Say These Three Powerful Words To Dispel Narcissists – Not My Reality

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I know you may scream from the rooftops that narcissists are NOT your Reality. You don’t WANT them in your life. You can’t stand them and you’re firmly OVER them. But why is THAT particular narcissist still making your life a living hell? Or, if you did get free of that one, why can’t you seem to shake other narcissists off and have a life completely FREE of them? (more…)

 

I know you may scream from the rooftops that narcissists are NOT your Reality.

You don’t WANT them in your life.

You can’t stand them and you’re firmly OVER them.

But why is THAT particular narcissist still making your life a living hell?

Or, if you did get free of that one, why can’t you seem to shake other narcissists off and have a life completely FREE of them?

The Thriver’s Guide To Co-Parenting With A Narcissist

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Narcissists don’t co-operate with joint parenting, and co-parenting with one can seem IMPOSSIBLE. They like to disagree with anything you suggest; refuse to turn up or stick to prior arrangements and mess with your children's appointments, possessions and their heads! Are you feeling POWERLESS to get this person to see sense and act decently for the sake of the children? Are you sick of watching your children get hurt, distressed, disappointed and even blatantly abused? If so, then I offer you this complete guide to a different way to parent with a narcissist that offers real healing solutions. (more…)

 

Narcissists don’t co-operate with joint parenting, and co-parenting with one can seem IMPOSSIBLE.

They like to disagree with anything you suggest; refuse to turn up or stick to prior arrangements and mess with your children’s appointments, possessions and their heads!

Are you feeling POWERLESS to get this person to see sense and act decently for the sake of the children? Are you sick of watching your children get hurt, distressed, disappointed and even blatantly abused?

If so, then I offer you this complete guide to a different way to parent with a narcissist that offers real healing solutions.

Why Narcissists Are So Cruel To You And Kind To Everybody Else

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Narcissists can be so lovely, charming, friendly and downright accommodating with everyone else but SO moody, dark, nasty and even cruel to you. Why is getting the narcissist to do ANYTHING for you near impossible, or when assistance is forthcoming, uses this as a bargaining chip or guilt tool against you? How can the narcissist in your life treat you like DIRT and other people like GOLD? If this describes your relationship, then this is a must-read article for you. You will learn exactly WHY this happens as well as how to escape from the horror of it – forever. (more…)

 

Narcissists can be so lovely, charming, friendly and downright accommodating with everyone else but SO moody, dark, nasty and even cruel to you.

Why is getting the narcissist to do ANYTHING for you near impossible, or when assistance is forthcoming, uses this as a bargaining chip or guilt tool against you?

How can the narcissist in your life treat you like DIRT and other people like GOLD?

If this describes your relationship, then this is a must-read article for you.

You will learn exactly WHY this happens as well as how to escape from the horror of it – forever.

You Can’t Heal What You’re Afraid To Feel

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  We have all been so disconnected from FEELING our FEELINGS that we innately believe we should do everything possible to turn away from and avoid them. The messages we believe are ‘Don’t think about it’, ‘Do something to distract yourself from it’, ‘Think nice or grateful thoughts instead’. Yet negative emotions, beliefs and unconscious programs are like housework. If unattended they simply pile up and get worse. It’s my greatest desire that you escape the LIES you have been told about avoiding your emotions forever, and you come home to the ONLY way to Heal for Real. (more…)

 

We have all been so disconnected from FEELING our FEELINGS that we innately believe we should do everything possible to turn away from and avoid them.

The messages we believe are ‘Don’t think about it’, ‘Do something to distract yourself from it’, ‘Think nice or grateful thoughts instead’.

Yet negative emotions, beliefs and unconscious programs are like housework. If unattended they simply pile up and get worse.

It’s my greatest desire that you escape the LIES you have been told about avoiding your emotions forever, and you come home to the ONLY way to Heal for Real.

