A narcissist always has an agenda, he or she is constantly on the lookout for someone to fill the void. And when they hone in on their target the grooming process begins. First they’ll take note of everything about you and ask probing questions all while flattering you. Then they’ll use their chameleon-like qualities to […]

Narcissists usually follow various steps when they’re investigating you as a target. You were probably oblivious to what was happening when you were initially targeted. I know I was – even the second time around! But now I know better and want you to understand better because narcissists are experts at tricking you and everybody […]

Narcissists rarely stay single for very long, they simply hate being alone because they absolutely need the constant energy of somebody else to mirror back to them their significance. The empty black hole they have inside means they lack an Inner Self that is self-supporting and self-generating. So what do they do? They hedge their […]

  There is an inherent evil in narcissists, an evil that spreads darkness. You have probably witnessed this first hand and have had to live with the impact of it. I know I did. I didn’t always believe there was “evil” in the world but now I understand this phenomenon differently and I see it […]

Have you ever asked yourself why it seems that the narcissist in your life is totally incapable of seeing you happy? Why supporting you is the very last thing they will do? It’s as if your success or happiness enrages them to their core. Worse still if somebody else is giving you some acclaim or […]

Let me tell you some important truths about a false self. This is a person who is not authentic. This is somebody who is an actor. They’re being something other than their True Self because they have an agenda. This is a person who is telling you what you want to hear because they are […]

Stonewalling is a nasty and powerful defence mechanism narcissists use to painfully trigger you. Let me show you how to get completely impervious to their stonewalling tactics so you can create your healthy life where people will validate you, meet you kindly and treat you with the respect that you deserve. This way you won’t […]

  It’s such a shock when we discover that the narcissist is nothing more than a mirage. How do we come to terms with the fact that we invested ourselves into a wonderful idea that was never real? Let me show you how to see past what they seem to be. This will help you […]

  My heart goes out to all of you who are dealing with a narcissist during this pandemic, and that’s why I passionately wanted to reach out to you with this topic today! Narcissists need a regular hit of narcissistic supply, so what happens when the narcissist can’t go about narcissistic business as usual because […]