Year: 2015
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When Is It Safe To Date After Narcissistic Abuse? Part 2
This is Part Two of this series, and I really hope Part One helped you understand why it is so much healthier to not rush into dating after suffering an abusive relationship – ensuring that we create a healthy relationship with ourselves first.
Part One, fundamentally was about self-partnering and mating our own soul, so that we could show up healthily as “love” within the creation of another relationship, rather than attempting to get “love” by seeking another person to grant us ourselves.
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When Is It Safe To Date After Narcissistic Abuse? Part 1
I get asked this soooo often, and I mean so often!
This is what people ask …
“Is it time to date yet … because I’m struggling with being attracted to decent men … Why is that?”
Or … “I’m comparing everyone to the narc … no-one lights me up like he / she did. Why is this? I’m dating but it’s so painful …. it just makes me miss the narcissist more.”
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Interview with Nicolle Edward – Founder of Rize Up Australia
This week I did an interview with Nicolle Edward, the CEO and Founder of Rize Up Australia.
Rize Up is a community driven organisation dedicated to educating, empowering and ending domestic and family violence.
We all know that domestic and intimate partner violence sadly is epidemic. Recently in Australia there was a shocking week with two women murdered in broad daylight, and also a child and a grandparent murdered.
These issues are all over the world, and Rize Up is taking a stand by rallying community resources to assist women who need to flee, in order to be safe and re-start their lives.
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Is It Possible To Truly Love A Narcissist?
It starts with huge highs because there’s usually something beautiful. It could be your spirited conversations, incredible electric sex, or how you feel you’ve finally met someone who “gets you” so completely on many levels.
Often it feels “different” … in that, there is much more of a connection than what you experienced with others.
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The Soul Contract With A Narcissist
Most people don’t come out of narcissistic relationships unscathed …
In fact these relationship are far from insignificant, they have a profound impact and they create huge life choices.
I have decided to write this article because I feel the timing is right. Many of you have asked me to write about soul contacts with narcissists, and I have held off until now.
Also, I felt that it is a fitting tribute to the recently departed Wayne Dyer, in accordance with my favourite quote of his of all time.
This one …
Quanta Freedom Healing™ Live With Sandra From Switzerland
Before I introduce this particular blog article and video, I apologise for the delay. It is unusual for me not to release a blog article and radio show weekly, and this has been delayed due to breaking into some new ground technologically and having to iron out some issues.
Well … all good now … because here we are with a new format for this week’s topic.
Today I have a special video to share with you – taking place with me in Australia and Sandra in Switzerland.
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The Real Reason Why The Narcissist Punishes You
I really want to put forth this question.
When we are hooked up in narcissistic abuse (in our “normal” life of gauging things from the “outside in”) our real life experiences tell us that this person, the narcissist, is brutalising us like our worst enemy – relentlessly and manically. As if this person is taking incredible pleasure doing so … and for whatever reason he or she won’t let up.
We also have the compounding horror that we seem to be trapped in this! Why can’t we walk away? We can’t we leave? And even if we have physically we can’t seem to emotionally. And why do we keep getting drawn back in time and time again?
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Healing From Narcissistic Abuse: Coming Home To Our Bodies
This week I put up a post on Facebook wanting to know what you would like me to write about. There were some wonderful suggestions – thank you so much and I will be using these for future articles!
One that stuck out was this request …
“How to start really connecting with our bodies. The relationship between our bodies, our higher self, and our egos. Connecting with our bodies and going in through our bodies really is key. What does all of this mean?”
I have been recently talking a lot about how “getting in our bodies” is key … and now I think it is really time to focus on this as a deep dive into this topic.
I really want to start this off by taking you on a journey of “throughout the ages” … and no matter what your beliefs, just keep an open mind.
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