable men. To get on a new Inner Love Code and relationship trajectory, a very powerful way to do this would be to be willing to “lose it all to get it all”.
This would look like this … anchoring into her values and truth and expressing to a potential love partner, who was not showing up, something like this, “I am only interested in a dating experience with somebody who is available to date and see where that goes. If that’s not you that’s fine, but otherwise it’s not the experience I am looking for.”
And she needs to mean it.
If he doesn’t step up, or makes excuses and justifications, or pulls away from her, there is no going back into the old patterns of trying to get love and attention from people who are unavailable to give it. Just as was the pattern with her mother who was unavailable to love her, no matter how much Jenny tried to be loved.
But the mind is tricky. The mind will follow the body, meaning the old subconscious program of “the people I love ignore me”. Jenny’s mind will make excuses and justifications to try to fulfil the validity of the existing Inner Being program, by trying to be loved by people who ignore her.
She might blame herself, think that she is being too hard on him by setting up boundaries and make all sorts of justifications to keep participating in her old Inner Love Code (which of course is Wrong Town), or she can meet all of these funky and painful feelings in her body with Quanta Freedom Healing (NARP) to release and reprogram them and emerge as completely clear and powerful in the knowing of, “if you are unavailable, you are Not My Reality!”
That is the answer! Graduation achieved!
By doing so Jenny was willing to lose the old order, go empty and start aligning with her new healed-up truth and reality, and stand there.
By doing so the almighty cogs of the Universe now shift to match her Inner Being.
They say, “Ah … this is Who you are now Being. I will grant you more of that!”
This is the truth – your outer universe is relating to your inner universe, always. When you understand this you know how powerful it is to “lose it all get it all”.
Absolutely Jenny is now able to attract in and be attracted to and generate a relationship with an available man!
Because she is Being it, now it can Come.
That is exactly what Be-Come means.
I really, really hope that this has helped.
If this is starting to make sense to you, I want you to pause this video and write below “I GET this! I really GET this!”
I want you to know that this is only the beginning in regard to just how unlimited and powerful your Beingness is to create your True Self reality.
And I am so excited to share with you that I have an upcoming Super Thriver Live Event on March 23rd – 25th in Melbourne, Australia, which is all about this, on steroids.
And I can’t wait for you to check it out and join me in the three days of absolutely mind-blowing, life-altering breakthroughs.
You can do so by clicking this link to the Love, Wealth and Health Super Thriver Live Event.
And as always, I look forward to answering your comments and questions below.
I GET this. I really GET this.
Hi Katie,
that’s awesome!
Much love to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
I get this is this quantum moment in this me. Prayers and acknowledge ment to light workers and lover angels. Blessed it BE SO🔱💯🕊📿🤹🆔💟🔝🕉🛐
I get this, worked on it since 2018…and now the perfect moment did arrive to ‘Lose it “all” to get it all’
I get it Mel, I am willing to lose anything blocking me from my true self and reality. You are a rockstar❤️
Awww Luisa,
So are you sweetheart!
You go girl!
Mel 🙏💕💛
I Get this, I really get this!
Fabbo Flo!
Bless!
Much love
Mel 🙏💕💛
I finally get this and I’m so proud of myself as I had a situation happen from an ex narc and I stood up for myself and realized I am really getting it and it feels amazing and I’m the one that holds all the power and control now. I’m no longer that wounded little girl I was that tolerated the constant abuse. No more tears, no more confusion. Thank you so much!!!
This is awesome Sherry,
it does feel amazing when you take your power back.
So proud of you!
Mel 🙏💕💛
I have been working in a job that I’ve had enough of.. I am completely drained and ill from the stress. So, after working in a ‘steady’ job with a regular wage because I was too frightened to do anything else, today I decided I will not re-sign my contract and I will start my own business in translating and teaching which I have Masters in.. I’m scared but I can’t go on the way I am… lose it all to get it all… I’m taking the boldest step in my life and although I’m frightened, I’m going to do it. So, your video turned up on a really important day in my life and confirmed what I’ve been thinking so thank you x
Well done, I did the same at the end of 2019. I just walked out one day…it felt like my life force was being sucked out of me despite the hreyrocking…one morning the rudeness of this narc colleague was enough ( I offered him no supply) ….it felt like a force was pulling me out of that place…I took my stuff and walked….DONT miss the place at all although I love what I do and I miss my clients. Have regrouped in my time off. When we honor our soul, it honors us…..disrespect, rudeness and toxicity is not my reality any longer. I’m feeling good. So grateful for Narp. So empowering to be true to oneself.