Narcissistic Abuse Is A Journey… But It Doesn’t Take As Long As You Think

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I don’t subscribe to narcissistic abuse recovery being a long drawn out process, simply surviving the effects of it, AT ALL. Maybe you’ve been told that to heal from Narcissistic Abuse is a LONG hard road that could take you many years and even decades? And even then you will need to manage your symptoms – possible for life? In today’s Thriver TV episode I want to help you heal – REALLY heal! So, join me on a journey where you’ll experience deep soul mantras that will start to set you free in times and ways you never thought were possible. (more…)

 

I don’t subscribe to narcissistic abuse recovery being a long drawn out process, simply surviving the effects of it, AT ALL.

Maybe you’ve been told that to heal from Narcissistic Abuse is a LONG hard road that could take you many years and even decades? And even then you will need to manage your symptoms – possible for life?

In today’s Thriver TV episode I want to help you heal – REALLY heal!

So, join me on a journey where you’ll experience deep soul mantras that will start to set you free in times and ways you never thought were possible.

What Happens When Narcissists Get Old?

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  An elderly narcissist without narcissistic supply can be very difficult to be around. Maybe you are wondering if they will mellow with age or whether you are finally going to see Karma make amends for all the horrible things they have done to you. What is the fate of an ageing narcissist? Wanting to know this is normal and TOTALLY understandable! (more…)

 

An elderly narcissist without narcissistic supply can be very difficult to be around.

Maybe you are wondering if they will mellow with age or whether you are finally going to see Karma make amends for all the horrible things they have done to you.

What is the fate of an ageing narcissist?

Wanting to know this is normal and TOTALLY understandable!

How To Deal With Narcissistic Neighbours

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  It is frighteningly COMMON how often people suffer narcissistic neighbours! I know this because many of you write in about it, and it has also happened to me! What happens when you are living next to a deranged person who is NEVER happy, constantly complaining and even doing TERRIBLE things to you and your property? How DO you stop these people ripping the sanctity of your home, hearth and health apart? (more…)

 

It is frighteningly COMMON how often people suffer narcissistic neighbours!

I know this because many of you write in about it, and it has also happened to me!

What happens when you are living next to a deranged person who is NEVER happy, constantly complaining and even doing TERRIBLE things to you and your property?

How DO you stop these people ripping the sanctity of your home, hearth and health apart?

How To Talk To A Narcissist Without Going Insane

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  How do you talk to a narcissist without going insane? The easy answer would be NOT to talk to them. But sometimes we can’t go No or Modified Contact. Maybe you work with this narcissist. Or perhaps they are a family member, who you need to see at functions. Or possibly you are still hooked in, trying to work through things and you are not quite ready to call it a day. I understand … this happens. So, with all of that in mind, I want to help you get very clear in this article – WHY talking to a narcissist can make you feel like you are going insane, and how to navigate things so that you don’t.  (more…)

 

How do you talk to a narcissist without going insane? The easy answer would be NOT to talk to them.

But sometimes we can’t go No or Modified Contact. Maybe you work with this narcissist. Or perhaps they are a family member, who you need to see at functions. Or possibly you are still hooked in, trying to work through things and you are not quite ready to call it a day.

I understand … this happens.

So, with all of that in mind, I want to help you get very clear in this article – WHY talking to a narcissist can make you feel like you are going insane, and how to navigate things so that you don’t. 

How To Connect To Your Higher Power

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I’ve no doubt that today is going to be a very spirited conversation. (Pardon the pun!) Because I want to talk to you about your Higher Power – and what I believe from the Quantum perspective that it is. Today’s Thriver TV is about how our connection with our Higher Power links into the relationships we have with ourselves, life and others – and how we can holistically integrate effectively and become at one with ALL of these parts. Many of you in this Community have asked me over the years, ‘How CAN I connect to my Higher Power?’, so it is with absolute joy that today I talk to you about a topic very dear to my heart. (more…)

 

I’ve no doubt that today is going to be a very spirited conversation. (Pardon the pun!)

Because I want to talk to you about your Higher Power – and what I believe from the Quantum perspective that it is.

Today’s Thriver TV is about how our connection with our Higher Power links into the relationships we have with ourselves, life and others – and how we can holistically integrate effectively and become at one with ALL of these parts.

Many of you in this Community have asked me over the years, ‘How CAN I connect to my Higher Power?’, so it is with absolute joy that today I talk to you about a topic very dear to my heart.