My heart goes out to all of you at Holiday Season who are dealing with narcissists. Because this is the time where they tend to act out BADLY … When narcissists can’t isolate, organise and regulate people to get narcissistic supply, they can suffer terrible narcissistic injuries that cause them to lash out. A […]

  Smear campaigns are some of the most horrible things that narcissists do. The extent of the means, methods and lengths that narcissists will go to, to lie about and turn people against you is chilling. I know that it’s very likely that you – like me – know how devastating it is to have […]

It takes us completely by surprise… The feelings of losing our mind, being out of control … and trying to STOP ourselves wanting to go back. Even when we know better! We understand that things don’t change. We KNOW that every time we return, within a short amount of time, all the dread, pain, and […]

  If you have ever tried to get closure with a narcissist, you know exactly what I am talking about. Trying to get a ‘sorry’ is ridiculously impossible … Remorse is not forthcoming … and, Making amends is unheard of. Unless of course, the narcissist has no other option other than to appear accountable (for […]

  When my life had been turned upside down and inside out, by a pathological person hurting me more than I thought humanly possible, I remember thinking … How could my judgement have been so wrong? How could I have let this person into myself and my inner world, thinking that he was the most trustworthy […]

  Recovery from narcissistic abuse is such a big thing, and it is one of the hardest things we will ever do because of crippling feelings that are triggered. It signifies the death of dreams that we thought we were going to be living with this person, the shock of what this person is capable […]

  Sooo many people in this community have been taken down financially by narcissists – myself included. And it’s terrible … because you may have lost everything you’ve worked your entire life for, to someone who you know manipulated, connived, lied to you and was in the relationship ONLY for their own selfish benefit. It’s […]

Have you ever felt the absolute confusion, angst, anger, despair and pain of trying to leave a toxic person behind? You may say, ‘I know they are NO good for me!” Are you still confused as to why, despite what this person has done, that you still feel in love with them? Or maybe … […]

  Knowing that you are having to go to court with a narcissist is one of the most terrifying and stressful things that you will ever have to face. Because … you know the narcissist is a pathological liar who is charismatic, manipulative and convincing. You also know that the narcissist is trying to win, […]