Year: 2015

This article is a follow on from last week’s article Raising Consciousness – The Difference Between Victimisation and Thriving.

After last week’s article I was overwhelmed with positive feedback. Many people emailed me and messaged me on Facebook stating “I am so proud of you for doing this!” … and I really didn’t expect or need accolades, that’s not why I am doing this mission – yet what did thrill me was knowing that people are shifting. More and more people are transcending from mere survival to true Thriving in this community every day.

Continue reading “Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse – The 5 Illusions Of Victimhood”

There really is no wonder that divorcing a narcissist takes the level of trauma of divorce to an unprecedented level – when we consider things such as: the cruel discards and replacing with new partners, new partners attacking you as well as the narcissist, battling over custody and property and the financial losses that generally happen as a result of the relationship, and whilst dealing with legal systems and narcissists in general.

I want to discuss each of these points one at a time.

Continue reading “How To Divorce A Narcissist Part 2”

This first article is Part One of a two part series

I think we would all agree that divorce is one of the most excruciating things anyone can go through.

Psychologists Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe in 1967 created a list of the top 43 most stressful life events. Divorce rated the second most stressful, only capped by death of a spouse.

That describes a normal divorce.

But what about divorcing a narcissist?

Continue reading “How To Divorce A Narcissist Part 1”

I have never written an article specifically on this topic – and I think it is really important that I do.

Feeling “addicted” to the narcissist is one of the most horrible and powerless things about suffering the trauma of narcissistic abuse.

And it truly does defy all logical explanation.

People standing on the side-lines can’t comprehend it.

Continue reading “What It Means To Be Addicted To A Narcissist – And How To Break Free From It”

After my article Narcissistic Abuse – You’re Damned If You Do, Damned If You Don’t came out I received a few messages wanting me to expand on the point I made in it – that narcissists don’t want what we want.

I thought this was a really good idea …

And it knew it could help people understand a lot more … because one of the most baffling and distressing things about narcissists is that we can’t “work them out” from any human level.

Continue reading “Why Doesn’t A Narcissist Want Love, Happiness Or Peace?”