How To Stop Playing the Narcissist’s Game – And Win

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  There is nothing more frustrating than trying to make a narcissist accountable, responsible and behave like a decent human being.  We try everything to make life happy, peaceful and sane but nothing works. We are looking to have a game of friendly croquet in a deadly hell zone with machine guns, rocket launchers and missiles – all designed to hit hard and render you powerless enough to be fully controlled and to hand over what the narcissist requires to feed their insatiable False Self. Most of us, like my former self, have no idea WHAT the narcissist’s game is and why we will never win at it. (more…)

 

There is nothing more frustrating than trying to make a narcissist accountable, responsible and behave like a decent human being.  We try everything to make life happy, peaceful and sane but nothing works.

We are looking to have a game of friendly croquet in a deadly hell zone with machine guns, rocket launchers and missiles – all designed to hit hard and render you powerless enough to be fully controlled and to hand over what the narcissist requires to feed their insatiable False Self.

Most of us, like my former self, have no idea WHAT the narcissist’s game is and why we will never win at it.

The Soul Graduation of Narcissistic Abuse

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  People can experience STUNNING results after narcissistic abuse where not only do they survive and rebuild from the depths of despair, they also claim true joy, purpose, abundance, love, expansion and confidence…and to a far greater extent than before suffering abuse, even when abuse is all that they have ever known. Is this a fluke or have they discovered a magic potion? How is this even possible?  Maybe these are questions that you are asking yourself. In today’s Thriver TV I am going to take you through the answer -  Soul Graduation - by explaining what it is, how you can access it, and how by accepting the truth of it and claiming it you will not only break free from the pain of what you have suffered, but will also start to live as your True Self creating your True Life. (more…)

 

People can experience STUNNING results after narcissistic abuse where not only do they survive and rebuild from the depths of despair, they also claim true joy, purpose, abundance, love, expansion and confidence…and to a far greater extent than before suffering abuse, even when abuse is all that they have ever known.

Is this a fluke or have they discovered a magic potion? How is this even possible?  Maybe these are questions that you are asking yourself.

In today’s Thriver TV I am going to take you through the answer –  Soul Graduation – by explaining what it is, how you can access it, and how by accepting the truth of it and claiming it you will not only break free from the pain of what you have suffered, but will also start to live as your True Self creating your True Life.

The 4 Steps to Becoming Narcissist Proof

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Have you been narcissistically abused and fear it happening again? Are you worried that the world is ‘full of narcissists’? There is a very specific Quantum reason the narcissist came into your life – to blow open the wounds inside of you so you can turn inwards to heal and enjoy the best life you have ever known! Today, we delve deeper into the TOP four Quantum Ways to inoculate yourself against narcissists for good because I NEVER want you to be susceptible again! (more…)

 

Have you been narcissistically abused and fear it happening again?

Are you worried that the world is ‘full of narcissists’?

There is a very specific Quantum reason the narcissist came into your life – to blow open the wounds inside of you so you can turn inwards to heal and enjoy the best life you have ever known!

Today, we delve deeper into the TOP four Quantum Ways to inoculate yourself against narcissists for good because I NEVER want you to be susceptible again!

How To Respond To The Silent Treatment Without Losing Your Mind

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I remember those times…when he’d stonewall, wouldn’t speak, turn his phone off or disappear, and I would be in agony regarding how to respond to the silent treatment. I know so many of you know this too; the absolute devastation of not just being abused, but then completely switched off from – as if you don’t exist. So, how do we know how to respond to the silent treatment? If you too have been through the feelings of despair, betrayal and the intense and uncontrollable panic of being discarded in this way…or if you are sick of the waiting around for days, weeks or even months before this person wants to talk (aka hoover you in again), then this article will help you a lot. (more…)

 

I remember those times…when he’d stonewall, wouldn’t speak, turn his phone off or disappear, and I would be in agony regarding how to respond to the silent treatment.

I know so many of you know this too; the absolute devastation of not just being abused, but then completely switched off from – as if you don’t exist.

So, how do we know how to respond to the silent treatment?

If you too have been through the feelings of despair, betrayal and the intense and uncontrollable panic of being discarded in this way…or if you are sick of the waiting around for days, weeks or even months before this person wants to talk (aka hoover you in again), then this article will help you a lot.

Stuck In The Cycle Of Toxic Relationships? Do This!