Hi Claire,
This is powerful! Great stuff.
The security is within you and you will make this work!
Much love to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
I get this. I really get this!
You’re healing methods exclude people with personality disorders. Your team have practically confessed this. I know you don’t like uncomfortable queries, and prefer to fawn over your well-wishers in comments. To think, I actually bought your book – twice – because I felt it was worth it; I gave one of them away to someone.
Vapor….I’m wondering what you mean by what you say here…do you think personally that this healing method doesn’t work for those with personality disorders or had you asked previously and were told it wouldn’t work? Just curious. Thank you.
Vapor,
This is about Narcissism and other Personality Disorders would need other methods to help them heal.
I have a family member with ADHD and I tired to help them with their huge problems by using this method but they couldn’t grasp it and wouldn’t do the work so I knew it wouldn’t work in that situation and I needed to stop trying to help them with this method.
Nothing is perfect for everybody so maybe you need another method to help you
Vapor, first off you are not a therapist….. .stop trying to be one…..First help yourself….you may need narp yourself.
This program is not about helping others, it’s about changing yourself so you can live an emotionally healthy life. You are missing the whole point of Narp.
What type of personality disorders…it’s obvious narcissists are not able to change nor socio or psychopaths…..so WHY are you asking these questions? What’s your point here? If you think you can change these types of people, I think you are on the wrong page here. Bye bye
Hi Melanie, my mum has passed away and my partner can’t even say sorry for the loss of your mum or a cuddle or anything! I have told you before he is in the house all day everyday and I am not able to grieve or get peace or get space! Good timing he is away with a friend and has come at the best time! I have peace to cry out loyd and peace from his non support! Been organising funeral and kept busy supporting my dad and really glad he is away as I can actually breathe in my own house! I have tried to include him funeral as much I can but I hope and pray he doesn’t foul it up at any point! I am realising their is far more important things going in to worry about his shit! I hope he makes the day go ok for me
Hi Jo,
From experience I can say that even though you are going through the difficulty of bereavement, as a narc he’ll insist you keep him as the priority, it’s how they function in order to continue getting their supply.
Keeping the focus on your healing and giving yourself that space to let those tears flow for your loss can help loads.
Take care lovely x
Hi Jo,
Dear Lady I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. My deepest condolences.
Jo, my deepest heartfelt suggestion is to not rely on anyone to grant you what they are unwilling or incapable of doing.
Make your own arrangements including the people who can and will honour your mother and family.
Someone who needs the attention to be all about self will tend to sabotage and disrupt events where it is not.
Why involve such a person at all on such a sacred day?
Sending you love, healing and strength
Mel 🙏💕💛
I am sorry for your loss and have just been through the exact same thing so understand. Stay strong 🌷
Hi Vapour,
contrary to what you believe the entire MTE philosophy is that anybody who turns inside to address the trauma and release it and reprogram it can heal.
The only defining issue is whether people are prepared to actually do the inner work or not. We have discovered that narcissists don’t.
There are many people within our community who were diagnosed with all sorts of personality disorders who have healed for real. Such as bipolar, Borderline, histrionic and much more.
Sending you love and healing
Mel 🙏💕💛
Hey vape…or. The key is we (the customer) is the narc abuser(whoever your ego blames), that we must breakaway from…tge only “villain” is our own misprogrammed beliefa that we deserved the past energy exchange…this program is for rhe customer to finally see themselves as an extension of this multiverse…LOVE ALL YOURSELF FIRST AND THE POWER LIES THEREIN. JUST WATCH.
If you mean BPD or EUPD then it is a touch cookie to crumble to encourage someone with huge abandonment issues and deep rooted low self esteem to change. Or not even a case of encouragement but of shifting hard wired patterns within. Melanie offers a way out, 17 a way through, a way to change. No one said doing a 180 about turn would be easy. There are no quick fixes. And in my experience BPD has a tendency to playing victim and to blame. Something evident in your post a bit I feel. Two things Melanie mentions need to be avoided in order to self partner and buils resilience. I am struggling. I am just on the periphery of learning what I need to do to get free and be me. The tools are here for the taking. The work and the effort and the belief comes from internally. No one will do it for us. Mastery over our old patterns and keeping on persevering must be key? Reading a book won’t fix us. Truly believing in change and self empowerment and working the suggestions within it for change might. I’m sorry you feel it’s not suitable for personality disordered people. It may be a tougher road but I am sure not impossible. Good luck and I for one am grateful for websites and advice like Melanie’s. I find myself alone and isolated from my reality and all I know because I chose a NARC and have been waiting somehow for some kind of rescue and way out physically. I am numb and worn out and don’t recognise myself. To try to work on inner healing feels a minefield and something I had once but far away from my current reality. I can only hold on to hope that I have more power to create a new reality with help. I have lost it all to gain it all before. And it worked! But I went back and hadn’t learned enough about my trauma patterns and now it’s worse. I am shamed and isolated or have allowed that to be my truth. From asking for help. So I need all the guidance I can find to find a way back to me and a better reality. Good luck to you. All. It’s no mean feat breaking free. Or finding the strength to somehow do it all again. Love and light to all.
