If you’ve been in a close relationship with a narcissist you will have experienced the heartbreak and horror or realising it is ALL about him and her.
The narcissist’s demands (that must be met) are unreasonable and even unliveable.
The invasions into your life, things, thoughts, and even your emotions are incredibly violating.
The narcissist seems to truly believe that they are unique and special, and they need to be treated as such.
Many people believe I am self-assured and confident and have created a great life, which is true. After my Thriver Recovery from narcissistic abuse, I am blessed to live a life that l would have never considered possible at one point.
But this was only sometimes the case …
I will share information that I have never shared with this Community today.
Not only is it healthy for me to be authentic with you, but it may also help free you from shame and pain.
Today, I will share something about my past, a dirty secret I was once terribly ashamed of.
Continue reading “How I Healed My Most Debilitating Narcissistic Abuse Hook”
One of the hardest things to do in our life is to forgive the unforgivable. How can we achieve it? Why do we even need to achieve it?
The reason I’m sharing this video with you, today, is because I too have known the torturous state of not being able to get over the past.
The pain of the past can be crippling. And even though we may have left a situation and / or person behind, and moved on physically, we can still be stuck in the emotional damage.
It feels so painfully real, it’s as if the events and violations are still continuing.
Continue reading “The Best Way To Set Yourself Free From A Narcissistic Relationship”
Today’s Thriver TV is a very important episode, and maybe one of the most crucial I have ever produced.
The reason is that all of us, I believe, have been touched by depression in some way. Maybe we have suffered from depression ourselves or know of someone else who gets struck down by it.
What is depression and how does it affect us?
Most of us have experienced depression as overwhelming feelings of despair and helplessness and “What is the use?”.
In this Thriver TV episode today, I want to deeply acknowledge with you the devastating effects of Mother’s wounds and the trauma this has caused for so many of you in this Community.
What does it mean for you if your Mother did not fulfill what a stereotypical Mother does, such as care, nurture, and support?
How does this affect your ability to feel whole, worthy, and confident in Life?
And what is it like to still be caught up in the battle of feeling like no matter what you do, it is never good enough? Or to still feel like you are receiving abuse, neglect, or being scapegoated for her issues for which she is not taking responsibility?
Maybe things are so unhealthy with your Mother that you feel like the one who is the Mother, and she is a broken child.
Whatever you may be struggling with to heal, overcome, and survive with your Mother, the impact may be devastating, and you may feel trapped in the trauma and abuse whichever way you try to turn.
There may be many reasons why you feel you can’t walk away or say “no” to her.
Or maybe you have walked away, but the trauma is still so painful inside you.
In this video, we investigate the dynamics of Mother wounds, the associated fears of not being able to say “no,” and how to heal from these deep primal wounds to become your True Self.
If you are suffering Mother’s wounds, I sincerely hope this Thriver TV episode holds the key to healing for you and finally sets you free.
Continue reading “How To Heal The Wounds From Narcissistic Mothers”
A few weeks I talked to you about The Dangers Of The Cerebral Narcissist And How To Avoid Them and many people have written in to ask about the somatic narcissist, who they are, and what to look out for regarding them.
I decided I’d like to share with you essential information about somatic narcissists.
Most narcissistic experts believe that there are two type of narcissists – the cerebral type who acquires narcissistic supply primarily with their brain, and the somatic narcissist who seeks attention and significance through their physicality.
What I really believe is that this generalisation is not entirely accurate, because narcissists can shift from one to the other, although it can be argued that predominately a narcissist may be cerebral or somatic.
I am so excited to share this Thriver Tv episode with you because in it we explore the deep recesses of Quantum Realities.
In this episode, I am going to share with you exactly the raw, powerful truth about how to eliminate toxic people from your life – forever.
It starts with this understanding, which on the surface feels totally counter-intuitive.
Believing we are freeing ourselves from toxic people and situations is wrong town, and deeply understanding that we are freeing ourselves from ourselves is right town.
Continue reading “How To Free Yourself From Toxic People And Situations”
What is great about our Thriver Community, and makes it so unique and empowering, is that we get it – we seek to understand what has unconsciously led us into painful and abusive relationships.
This, finally, releases us from powerlessness and victimisation, and puts us firmly in the driver seat of our life. Because we can now claim and heal our internal traumas to free ourselves from abuse and abuse symptoms.
However, when we realise that our unhealed wounds have led us into relationships with narcissists, we may wonder whether our levels of unconsciousness are healable, or even if they may have caused us to become narcissistic in nature.
Continue reading “What Separates A Co-Dependent From A Narcissist?”
Narcissists get under our skin – absolutely. They infiltrate your psyche, your emotions and your soul.
Last week I talked about “Wetiko” the human psychic virus, and this week I want to take this a step further and talk with you about what happens when a narcissist (a horrible manifestation of the Wetiko virus) has infiltrated us.
It is a phenomenon, because how does one one human being affect another human being so profoundly to the point where you can barely operate?
In this Thriver TV episode I am going to explain to you the exact five ways that narcissists get into our Inner Being.
Continue reading “The 5 Ways A Narcissist Gets Under Your Skin”
