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Have You Forgiven Yourself?

Posted on November 25, 2011September 19, 2016 by Melanie Tonia Evans

This week’s blog is a continuation of last week’s blog Who Is My Inner Child

Last week my client’s session was about discovering her inner child and learning how to nurture it. If you haven’t read it yet please take a look as it will help understand my client’s next step of her journey.

This week, when my client started learning to embrace her inner child, we found the next ‘block’ preventing her inner child by being fully accepted by her. Deep down she hadn’t forgiven herself for her past behaviors and choices. She hadn’t learned to forgive herself, even though conceptually she thought she had. Continue reading “Have You Forgiven Yourself?”

How To Find True Freedom And Keep It

Posted on November 11, 2011September 19, 2016 by Melanie Tonia Evans

What is True Freedom? True Freedom is the ability to live your life without fear, the ability to expand and create what your heart desires, and the knowing of how freeing it is to be your Authentic Self.

True Freedom is the being at one with Self and Life. It’s about being at peace.

Sounds great doesn’t it?

But how do we get there, and most importantly how do we stay there? Continue reading “How To Find True Freedom And Keep It”

How To Get Your Needs Met In Your Relationship

Posted on October 28, 2011September 19, 2016 by Melanie Tonia Evans

Did you know that many people think they are trying to get their needs met in love, yet are actually doing the exact opposite or what it takes to Get What They Want?

I’ll give you an example.

Let’s say you have your heart set on a man who is non-committal and unavailable. He makes hints that there is a future for the two of you, yet right now you don’t have a rock-solid relationship with him. Continue reading “How To Get Your Needs Met In Your Relationship”

“The Narcissist Didn’t Love Me!” Coming To Terms With This Agony

Posted on September 30, 2011March 1, 2023 by Melanie Tonia Evans

When we discover essential truths about narcissists, and realise that the narcissist is not capable of genuine love, it’s gut-wrenching. The intense salt in the wounds is the understanding that he or she doesn’t love us now, and never did so.

We may experience this in many different forms. Maybe this person who once vowed and declared we are their soul mate, that they truly love us, and they can’t live without us has moved on to another relationship without even a second glance. And maybe this person is attempting to discredit and destroy us, and is trying to rip us apart in property and custody battles. Continue reading ““The Narcissist Didn’t Love Me!” Coming To Terms With This Agony”

Codependency: Readings and Astrology Can’t Give You Love

Posted on September 23, 2011July 12, 2023 by Melanie Tonia Evans

Have you ever felt the urge to get psychic readings to determine when and how you will get love right? Or maybe you have consulted reputable astrologers or numerologists to pinpoint when the love of your life will show up.

This week’s newsletter idea came to me whilst working with a client. Thank you, Bonnie, for this inspiration! This newsletter is about self-empowerment and why we must disconnect from co-dependent to outside sources to create our truth. Continue reading “Codependency: Readings and Astrology Can’t Give You Love”

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