Hi Cat,
I admire your courage and determination. It is so true that if we have a lot of inner trauma and deep abandonment programs (I relate, that was my internal wounds story too) then there is a lot of diligent inner work to be done.
Cat have you checked out my NARP program http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ? I can’t recommend it enough as the incredible tool that will help you heal for real.
If you are on NARP, as a gold member, then please come into the NARP members forum http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/member where we can help grant you much support and coaching to get through this and heal in the most powerful and direct way.
I hope this helps Cat,
Much love to you
Mel 💕💛
This is huge! BeCome! Wonderful! Thank you!
Hi Kay,
I am so pleased that this resonated powerfully with you!
Much love to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
I get it. I be and it comes. Thank you Mel.
Hi Kathy,
That’s great and it’s my pleasure.
Many blessings to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
Brilliant . So spiritual and so realistic at the same time .
I definitely saw it and experienced it all the times . Whenever I was brave enough or desperate enough, feeling that I’ve to unsolvable situation I just gave up. The results always were the best that I could have imagined.
“Our mind gets in the way’ Yes , we tend to depends on a false information which were the norm , the acceptable truth but.. never be examined and proved .
Yes, when we are afraid to lose , we lose it all. And with narcissists it might even stronger that the normal because their mind set is ab-normal and never think like we do and always go on win lose -situations.
When we are strong in our faith , the universe will come to our support
Hi Nira,
Thank you for your lovely comment!
I agree with everything you say.
Much love to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
Hello Melanie
I am from India.i have a son with a narcissist husband .we r living with his parents.now they are alienating my son from me.he is 2.5 years old.its too painful.i am going back to my parents on Sunday without my son.i can’t see his life being spoiled.please advise me if this move is correct
Hi Gopika,
This is a very difficult situation for you Dear Lady.
I really can’t advise you as to what is the right or wrong thing to do here, but I will say this, that if you are being diminished and traumatised then this is not helpful for your son at all.
I am such an advocate for us being able to get healed and up-levelled and well and solid for our children, as the highest priority.
If you Google my name plus “our children” and coparenting and parallel parenting I know that there is a lot of information there that can help you.
My heart goes out to you and your son, and sending you both love and strength
Mel 🙏💕💛
I think I get it. I have something to try this out on tomorrow.
That’s awesome Sonia,
Power to you!
Much Love
Mel 🙏💕💛
l am so so grateful Natalie. l have been following you for long and for a long time l was not able to break from many narcs in my life. my father was one and true because of the limiting believe l am 45 and have realised how we keep attracting other narcs. l get it and l am listening to subliminal affirmations to rewrite my life a new. l am aware of the minds trick to fill pity but l have chosen to only associate with respectful people. Thanks so much for empowering me.
Hi,
I definitely do get the point about the mind that works really strange…keep searching for love in persons who ignore you and also giving love to one who isn’t willing to receive it .. that i have to wirk on urgently.,thank you, Ellen
Hi Ellen,
I’m so pleased that you are getting clarity wirh this.
Sending healing and breakthrough to you.
Mel 🙏💕💛
Dear Mel, this is exactly what I’m going through right now, someone unavailable wanting to involve with me, and not wanting to become available. My relationshp with my mom was also bad. Do we have to lose it all completely, meaning is it possible to be just friends with them until they change their minds?
Thank you,
Much love
Hi Ann,
Truly my suggestion to you is to declare and be now what your truth is for yourself.
To wait is to hand your power away and say to the Universe ‘this will do’. Which means that’s all you can get.
This person is not going to change their mind. You have to.
I hope this helps.
Mel 🙏💕💛
I DIT GET THIS,BUT MUST DO SOME MORE HEELING.THANK YOU MELANIE
It’s my pleasure Babs,
And I so hope this has helped.
