Narcissist Who? Becoming Apathetic To An Abuser

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  It’s a beautiful day when you feel NOTHING for an abuser and it's called 'You are NOT my reality'. We all WANT to get there, and I know that includes YOU! You can be forgiven for believing, because of how traumatic, painful and devastating the abuse is, that it will be IMPOSSIBLE to get there. I once believed that too … but I promise you this is NOT true. (more…)

 

It’s a beautiful day when you feel NOTHING for an abuser and it’s called ‘You are NOT my reality’.

We all WANT to get there, and I know that includes YOU!

You can be forgiven for believing, because of how traumatic, painful and devastating the abuse is, that it will be IMPOSSIBLE to get there.

I once believed that too … but I promise you this is NOT true.

How To Shutdown A Narcissist Who Won’t Leave You Alone

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Narcissists can seem like terminators, who just won’t stop hurting you. So, how is it possible to shut down a narcissist who won’t leave you alone? Is it even possible? People report all the time, even years later, that the narcissist is still terrorising them, making their life hell and continuing to turn up, over and over again. Why is this? Haven’t these people got better things to do? (more…)

 

Narcissists can seem like terminators, who just won’t stop hurting you.

So, how is it possible to shut down a narcissist who won’t leave you alone?

Is it even possible?

People report all the time, even years later, that the narcissist is still terrorising them, making their life hell and continuing to turn up, over and over again.

Why is this? Haven’t these people got better things to do?

Big Announcement – I’m Coming To See You!

Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  I have some very exciting news for you today. I’m COMING to see you and I can’t wait! Zac and the MTE team are coming too. The reason we are is that during the tour for my book You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse in London and Los Angeles, Zac and I had the immense joy and pleasure to connect with many beautiful people in events, workshops, and Thriver meetups. (more…)

 

I have some very exciting news for you today.

I’m COMING to see you and I can’t wait!

Zac and the MTE team are coming too.

The reason we are is that during the tour for my book You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse in London and Los Angeles, Zac and I had the immense joy and pleasure to connect with many beautiful people in events, workshops, and Thriver meetups.

Smearing – How To Defeat A Narcissist Who Makes You Out To Be Crazy

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  One of the most painful aspects of narcissistic abuse is SMEARING. Being discredited with any available information and even fabricated lies, is a horrible tactic that narcissists use to undermine your credibility and even to try to rip lives apart. It’s completely usual for this to happen to you. Often after your relationship ends with a narcissist – and even during it – and certainly when problems arise within the relationship. The feelings triggered within you may be so INTENSE that you may even feel like you are going to DIE. (more…)

 

One of the most painful aspects of narcissistic abuse is SMEARING.

Being discredited with any available information and even fabricated lies, is a horrible tactic that narcissists use to undermine your credibility and even to try to rip lives apart.

It’s completely usual for this to happen to you. Often after your relationship ends with a narcissist – and even during it – and certainly when problems arise within the relationship.

The feelings triggered within you may be so INTENSE that you may even feel like you are going to DIE.

How Narcissists React When You Leave

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  Leaving a narcissist can be confusing, painful and terrifying.  Narcissists do not like being LEFT by someone - it is a BIG insult to their ego. So, what does that mean? It means that the narcissist will try to get BACK at you – HURT you, CONFUSE you, cause CHAOS for you and they do this in many ways. In this Thriver TV episode, I share with you the NASTY things I have seen narcissists do when people leave them so you can be prepared for any fallout. This is information that you REALLY need to know if you are going to leave or have just left! (more…)

 

Leaving a narcissist can be confusing, painful and terrifying.  Narcissists do not like being LEFT by someone – it is a BIG insult to their ego.

So, what does that mean? It means that the narcissist will try to get BACK at you – HURT you, CONFUSE you, cause CHAOS for you and they do this in many ways.

In this Thriver TV episode, I share with you the NASTY things I have seen narcissists do when people leave them so you can be prepared for any fallout.

This is information that you REALLY need to know if you are going to leave or have just left!

