It is frighteningly COMMON how often people suffer narcissistic neighbours! I know this because many of you write in about it, and it has also happened to me! What happens when you are living next to a deranged person who is NEVER happy, constantly complaining and even doing TERRIBLE things to you and your […]

  One of the most painful aspects of narcissistic abuse is SMEARING. Being discredited with any available information and even fabricated lies, is a horrible tactic that narcissists use to undermine your credibility and even to try to rip lives apart. It’s completely usual for this to happen to you. Often after your relationship ends […]

  Leaving a narcissist can be confusing, painful and terrifying.  Narcissists do not like being LEFT by someone – it is a BIG insult to their ego. So, what does that mean? It means that the narcissist will try to get BACK at you – HURT you, CONFUSE you, cause CHAOS for you and they […]

  You may be stunned by how, even after leaving a narcissist, it feels like their trauma lives on inside you. Do you feel like they have a psychic hose stuck in you, sucking out your Life-force? Why doesn’t the trauma go away? How can you get his terrible ‘entire being and psyche takeover’ feeling […]

  Things get worse with narcissists when they know you have them figured out. In fact, the most precarious times of pain, trauma and getting horrifically abused, is when you know what the narcissist is, and the narcissist knows that you are on to them. This is when it is time to get out. Why? […]

  Narcissists hurt you… a LOT. In ways that seem senseless, cruel, barbaric and insane. Why do they ALL seem to do this without any sense of remorse for the damage they cause? We know narcissists are self-absorbed and lack a conscience, but what is really going on for them to be able to do […]

  I can understand totally how wondering if a narcissist has finished with you can haunt you. And if we obsess about this, it can be very difficult to move on with our life. Many people ask these things often… Will the narcissist try to hoover me? What does it mean when things suddenly go […]

  Narcissists can leave you feeling overpowered, helpless and hopeless and wondering if you will ever feel safe and healthy again. I understand these feelings as this is how I felt at the hands of narcissists too. When we are in the middle of narcissistic abuse it is easy to hand over all our power […]

  Is my adult child a narcissist? is one of the most devastating questions a parent can ask. Some years ago, I went through this terrible trauma myself. In today’s Thriver TV I want to help you realise what is necessary for you to know whether or not your child is narcissistic… …and how to BE […]