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Toxic relationships are mind-bending. They go around and around in the same disastrous circles – without resolution. Chances are you have experienced this – or are still suffering the anguish of trying to change, survive and fix these patterns that just don’t seem to stop. How can you get clarity and direction and UP and OUT of toxic relationships for real? When CAN a toxic relationship transform into a healthy one – and HOW can we make that happen? (more…)

 

Toxic relationships are mind-bending. They go around and around in the same disastrous circles – without resolution.

Chances are you have experienced this – or are still suffering the anguish of trying to change, survive and fix these patterns that just don’t seem to stop.

How can you get clarity and direction and UP and OUT of toxic relationships for real?

When CAN a toxic relationship transform into a healthy one – and HOW can we make that happen?

How To Flush Out A Covert Narcissist BEFORE It’s Too Late

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Maybe you know or suspect you have a covert narcissist in your life now and perhaps you are BEYOND TERRIFIED of experiencing another one AGAIN. Covert narcissists are amongst the slipperiest and most dangerous, because they are the hardest of all to detect! Yet…TRULY, it is NOT true that you are defenceless against them. It is my greatest wish that this Thriver TV Episode will take away the fear of covert narcissists forever, and even excite you about your possibilities going forward… (more…)

 

Maybe you know or suspect you have a covert narcissist in your life now and perhaps you are BEYOND TERRIFIED of experiencing another one AGAIN.

Covert narcissists are amongst the slipperiest and most dangerous, because they are the hardest of all to detect!

Yet…TRULY, it is NOT true that you are defenceless against them.

It is my greatest wish that this Thriver TV Episode will take away the fear of covert narcissists forever, and even excite you about your possibilities going forward…

3 Things You Can Do To Ease The Terror Of Narcissistic Abuse

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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    I know the terror of narcissistic abuse – just like I know you do. Like being a deer in the headlights, paralysed, not knowing where to turn, or maybe even what is up or down. Very few life circumstances can make us feel as terrorised as when a narcissist strikes out to hurt us. It’s beyond excruciating. However, we aren’t powerless. There are three key things that you can start doing right now to get relief and access calm, solution and even miracle with what you have been trying, but fruitlessly, to deal with. And it’s my greatest mission to show you how in today’s Thriver TV episode. (more…)

 

 

I know the terror of narcissistic abuse – just like I know you do.

Like being a deer in the headlights, paralysed, not knowing where to turn, or maybe even what is up or down.

Very few life circumstances can make us feel as terrorised as when a narcissist strikes out to hurt us.

It’s beyond excruciating. However, we aren’t powerless.

There are three key things that you can start doing right now to get relief and access calm, solution and even miracle with what you have been trying, but fruitlessly, to deal with. And it’s my greatest mission to show you how in today’s Thriver TV episode.

Watching Narcissistic Abuse Videos Won’t Heal You

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Have you become addicted to watching videos on narcissism and narcissists? Were you told this too?  ‘Research as much as you can about narcissists and narcissistic abuse because knowledge is power.’ I took this advice.  But WHY did I get sicker and sicker? WHY couldn’t I STOP going back to him? And, even though I would get relief when researching, WHY did all my symptoms return soon after? (more…)

 

Have you become addicted to watching videos on narcissism and narcissists?

Were you told this too?  ‘Research as much as you can about narcissists and narcissistic abuse because knowledge is power.’

I took this advice.  But WHY did I get sicker and sicker? WHY couldn’t I STOP going back to him?

And, even though I would get relief when researching, WHY did all my symptoms return soon after?

How Narcissists Draw You In By Identifying Your Gaps

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  A narcissist knows how to target you. It’s no different than a lion sizing up an injured gazelle. ESPECIALLY after narcissistic abuse, you need to KNOW how they do it… As well as close up all your GAPS – the things they LOOK for that MAKE you susceptible to them. If you are TERRIFIED of running into a narcissist again, this may be the most necessary TTV episode you have ever watched. (more…)

 

A narcissist knows how to target you.

It’s no different than a lion sizing up an injured gazelle.

ESPECIALLY after narcissistic abuse, you need to KNOW how they do it…

As well as close up all your GAPS – the things they LOOK for that MAKE you susceptible to them.

If you are TERRIFIED of running into a narcissist again, this may be the most necessary TTV episode you have ever watched.