Why Is This Still Happening To Me? Overcoming Your Critical Recovery Blocks

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  I know you may be FRUSTRATED! Recovery can be like that. You may be thinking… WHY on earth do I still have narcissists coming into my life? WHY can’t I stop breaking No Contact? WHY do the same issues keep popping up in my life, no matter how hard I try to overcome them? (more…)

 

I know you may be FRUSTRATED! Recovery can be like that.

You may be thinking…

WHY on earth do I still have narcissists coming into my life?

WHY can’t I stop breaking No Contact?

WHY do the same issues keep popping up in my life, no matter how hard I try to overcome them?

The Definitive Guide To Going No Contact With A Narcissist

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  Going No Contact can be excruciatingly difficult to do. Narcissists are curly – they are very capable of manipulating, duping or guilting you into succumbing, and feigning the remorse necessary to get you back into the relationship. Maybe you are feeling the intense trauma of loneliness, panic and longing … so much so that you can’t stop yourself caving in and making contact again. Please know this is NOT your fault. You just haven’t learnt the rules and the HOW to deal with this yet! (more…)

 

Going No Contact can be excruciatingly difficult to do.

Narcissists are curly – they are very capable of manipulating, duping or guilting you into succumbing, and feigning the remorse necessary to get you back into the relationship.

Maybe you are feeling the intense trauma of loneliness, panic and longing … so much so that you can’t stop yourself caving in and making contact again.

Please know this is NOT your fault. You just haven’t learnt the rules and the HOW to deal with this yet!

All You Ever Need To Know About Narcissists

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Written by   Melanie Tonia Evans
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  There is so much that we can learn about narcissists. WHO they are, WHAT they do and WHY they do it. Then there is all the narcissistic terminology to get our heads around – like triangulation, idealise, devalue and discard, and narcissistic supply and injury. But today I want to condense this all down and let you know, in regard to a TRUE powerful and fast recovery, there is SO MUCH LESS that you need to know. (more…)

 

There is so much that we can learn about narcissists.

WHO they are, WHAT they do and WHY they do it.

Then there is all the narcissistic terminology to get our heads around – like triangulation, idealise, devalue and discard, and narcissistic supply and injury.

But today I want to condense this all down and let you know, in regard to a TRUE powerful and fast recovery, there is SO MUCH LESS that you need to know.

What A Narcissist Does At The End Of The Relationship

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  Breaking up with a narcissist can be one of the most devastating and traumatising times of your life. So in today’s article, I want to explain to you what a narcissist does at the end of the relationship – and how that can affect you. I really want you to be armed with this information so that you know how to emotionally and practically survive this difficult time. (more…)

 

Breaking up with a narcissist can be one of the most devastating and traumatising times of your life.

So in today’s article, I want to explain to you what a narcissist does at the end of the relationship – and how that can affect you.

I really want you to be armed with this information so that you know how to emotionally and practically survive this difficult time.

The Spiritual Vampire – How To Eradicate A Narcissist’s Energy From You For Good

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  You may be stunned by how, even after leaving a narcissist, it feels like their trauma lives on inside you. Do you feel like they have a psychic hose stuck in you, sucking out your Life-force? Why doesn’t the trauma go away? How can you get his terrible ‘entire being and psyche takeover’ feeling to leave? The solution is not logical – it is in fact deeply spiritual and Quantum. I can't wait to share with you, what this spiritual vampire energy really is, and how to eradicate it, rise beyond it and live free from it forever. (more…)

 

You may be stunned by how, even after leaving a narcissist, it feels like their trauma lives on inside you.

Do you feel like they have a psychic hose stuck in you, sucking out your Life-force?

Why doesn’t the trauma go away? How can you get his terrible ‘entire being and psyche takeover’ feeling to leave?

The solution is not logical – it is in fact deeply spiritual and Quantum.

I can’t wait to share with you, what this spiritual vampire energy really is, and how to eradicate it, rise beyond it and live free from it forever.