It’s painful beyond measure. When someone who treats us WORSE than we could imagine … who is threatening our very mental and emotional fibre and everything we stand for … and is being someone who we SHOULDN’T love … Just happens to be THE person we can’t stop loving. This happens with narcissists, so […]

  This is quite the Quantum Episode! Because it is a deep dive into True Selves and False Selves and how True Love and False Love works. Many, many spiritual teachers have been teaching us for decades … how we have all been looking for love in the wrong places. This is profound when you […]

  Do you relate to this? When I first met the narcissist, I thought I had finally come home to my dream life. Yet, as time passed it became more and more evident that the dream life with him was never going to be real, let alone last. In order to hold onto the belief that […]

  It is so interesting that, until we start turning inwards to self-partner and purposefully evolve ourselves, we may think that focusing on and trying to stop, change or combat the narcissist is what disarms them. This is a totally false premise – it’s Wrong Town! We have no power to change anyone let alone […]

  When we are broken, devastated and crawling through our life second to second and looking at the rubble of what used to be our life smashed to pieces on the ground, it may seem hopeless and helpless. It is really common for us Thrivers to experience people in the NARP Community starting their inner […]

  Naturally, when we realise that we have been narcissistically abused, it’s normal to identify ourselves with it so closely that we are living and breathing “narcissism”. It’s like living smack bang in the center of a horror show. And … we can be forgiven for thinking that this deep identification with a narcissist is what […]

  Two weeks ago I had the most amazing Shifts Happen Session with Kathy, a beautiful lady from the NARP Community. It was an incredibly inspirational, deep and powerful healing that was a real stand out for me to be a part of.  I was thrilled to be able to help Kathy in this way […]

  Narcissists enmesh with you mentally, emotionally and psychically; it is literally like this person unzipped us, stepped inside and is crawling around under our skin. That may sound farfetched to anyone who has never been narcissistically abused, but for those of us who have, it is a common feeling that collectively we have suffered. […]

  What exactly is self-partnering … and how do we achieve it? Is it something that we need to continually think about and work at, or is it something that we can be-come at a deeper level where it just starts to become automatic? Self-partnering is talked about a lot in this Community. Does this […]