Mel 🙏💕💛
I do get it. I just can’t do it yet. I am 2.5 post being discarded after 25 year but because of finances and kids and being responsible and not falling apart as the control is still there even though he will never speak to me. I don’t feel able to do this. I am terrified of making a mistake. I am afraid of letting my nearly grown up kids who still live at home down. I hope one day I learn to put me first and let it go.
Awww Helen,
My heart goes out to you.
It is terrifying after what you have been through, absolutely.
I would love you to check out my 16 day free course which can help you get the clarity, strength and peace to move forward http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse
I hope this helps
Sending healing and blessings to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
Hi Melanie, Thank you for your inspiring words of wisdom. I’ve tried for 2 days to sign up at the ‘Join My FREE 16-Day Recovery Course to Begin Healing from Narcissistic Abuse’ section at the top of the page. But the system does not allow me to fill in the boxes. Is there a technical error?.
Hi Vivien,
You are very welcome.
If you email one of my lovely team at [email protected] someone will help you get connected.
Much love to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
Hi Melanie, Thank you for your inspiring words of wisdom. I’ve tried for 2 days to sign up at the ‘Join My FREE 16-Day Recovery Course to Begin Healing from Narcissistic Abuse’ section at the top of the page. But the system does not allow me to fill in the boxes. Is there a technical error?
Apologies for the duplicated post … definitely some techie-gremlins in the system today! (Perhaps at my end!)
Unavailable men! I stopped in my tracks when you said this I didn’t even listen to the rest yet. Even though I’ve heard this before and thought about it, it wasn’t until this part of my healing journey, after using Narp and releasing the traumas, that I could actually hear it. Despite all of the awakenings, etc. !! This is the unconscious program running for me. My father was unavailable(divorce and I lived with mom on the other side of the country), his father was unavailable (death ) and my mother’s father was unavailable (teenage pregnancy). Two days ago I broke almost 3 years of no contact and guess what I saw ? A married man flirting with every woman in sight and, yes, completely unavailable. Thank you a hundred times over for what you are being on this planet.
Thank you so much Mel for your wonderful insight. Your postings seem to miraculously answer my questions, just when I need a little guidance and confidence! When I was younger, in my twenties, I was much better at ‘losing it all to get it all’ and was much more in alignment with my ‘true self’. I felt strong in who I was, to stand truthfully as me. I married and had 3 beautiful children. I have been married for 22 years and for the last 12 of them have been in a bitter divorce battle with my narc ex. The years in this situation have taken their toll on me, where I was constantly worrying about what people thought of me rather than being true to myself. I have been with my beautiful partner for 10 years who makes me so happy and we have a precious daughter. Today is a new dawn and I am beginning to see the person I recognise as me! It’s so exciting to have that ‘self’ back! and much improved because all of what has happened ‘for me’ rather than ‘to me’. Letting go is truly liberating. Thank you for your spirit Mel xxx
I get this, I really get this. Have to let go. I am a NARP member and love being a member.
I get this, I REALLY get this.
That’s so good Amy!
Bless and much love
Mel 🙏💕💛
Hi Melanie,
I wanted to ask you a question. I got divorced from my narcissistic ex husband but still have to deal with him cuz of the kids. Come to find out….my attorney is a complete narcissist too! So finally fired him. He was getting emails & letters from my ex’s attorney & never told me or shared them with me so I am getting accused of not following the court order when I know nothing about the information they are requesting. So now I am being taken back to court being accused of not giving them my 401K statement information. When in reality I had given my attorney a copy FIVE times! What was suppose to happen was that my 401K doesn’t have much in it so they were going to take half of what is in mine and subtract it off of the half of my ex’s 401K that I was suppose to get so that we didn’t have to keep going back & forth with so much paperwork. Well I have never received my half of his 401K or half of his pension……I am being blamed for being in contempt of court. I have done everything that I can do to give them the information of how much was in my account on the day the divorce was final but my lazy, narcissistic attorney never did his job! So now that I don’t have an attorney, I got a letter stating we are going back to court. I am going to drop a copy of my 401K statement at my ex’s attorneys office. I was going to ask include a letter explaining that I HAD gotten a copy of that statement to my former attorney five different times & explain to my ex’s attorney how I had no idea my attorney wasn’t giving it to him? Plus the now found out that during the divorce proceedings that there were other letters & emails sent to my attorney that he NEVER shared with me or told me about. Should I tell my ex’s attorney that also in a letter?
Hi Ashley,
My heart goes out to you. Overcoming narcissists in court battles is complicated because, as you have experienced, there is so much manipulation and things get twisted and turned.
There is no simple answer to your question and I wish there was! I dont believe that exposing what happened in the past to your exes attorney will help you now.
The only way I know of regarding how people do succeed legally with narcissists is what I have written about in detail in the publications I have created on this topic.
Ashley if you Google my name plus narcissists plus court plus legal you will see these.
I hope they cam help
Much love to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
This me but it seems I am about to lose my son as I called the police. My son was then put under child protection. Now I was emotionally abused by my ex. Therefore I feel I will lose my son cause I thought of protecting us is to engaged. What now
Danielle,
Sweethedat I am so sorry you are going through this.
That is just awful.
Danielle please reach out to a community service where you can get a case worker and support. I’m not sure where you are in the world, but google and make enquiries. There will be support available, which can advise you of the next step.
You truly need this right now.
Sending love to you and your son
Mel 🙏💕💛
After almost 10 years of struggeling in the situation with my narcissistic ex partner, I feel so much better. The last two weeks I’ve been listening to your stories and it helped me so much. I have to go to court again in april. Again to defense myself for the 3rth time. (received my right two times) My ex is a rich man, of course the best lawyer is no problem for him. But I know now after listening to you I don’t have to be afraid anymore. Financially it’s going to be ok for me too.
I know can stay calm and peaceful in court. I lost it all….I have been very ill…. Felt quilty towards my four childeren….But that’s history …A new life has started in the last two weeks! Thank you so much! Keep on doing what you are doing, Love from the Netherlands.
Nienke
Hi Nienke,
I’m so thrilled that you are not afraid anymore.
That is powerful beyond measure!
Sending so much continued healing and breakthrough to you Dear Lady, and your children.
Much love
Mel 🙏💕💛
I get this.
I thing I got it… Ive been afraid of separating from my NARCwife as by doing that, i may not see our daughter for several months, until all the legal stuff gets processed. And that’s been holding me back (as well as the usual hope that things will eventually get better). Now, 2 days ago she called the police and had me spend 13 hours in jail for yelling at her while we had a fight, a fight I tried to cut 3 times by getting away from her, like I left our house and walked to a park 500 m away.. she came running after me and kept fighting in the park! And then called the police saying all this was my fault!
Anyway it seems like te way to get a decent life with my daughter… is to risk losing her for some time. That kind of makes sense.
By the way. Mel, as you mention many different types of personality disorders being healed by the NARP meditations, has any narcissist been healed? I mean, they are really scattered souls, and could really benefit from getting healing. If they just has some insight…
Hi David,
The real criteria for anyone to heal is to totally accept and own that they need to and then stay consistent with their inner work to achieve this.
Does that sound like something a narcissist will durably do?
There is the issue with NARP healing people with NPD.
To my knowledge there is not one credible case which has done so.
I hope this helps explain.
Mel 🙏💕💛
I get this!!!
The Thriver lifestyle proves itself over and over again. An old flame has come back to me lately, making hints about getting married. In Pre-Thriver days, my “body” would have been very interested. Instead, warning lights have come on. Why now?? Having put in the work doing NARP, it just does not seem right. “Wrong Town” are the only 2 words needed.
NARP has given me a new, exciting life. People, like the amazing photographer come into my life now and I can pick and choose who is right for me!!! It always blows my mind because now I do not even have to think about it!! My freedom is most important right now as, like a fine wine, it takes time to really mature and become true and real. I am almost there….but then again the journey so far has been one of “losing it all…to get it all!!!” It has been a blast really!!!
Hi Ocean Breeze,
It’s so beautiful that you have broken through and beyond old patterns and are feeling so free.
Many continued blessings to you.
Mel 🙏💕💛
Thank you Mel, I needed this today. I have reached the point of step away to save myself in my co-parenting ( as ifthere is such a thing !!) with a narcissist. This episode just sipports my decision to cut all my losses and live my dreams after9 years of ” pushing shit uphill” for the perveived benefit of my child. Go me, go community, trust in the unknow and how it always has your back .
MMMMMMWHAH!
Hi Annica,
It is my pleasure!
It is so true that Source does have your back sweetheart.
Much love to you
Mel 🙏💕💛
I get this I really get this X
Yes, I get this.
Definitely seeing daily signs of:
“people who love me treat me badly”.
(Pain on the left side of my head showed up with this belief).
“I love unavailable people” –
(lower back pain showed up with this one).
Time to release these beliefs.
Thanks Mel. You are a 🌟
Ps! Feeling like I need to eat sweets now, after these beliefs popped up.
I choose to release these beliefs instead.
💖